On today’s In Your Pants Podcast, we discuss the intersection of faith and intimacy, bridging the gap between the sacred and the sexy! The discussion on religion and sexuality is often delicate and loaded with tension, especially for those who have grown up in religious communities.

Our guests, Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson, hosts of the Sexvangelicals Podcast, unpack the emotional and sexual ramifications for couples navigating life in religious communities or after leaving religious communities. The conversation touches upon the challenges couples face due to adverse religious experiences and share practical communication tips to empower couples in fostering more enjoyable and fulfilling sexual experiences.

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About our guests

Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson are the co-hosts of the podcast Sexvangelicals: The Sex Education the Church Didn't Want You to Have. They are both Boston-based licensed psychotherapists and certified sex therapists who work with clients in Massachusetts. They currently live in Utrecht, The Netherlands. They specialize in helping couples with negative religious backgrounds discover sexuality that works for their partnership. They enjoy traveling to places that tend to fly under the radar, long-distance hiking, cooking very spicy food, unexpected conversations, and introverted days filled with reading and drinking fancy tea. They're on Instagram, @sexvangelicals, and Substack at sexvangelicals.substack.com

Connect with Julia and Jeremiah:

Website: www.sexvangelicals.com

IG: @sexvangelicals

FB: @sexvangelicals

Substack at sexvangelicals.substack.com

Episode Chapters:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 02:15 Relational and sexual impacts for couples leaving religious communities
• 06:09 Challenges people face in religious communities around sexuality
• 08:18 When spiritual values conflict with sexual values and pleasure
• 12:45 Religious narratives and purity culture impacts on sex and pleasure
• 19:20 Purity culture impact on men and women
• 20:23 Painful sex and healing with pelvic floor physical therapy
• 27:43 Communication tips for couples around sex and pleasure
• 36:18 Connect with Julia and Jeremiah

RESOURCES:

Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources

Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program

CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM:

Website: https://drsusieg.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/

Disclaimer:

This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

#Religion #Sexuality #SexandSpirituality #purityculture #sexpositivefaith #Spirituality #SpiritualValues #SacredSexuality #FaithAndRelationships #ReligionAndSex #ReligiousTrauma #PelvicTherapy #PelvicPain #Vaginismus #PelvicFloor

Today, we're diving into the world of Surrogate Partner Therapy with our guest Travis Sigley.

We delve into the essence of Surrogate Partner Therapy, uncover what it entails, who can benefit, and how to approach this nuanced subject within relationships. Travis will also share invaluable insights on self-care in the realm of sexuality and navigating alternatives when access to a surrogate partner therapist isn't available. So, join us as we navigate this conversation, learning from Travis's wealth of experience and dedication to fostering healthier, more fulfilling connections in the world of intimacy and sexuality.

About Travis Sigley

Travis Sigley is a passionate human who cares deeply about education, care, accountability, mental/physical/emotional health, and community. They have been working in the intimacy and sexuality field for 15 years. Their first business was Cuddle Therapy, started in San Francisco as the first known professional cuddling service. Through many years and iterations since, their newest venture is in Surrogate Partner Therapy, where they are currently in the final stages of certification via mentorship.

Connect with Travis at travis.sigley [at] gmail.com

Video Chapters:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 2:08 What is surrogate partner therapy?
• 03:20 How does surrogate partner therapy work? Here’s what you can expect.
• 06:03 Difference between surrogate partner therapy and sex work
• 07:18 Who could benefit from surrogate partner therapy?
• 09:00 How to find a surrogate partner therapist
• 09:54 Approaching sexual intimacy challenges as part of self-care
• 13:05 Communication with a partner around surrogate partner therapy
• 15:55 Disclosure of surrogate partner therapy to a partner
• 18:21 Travis’s personal inspiration to become a surrogate partner therapist
• 22:15 Connect with Travis Sigley

RESOURCES:

Surrogate Partner Collective: https://www.surrogatepartnercollective.org/ Embrace Surrogate Partner Therapy Resource Group: https://www.embracespt.org/ International Professional Surrogate Association: https://www.surrogatetherapy.org/what-is-surrogate-partner-therapy

Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources

Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program

CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM:

Website: https://drsusieg.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/

Disclaimer:

This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

#SurrogatePartnerTherapy #SexualHealing #IntimacyCoaching #IntimacySupport #SurrogateTherapist #SexTherapy #SexualHealth #podcast #inyourpants #spotify #youtube #asheville #NC

🔥🔥 Learn more from men’s sex coach Taylor Johnson at our world-premier online Men’s Sexual and Pelvic Health Summit, November 9-10, 2024. This summit is for men and the people who love them. 🎟️ Get your discounted tickets now. Prices go up in October!

In today's In Your Pants Podcast episode, I dive deep into the topic of non ejaculatory orgasms for men, enhancing sexual pleasure, and building sexually satisfying relationships alongside certified sexologist and men's sex coach, Taylor Johnson. Taylor brings a wealth of practical wisdom, offering authentic strategies for men to immediately enhance and prolong their sexual pleasure without ejaculating. We unpack the intricate layers of internal sexual scripts and societal gender expectations that often breed performance anxieties. We dissect the influence of pornography on sexual experiences and expectations and explore how couples who have drifted apart emotionally and sexually can reignite the flames of their intimacy. Tune in and engage your senses because this is one episode you certainly won't want to miss.

ABOUT THE GUEST: Taylor Johnson is a certified sexologist and sex coach for men, who is dedicated to helping men thrive in sex, life and relationships.

CONNECT WITH TAYLOR JOHNSON:

Website: www.taylorjohnson.life

Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson

Podcast**:** www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast

Orgasmic Mastery Course**:** https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/

EPISODE CHAPTERS:

• 00:32 Introducing men’s sex coach Taylor Johnson
• 01:50 3 strategies to enhance men’s sexual pleasure without ejaculating
• 03:00 The most powerful sexual tool to last longer in bed
• 06:54 How to have a whole body orgasm
• 09:15 Slowing down sexual intercourse
• 11:08 Non ejaculatory orgasm versus ejaculatory orgasm
• 13:53 Solo masturbation and self-pleasure practices to train ejaculation
• 16:55 Delayed ejaculation and ejaculating for stress relief
• 20:00 Your partner’s sexual expectations influence sexual pleasure and satisfaction
• 22:30 Communication is key for a satisfying and pleasurable sexual relationship
• 25:00 Personal experience of not ejaculating during sex
• 26:17 How to deal with performance worry and pressure during sex
• 34:08 How does pornography impacts erections, ejaculation, and sexual relationship dynamics?
• 39:00 Sexually re-connecting with a partner after being “sexless” for some time
• 43:56 Connecting with Taylor Johnson

RESOURCES:

Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources

Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program

CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM:

Website: https://drsusieg.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/

Disclaimer:

This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

#prematureejaculation #sexualwellness #sexeducation #ejaculationcontrol #menshealth #pelvichealth #ashevillenc #pelvichealthspecialists #pelvichealthasheville #northcarolina #sexcoach #erectiledysfunction #intimacy #relationshipadvice #orgasm #pleasure

Today we’re talking about the benefits of seeing a sex therapist. You’ll learn what a sex therapist is, how they can support your sexual wellbeing, and the signs when you should reach out to one. We cover genital and pelvic pain in people with vaginas and penises and how incorporating play into sex can actually reduce pain and enhance pleasure. Lastly, our guest shares her unique therapeutic approach with horses and how she incorporates equine therapy with discussions around sexual topics and intimacy. This episode is truly one of a kind. If you enjoy listening or watching this podcast, be sure to share your favorite episodes and leave a raving review wherever you watch or listen. Your ongoing support is what keeps the content coming!

About Nicoletta Heidegger

Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in Los Angeles. She received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her Masters of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University. When not working with clients, she teaches seminars and classes to help others learn about sexual and mental health.

CONNECT WITH NICOLETTA HEIDEGGER:

Website: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/slutsandscholars https://www.instagram.com/therapywithnicoletta/

Twitter: @slutsscholars https://x.com/slutsscholars?lang=en

Podcast Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:53 What is sex therapy?

02:43 Signs and symptoms that you should see a sex therapist

04:57 Shame and stigma around sexuality that we should challenge

07:53 Sexual pain, vulvovaginal pain in women

09:12 Causes of pelvic pain in men and women

10:20 Hormone mediated vestibulodynia and vaginismus

12:39 Strategies and resources to support those with pelvic and sexual pain

15:50 Play is essential for pleasure and sexual satisfaction

18:25 Sex and horses (equine therapy)

22:30 Connect with Nicoletta Heidegger

RESOURCES MENTIONED ON TODAY’S SHOW:

International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health: https://www.isswsh.org/ Dr. Lisa Valle, MD https://www.oasiswomenssexualfunctioncenter.org/dr-lisa-valle

Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, MD: https://joshuagonzalezmd.com/

Tightlipped: https://www.tightlipped.org/

OTHER RESOURCES

Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources

Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program

CONNECT WITH DR. SUSIE AND TEAM:

Website: https://drsusieg.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/

Disclaimer:

This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

Hashtags

#SexTherapy #SexualWellbeing #SexualHealth #Therapy #MentalHealth #Intimacy #PelvicPain #SexualHealing #PainRelief #EquineTherapy #SexualEducation #NicolettaHeidegger #SexTherapist #PlayForPleasure #PelvicPain #Vaginismus #SexualPain #PelvicFloorTherapy #PelvicHealth #Asheville #NorthCarolina

🔥 The Science of Sexual Arousal and Orgasm! 🔥

Join Dr. Susie Gronski, PT, DPT and neuroscientist Dr. Nicole Prause, PhD as they explore the complexities of human sexuality! This video takes you from arousal to climax and beyond. Dr. Prause debunks pornography myths, offers strategies for erectile dysfunction and delayed ejaculation, and discusses her new research on Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome. For a full breakdown of topics, check out the timestamps below 👇.

Meet Dr. Prause:

Nicole Prause, PhD, is a neuroscientist and licensed psychologist. She studies human motivation, especially the physiology of orgasm on the brain and the health effects of pornography.

Connect with Dr. Prause:

Visit her website: [www.liberoscenter.com](http://www.liberoscenter.com/)
Follow her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LiberosCenter

Follow her on Twitter: [@NicoleRPrause](https://twitter.com/NicoleRPrause?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor)

Episode Chapters:

- 00:00 Intro
- 01:55 The science behind arousal and orgasm
- 02:59 What is the peri-orgasmic flow state?
- 03:19 How is climax triggered?
- 03:40 Orgasm differences in men and women
- 05:25 Sexual response cycle in men and women
- 08:18 What can help you with arousal and orgasm?
- 09:43 Strategies to help you get to your climax
- 11:40 What happens in your body before you climax?
- 12:49 What happens in your brain during orgasm?
- 15:35 Mindfulness practices helps have better orgasms
- 17:13 Does pornography cause erectile dysfunction or delayed ejaculation?
- 20:20 How does pornography affect sexual health?
- 24:15 Dispelling pornography myths
- 25:19 Pornography problems versus pornography addiction
- 30:12 Challenging anti-pornography groups
- 32:09 The problem with semen retention, noFAP groups
- 35:12 Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS)
- 40:48 Connect with Dr. Prause

RESOURCES:

Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources

Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program

CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM:

Website: https://drsusieg.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/

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Disclaimer:

This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

#SexualHealth #OrgasmExploration #ArousalScience #PornMyths #ErectileDysfunctionHelp #DelayedEjaculationTips #POISAwareness #SexEducation #MythBusting #HealthResearch #SexualWellnessTips #SexualEmpowerment #HealthySexuality #MindfulPornConsumption #ResearchInsights #SexualRevolution #RelationshipAdvice #SelfCareJourney #BodyPositivity
#WellnessCommunity #Pelvicfloor #PelvicHealth #PelvicSpecialists

Join Dr. Susie Gronski, a Pelvic Health Specialist and AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor, along with Tom Jeffords, LCS, a Mental Health Clinician, as they explore the distinctive mental health challenges men encounter. In this episode, we tackle the stigma surrounding men's mental health, the barriers preventing men from seeking support, and delve into the neurobiology of mental well-being. Our conversation extends to the vital role of social support, the intersection of mental health with chronic illness and sexual dysfunction, and the transformative potential of therapy. Gain insights into the unique struggles men face, learn the indicators prompting help-seeking, and discover how to select the right mental health provider. Lastly, we address ways partners can play a supportive role in men's mental health journeys.

Meet Tom Jeffords, LCSW:

Tom Jeffords, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker based in Asheville, NC, holds a Master of Science degree with a focus on the Psychology of Culture, complemented by a graduate certificate in Applied Thanatology: Aging, Death, and Dying. Specializing in men’s health, anxiety, depression, spirituality, grief, and loss, he employs a strengths-based and trauma-informed approach. Tom integrates somatic-based treatments, polyvagal theory, yoga, Reiki, meditation, and reflexology to foster resilience and empower patients to navigate life's complexities. With a commitment to therapeutic trust, he creates a safe environment for transformation, tailoring sessions to individual goals through various modalities, influenced by attachment theory and neurobiology.

Episode Chapters
00:34 Intro, Welcome Mental Health Clinician Tom Jeffords, LCSW
01:00 Why is there stigma and embarrassment around mental health in men?
02:09 Why are men challenged to seek mental health support for themselves?
03:50 It’s not “all in your head,” exploring connections with neurobiology and our mental health
06:35 Change is possible! There is plasticity in our biology and psychology
08:45 Social support improves quality of life and reduces pain
09:35 Mental health supports men and their partners living with chronic illness, pelvic pain, and sexual dysfunction
13:49 Talk therapy is like surgery for your nano molecules
16:44 Mental health empowers and supports building resilience, confidence, and inner strength
20:59 Unique mental health challenges men struggle with compared to other genders
25:59 Signs and symptoms of when someone should seek mental health support
28:15 How to choose the right mental health provider?
29:10 Mental health resources and questions to ask your provider
32:20 How can partners support men with their mental health challenges?
32:20 How can partners support men with their mental health?

RESOURCES:

Free sexual health and pelvic health resources https://drsusieg.com/resources
Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program

CONNECT WITH TOM JEFFORDS, LCSW:

Website: https://drsusieg.com/mental-health-therapy-for-men

CONNECT WITH DR. SUSIE AND HER TEAM:

Website: https://drsusieg.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/

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Disclaimer:

This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

#MensMentalHealth #BreakTheStigma #TherapyWorks #MentalHealthAwareness #EndTheSilence #SelfCare #SupportForMen #Mindfulness #ChooseTherapy #HealthyMasculinity #NorthCarolinaTherapists #PelvicHealthAsheville #AshevillePelvicCare #AshevillePT #AshevillePelvicHealth #NCPelvicTherapy #MensPelvicHealthNC #AshevilleMensHealth

Can you have a sex life after prostate cancer? Join Pelvic Health Specialist and AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor Dr. Susie Gronski and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Dr. Nazanin Moali as they discuss sex after prostate cancer for men and their partners.

Meet Our Guest:
Dr. Nazanin Moali (she/her) is an internationally-recognized AASECT certified psychologist, educator, and podcaster. Her private practice is located in Los Angeles. She specializes in helping clients with eating disorders and sexual health challenges. She hosts a weekly podcast called Sexology (http://sexologypodcast.com), through which she introduces the most intriguing findings in the psychology of sex and intimacy.

Episode Chapters:
00:00 Intro
02:15 Prostate cancer treatment impacts sexual function
03:32 Emotional challenges men face after prostate cancer treatment
05:25 Discussing sex issues before prostate cancer treatment
06:10 What men express as biggest challenge post prostate cancer treatment
08:55 Preparation for pelvic and sexual health prior to prostate cancer treatment
13:40 How partners can support men alongside their prostate cancer journey
16:15 Ways to enhance your sexual pleasure and experience
17:55 Building communication skills around sex with your partner
19:25 Treatments to enhance and optimize sexual function and pleasure
23:06 Penis strap on for penetrative sex
25:40 Connect with Dr. Nazanin Moali, PhD

CONNECT WITH DR. NAZANIN MOALI, PHD:

Website: [http://sexologypodcast.com](http://sexologypodcast.com/)

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast/?hl=en

CONNECT WITH DR. SUSIE AND TEAM:

Website: https://drsusieg.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/

RESOURCES:

Penis Strap On 
https://www.amazon.com/PerfectFit-Brand-Strap-Harness-Silicone/dp/B01N9KA2HB/ref=sr_1_2?crid=8M00WOJGED87&keywords=zoro+strap+on&qid=1706730483&s=hpc&sprefix=zoro+strap+on%2Chpc%2C105&sr=1-2

Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources

Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program

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Disclaimer:

This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

#ProstateCancerAwareness #ProstateHealth #CancerSupport #ProstateCancerSurvivor #sexaftercancer #prostatecancer #sexafterprostatecancer #sexualhealth #menshealth #sexeducation #erectiledysfunction #pelvichealth #pelvicfloor #pelvichealthspecialists #northcarolina