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Dr. Mike Bechtle
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We all want other people to like us and think well of us. But when we depend on the praise, admiration, or appreciation of others for our sense of self-worth, we become trapped in an exhausting and debilitating cycle of people-pleasing relationships where we always give and rarely receive. The most common advice we hear - Start putting your own needs first! - doesn't work, because we do love helping other people!
Thankfully, the solution to the people pleaser's "problem" isn't to fundamentally change who you are - it's to fundamentally change where you find your worth. In this freeing book, Dr. Mike Bechtle shows you stop letting your fears of rejection, criticism, invisibility, or inadequacy drive your actions and start rebuilding your sense of self-worth from the inside out. When you do, you'll discover that what you once thought of as a struggle is actually a strength.
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- Length: 3 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
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You already have the key to unlocking your real personality and fearlessly creating your authentic life free of labels and comparisons–you just need to be shown how. Whether you’re a nerd or a jock, an overachiever or an underachiever, a loner or an outcast, that is not your entire identity. It’s just one tiny part of the vast you.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Packed with helpful information for teens
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Life Coaching for Successful Women
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- Unabridged
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 50
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Best-selling author and professional certified life coach Valorie Burton knows the value of pausing and reflecting in critical moments as a way to drive personal growth. In her practice, she has developed life-changing questions to help you make meaningful choices that lead to authentic success. Valorie offers a fresh way to help you think about what matters, build the courage to follow through, and discover a vision for your relationships, career, money, health, and spiritual life that energizes you.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Much needed and appreciated
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- By: Lindsay Teague Moreno
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 83
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Why would you settle for an ordinary life when you have an extraordinary mind? Break your good life into six bite-size pieces so you can live a successful life without regret.
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outstanding
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It's Not My Fault
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- Unabridged
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 187
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Using eight principles, a variety of true stories and their years of experience as professional psychologists, Cloud and Townsend enlighten readers on how to make empowering choices-and how to build the life they want to live. It may seem impossible but it's true: taking personal responsibility is not only liberating, it is the best-and perhaps the only-way for a person to get what they really want out of life.
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TOP BOOK of 2009
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 54
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The law of attraction tells us that whatever we focus our attention on, consciously or not, we attract into our lives. Think happy thoughts, enjoy happy experiences. And vice versa. The best-selling Begin with Yes introduces the law of action, a principle that reverses the order - and is equally powerful: What we do affects how we think and the kinds of experiences we have. When we take small, manageable steps, we feel more positive, and our lives flow more smoothly. Begin with Yes is all about setting things in motion and opening new doors. Getting unstuck.
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New approach to difficulty
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All of us are looking for practical ways to take control of our lives, whether in our personal relationships, our families, our work, our health, or our future plans. Daily challenges have a way of overwhelming us, making life harder than it needs to be. The good news is that the answers are out there. And they are Easier Than You Think.
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Terrific, uplifting ideas to improve your life.
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S.U.M.O. stands for Shut Up, Move On. It's a phrase to say to ourselves (and sometimes others) when we are acting or thinking in a way that is hindering our ability to succeed. It doesn't necessarily mean "get over it" or "pull yourself together" (although there may be occasions when both responses are necessary): "Shut Up" means stop what you're doing, take time out to reflect, let go of baggage and beliefs that hinder your potential; "Move On" means tomorrow can be different from today, look for new possibilities, don't just think about it, take action.
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Exellent :-)
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The Courage Habit
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 29
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In The Courage Habit, certified life coach Kate Swoboda offers freedom from the outdated belief that one must be fearless in order to live courageously. Instead, she defines courage as a willingness to act on what we want in spite of our fears and offers an evidence-based program to help readers conquer their inner critic, overcome worries, increase resilience, work toward their highest aspirations, and make courage a habit every day.
By: Kate Swoboda, and others
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Every one of us endures setbacks, disappointments, and failures that can incapacitate us. But we don’t have to let them. Instead, we can use these events as opportunities for growth. In Things No One Else Can Teach Us, Humble the Poet flips the conventional script for happiness and success, showing us how our most painful experiences can be our greatest teachers.
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HTP’S STORY AND LESSONS LEARNED
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In Never Go Back, best-selling author Dr. Henry Cloud shares 10 doorways to success - and once we walk through these new pathways, we never go back again. His proven method - based on grace, not guilt - outlines 10 common life patterns that sabotage success and lays out clear, concrete steps you can take to overcome them. You'll see your relationships flourish, your personal life enhanced, and your faith strengthened.
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Excellent life changing book-horrible narrator
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- Mommy_3
- 06-22-23
Great book very helpful!!!
I really wish I had read this book in my twenties! It was very helpful. I took a lot away from it.
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- Josh
- 02-20-23
Loved it!
It came at a pivotal time for me. I’ve been needing to make some changes and this book has been helping me to see clearly what are my motives behind each decision I make. I’m going to buy the actual book to go through it again. This will be a process but I’m grateful for the help to see more clearly.
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- Sheri Hart
- 06-24-21
Life changing
I'm reading again today. It was like it was straight up written for me. Now to do the work. Thanks for this book!!!
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- Janet Hash
- 12-31-22
What is a good fit worth reading?
It is a good book.
That was good information. I think I would recommend it to be worthwhile to read.
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- Ricszy
- 05-21-21
Worth the Listen or Read!
The author lists some very practical tips for people pleasers! I will be purchasing the actual paperback after listening to the Audible version.
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- bob
- 09-26-23
It should be noted that this is good for business
The business aspects in the closing chapters for either entrepreneurship or sales are very clear and encouraging.
Well worded!
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- Cathleen
- 02-22-21
So helpful!!
Loved this positive, encouraging and resourceful book. It gives insight to the challenges and strengths of a people pleaser and then a plan to bring about healthy change and perspective! I am sure I will be returning to the material to listen again as change is implemented!
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- robertgadea
- 02-20-22
l loved it
It's been the first book i've listed to from this author and I love it. There is a lot of powerful information and advise here. I recommend this book. :)
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- Jetton R HUGHES
- 09-05-22
Fantastic read for someone wanting to change
Take the time to read this audible. The book is so insightful and will push you to change day by day.
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- Carrie
- 06-06-22
worth the read
Was a good read/listen. insightful and relative. Will listen again. Thanks fir sharing your knowledge.
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