Today, we're diving into the world of Surrogate Partner Therapy with our guest Travis Sigley.

We delve into the essence of Surrogate Partner Therapy, uncover what it entails, who can benefit, and how to approach this nuanced subject within relationships. Travis will also share invaluable insights on self-care in the realm of sexuality and navigating alternatives when access to a surrogate partner therapist isn't available. So, join us as we navigate this conversation, learning from Travis's wealth of experience and dedication to fostering healthier, more fulfilling connections in the world of intimacy and sexuality.

About Travis Sigley

Travis Sigley is a passionate human who cares deeply about education, care, accountability, mental/physical/emotional health, and community. They have been working in the intimacy and sexuality field for 15 years. Their first business was Cuddle Therapy, started in San Francisco as the first known professional cuddling service. Through many years and iterations since, their newest venture is in Surrogate Partner Therapy, where they are currently in the final stages of certification via mentorship.

Connect with Travis at travis.sigley [at] gmail.com

Video Chapters:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 2:08 What is surrogate partner therapy?
• 03:20 How does surrogate partner therapy work? Here’s what you can expect.
• 06:03 Difference between surrogate partner therapy and sex work
• 07:18 Who could benefit from surrogate partner therapy?
• 09:00 How to find a surrogate partner therapist
• 09:54 Approaching sexual intimacy challenges as part of self-care
• 13:05 Communication with a partner around surrogate partner therapy
• 15:55 Disclosure of surrogate partner therapy to a partner
• 18:21 Travis’s personal inspiration to become a surrogate partner therapist
• 22:15 Connect with Travis Sigley

RESOURCES:

Surrogate Partner Collective: https://www.surrogatepartnercollective.org/ Embrace Surrogate Partner Therapy Resource Group: https://www.embracespt.org/ International Professional Surrogate Association: https://www.surrogatetherapy.org/what-is-surrogate-partner-therapy

Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources

Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program

CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM:

Website: https://drsusieg.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/

Disclaimer:

This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

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🔥🔥 Learn more from men’s sex coach Taylor Johnson at our world-premier online Men’s Sexual and Pelvic Health Summit, November 9-10, 2024. This summit is for men and the people who love them. 🎟️ Get your discounted tickets now. Prices go up in October!

In today's In Your Pants Podcast episode, I dive deep into the topic of non ejaculatory orgasms for men, enhancing sexual pleasure, and building sexually satisfying relationships alongside certified sexologist and men's sex coach, Taylor Johnson. Taylor brings a wealth of practical wisdom, offering authentic strategies for men to immediately enhance and prolong their sexual pleasure without ejaculating. We unpack the intricate layers of internal sexual scripts and societal gender expectations that often breed performance anxieties. We dissect the influence of pornography on sexual experiences and expectations and explore how couples who have drifted apart emotionally and sexually can reignite the flames of their intimacy. Tune in and engage your senses because this is one episode you certainly won't want to miss.

ABOUT THE GUEST: Taylor Johnson is a certified sexologist and sex coach for men, who is dedicated to helping men thrive in sex, life and relationships.

CONNECT WITH TAYLOR JOHNSON:

Website: www.taylorjohnson.life

Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson

Podcast**:** www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast

Orgasmic Mastery Course**:** https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/

EPISODE CHAPTERS:

• 00:32 Introducing men’s sex coach Taylor Johnson
• 01:50 3 strategies to enhance men’s sexual pleasure without ejaculating
• 03:00 The most powerful sexual tool to last longer in bed
• 06:54 How to have a whole body orgasm
• 09:15 Slowing down sexual intercourse
• 11:08 Non ejaculatory orgasm versus ejaculatory orgasm
• 13:53 Solo masturbation and self-pleasure practices to train ejaculation
• 16:55 Delayed ejaculation and ejaculating for stress relief
• 20:00 Your partner’s sexual expectations influence sexual pleasure and satisfaction
• 22:30 Communication is key for a satisfying and pleasurable sexual relationship
• 25:00 Personal experience of not ejaculating during sex
• 26:17 How to deal with performance worry and pressure during sex
• 34:08 How does pornography impacts erections, ejaculation, and sexual relationship dynamics?
• 39:00 Sexually re-connecting with a partner after being “sexless” for some time
• 43:56 Connecting with Taylor Johnson

RESOURCES:

Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources

Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program

CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM:

Website: https://drsusieg.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/

Disclaimer:

This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

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Today we’re talking about the benefits of seeing a sex therapist. You’ll learn what a sex therapist is, how they can support your sexual wellbeing, and the signs when you should reach out to one. We cover genital and pelvic pain in people with vaginas and penises and how incorporating play into sex can actually reduce pain and enhance pleasure. Lastly, our guest shares her unique therapeutic approach with horses and how she incorporates equine therapy with discussions around sexual topics and intimacy. This episode is truly one of a kind. If you enjoy listening or watching this podcast, be sure to share your favorite episodes and leave a raving review wherever you watch or listen. Your ongoing support is what keeps the content coming!

About Nicoletta Heidegger

Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in Los Angeles. She received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her Masters of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University. When not working with clients, she teaches seminars and classes to help others learn about sexual and mental health.

CONNECT WITH NICOLETTA HEIDEGGER:

Website: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/slutsandscholars https://www.instagram.com/therapywithnicoletta/

Twitter: @slutsscholars https://x.com/slutsscholars?lang=en

Podcast Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:53 What is sex therapy?

02:43 Signs and symptoms that you should see a sex therapist

04:57 Shame and stigma around sexuality that we should challenge

07:53 Sexual pain, vulvovaginal pain in women

09:12 Causes of pelvic pain in men and women

10:20 Hormone mediated vestibulodynia and vaginismus

12:39 Strategies and resources to support those with pelvic and sexual pain

15:50 Play is essential for pleasure and sexual satisfaction

18:25 Sex and horses (equine therapy)

22:30 Connect with Nicoletta Heidegger

RESOURCES MENTIONED ON TODAY’S SHOW:

International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health: https://www.isswsh.org/ Dr. Lisa Valle, MD https://www.oasiswomenssexualfunctioncenter.org/dr-lisa-valle

Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, MD: https://joshuagonzalezmd.com/

Tightlipped: https://www.tightlipped.org/

OTHER RESOURCES

Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources

Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program

CONNECT WITH DR. SUSIE AND TEAM:

Website: https://drsusieg.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/

Disclaimer:

This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

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