The Overthinker's Guide to Love
A Story of Real-Life Experiments Turned Practical Wisdom
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Kristen Ruth Smith
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The Overthinker’s Guide to Love offers hard-won insight-turned-straightforward practices for anyone seeking satisfying partnership in an increasingly complex landscape of dating and sexuality.
Like so many millennials, Kristen assumed dating, marriage, and sex would come naturally someday, but nearing 30 and still without a clear sexual compass, she leans on her curiosity and intellect to think her way into partnership by turning her life into a love laboratory and candidly offers her observations through a series of earnest, comical, and intimate real-life experiments that challenge the ways we define the world of relationship, commitment, intimacy, and love.
Complete with data analysis and experiments that listeners can run at home, her combination of sincere storytelling and teaching reminds us that discovering who we are in love should be playful, fun, and always up for investigation.
©2019 Kristen Ruth Smith (P)2019 Kristen Ruth SmithListeners also enjoyed...
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- Elicia
- 07-04-20
Good message
I thought the messages were good but delivered more like a non-fiction novel which isn't for me. But the messages were good and I appreciated that.
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- Cake
- 03-06-25
the book drags and is boring
honestly the whole book has nothing that really pertains to the title and the whole beginning is unnecessary and cringeworthy
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