Re-Writing Childhood Trauma Scripts

Greetings Resilient Adult Child,

Thank you for joining me for episode 24 where I sat down for a raw & real healing conversation with trauma informed business & leadership coach Denise G Lee.

We talked about the lifelong impact of unhealed childhood wounds, spiritual injuries & emotional scars and how we can slowly recover when we connect with safe healers, teachers & a community that feels often more loving & kind than our own biological family. Denise & I spoke our deeply embedded auto pilot scripts and programs that trigger our nervous system and how we can learn how to self-regulate to calm and soothe our inner child parts so we can thrive and reclaim our right to joy, peace, health & happiness.

Denis specializes in helping leaders and solo entrepreneurs transform their challenges into breakthroughs. With over a decade of experience, she offers clear, actionable strategies that simplify decision-making and accelerate success. Her coaching blends no-nonsense advice with empathetic support, tailored to empower business owners to tackle their unique obstacles and lead with confidence.

I hope you'll enjoy this deep conversation where we share practical tools for overcoming setbacks, gaining clarity, and making impactful & in some cases life changing decisions.

To visit her website & tune into her podcast, click here: https://info.deniseglee.com/connect

To learn how you can reparent your inner child while clearing your chakras and awakening your inner healer, visit me at https://vandanalighthealling.com

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See you on the next adult child recovery healing show!

Vandana

CHILDHOOD BETRAYAL TRAUMA

Welcome to episode #23 of my Adult Child In Recovery Podcast!

On this show, I spoke with Ria Flanagan, a compassionate trauma coach & counselor. She’s an MA MFT, LISAC, CSAT, CMAT, owns and operates a private practice supervising associate counselors and provides coaching and consultation services. She is the author of the book Happiness is an Inside Job Playbook and hosts a podcast, Happiness Playbook Series, on YouTube.

We spoke about Betrayal Trauma and the impacts it has for adult children in every day life and how it can negatively affect our closest most intimate relationship with our children, relatives, co-workers and mostly how we feel about ourselves.

To learn more about Ria, her podcast & her book, visit her at https://riseuprecoveraz.com/ and read more about her Playbook at https://a.co/d/1fw2zXW available on Amazon.

If you enjoyed this interview and found it helpful, please give the podcast a 5 star review, like & subscribe to my youtube channel at Vandana Light Healing and follow me at https://hopeandhealingforadultchildreninrecovery.buzzsprout.com

To schedule an inner child discovery session, visit me at https://calendly.com/vandanalighthealing/15-minute-discovery-session

Thank you for watching & see you next time!

May your path be easy,

Vandana Atara Aura

Boundary Setting For Adiult Children

Thank you for tuning into another episode of Adult Children In Recovery!

I had so much fun speaking with a fellow adult child traveler who spoke in depth about her own recovery process, how she was able to come out of denial and practice healthy boundary setting in her most significant and closest adult relationships!

Barb Nangle is a boundaries coach, speaker and the Founder and CEO of Higher Power Coaching and Consulting, LLC and host of the podcast, "Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12 Step Recovery. In 2015 at the age of 52, after decades of therapy and tons of self-help work in a variety of areas, Barb found herself in 12-step recovery.

She’s been in two such fellowships since then and has changed deeply and profoundly as aresult. As a former addict and people-pleasing rescuer, she empowers people to thrive and take more control over their personal and professional lives by coaching them to build healthy boundaries.

She works with organizations in the helping professions, as well as women entrepreneurs toavoid burnout and reduce turnover. Her specialty is working with professional women who say yes when they really want to say no, and neglect themselves because they are hyperfocusd on others.

To work with Barb, visit: https://higherpowercc.com/private-coaching/ and her podcast is From Fragmented To Whole: https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/
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Thank you for watching!
Vandana Atara Aura

In this episode, I had the honor & pleasure to speak to a fellow inner child coach who shed so much light on how she was able to heal, recover from years of multi-generational religious trauma & deprogram her inner child from stressful fear-based thinking & learn how to regulate her emotional nervous system.

Alicia Farricielli holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Metaphysical Science, B.Msc., and has cultivated a 20-year multifaceted career in marketing, public relations, and entrepreneurship. Now, as a Certified Life and Health Coach, she specializes in inner child work, intuitive healing, and personal empowerment. Alicia’s approach centers on the profound importance of intuition, holistic well-being, and achieving life balance, guiding her clients to overcome limiting beliefs and embrace transformative change, unlocking their true potential. Drawing from her own journey of overcoming adversity and mastering life's complexities, Alicia infuses her coaching with empathy and deep insight, empowering individuals in their quest for self-discovery and liberation from insecurity, anxiety, and burnout. Dedicated to fostering inner strength and harmony, Alicia serves as a steadfast pillar of support and inspiration for those seeking authenticity, growth, and a harmoniously empowered life.

Additionally, Alicia is the host of The Intuitive Revolution Podcast, her website is: https://www.aliciafarricielli.com/ & her Free Inner Child Workshop is https://aliciafarricielli.com/free-inner-child-workshop

Please hit the like button, give us a 5-star review & subscribe to my podcast on Buzzsprout at https://hopeandhealingforadultchildreninrecovery.buzzsprout.com & my You Tube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/@VandanaLightHealing To schedule a discovery session and receive a free gift when you subscribe to my website, visit https://vandanalighthealing.com

Blessings to you & your inner child!
Vandana Atara Aura

Hello Adult Children,

Today I welcomed back one of my most requested guests Phyllis Leavitt to unpack the potential danger when our inner childhood wounds, abuse & trauma remain buried and unhealed and how the toxic after effects of being raised in an abusive and dysfunctional home may and often do negatively affect all of us on in our adult relationships and why every one of us benefits from therapy.

Phyllis & I discussed the importance of mental health globally and systemically as a solution to live peacefully and non-violently so every one of us can be safe by embodying conscious awareness, kindness, compassion & one day end the war with ourselves and each other.

Phyllis is a psychotherapist who has treated children, families, couples, and individual adults for 34 years, specializing with abuse and dysfunctional family dynamics, their aftermath, and some of the most important elements for healing.

She's published three books, A Light in the Darkness, Into the Fire & her latest. book, America in Therapy: A New Approach to Hope and Healing for a Nation in Crisis. She lives with her husband in Taos, NM and is now retired from her psychotherapy practice focusing on writing and speaking.

Her website is https://phyllisleavitt.com

To learn more about how to reparent your inner child, please visit my website to schedule a discovery session so I may serve & support you at https://vandanalighthealing.com

Greetings Adult Child,

On this episode, I met with the "un-doctor" Dr Fred Moss who shares that you may not have a mental illness and there may be absolutely nothing wrong with you.

Dr. Fred Moss is a mental health advocate/psychiatrist serving in many capacities: keynote speaker, psychiatry expert witness, podcaster, mental health coach, and teacher. A desire to help people be real and heard has been the driving force leading him to multiple settings and roles as a psychiatrist over the years and compelling him to continually look for better, more effective ways to provide the highest quality care to align people with their most authentic self to deliver into an eagerly awaiting world. He is the amazing creator of Welcome To Humanity, The True Voice Course, Healing the Healer, and Global Madness.

As the founder of the Welcome to Humanity movement, and the True Voice Mastermind and methodology, Dr. Fred now finds himself making the difference he came here to make. His years in the community, where he has been a physician to over 40,000 patients, and his storied and adventurous life traveling around the world has left him uniquely qualified to remind us of what we already know. Communication is where love arises from, and speaking the truth and listening authentically is the source of that love.

He is the author of "Creative 8 - Healing Through Creativity and Self-Expression" and "Find Your True Voice!". He has written many articles for Psychology Today. Also, he has won an award for the best essay at the 2019 Conference for Global Transformation, titled "Global Madness, What Must Happen to Unite.”

To learn more about Dr Fred, visit his website at https://drfred360.com/

To learn how to become your own loving parent, schedule a 15 minute discovery session with me at https://vandanalighthealing.com

Please like, review & subscribe to my YouTube Channel at Vandana LIght Healing & share my adult child in recovery podcast with others who have had a difficult childhood.

Bless You,
Vandana

Greetings To All Adult Children,

It was my honor & pleasure to sit in conversation with a narcissistic coach & therapist in today's latest Adult Child In Recovery Podcast.

About Darren Elliott

Darren is a warm and compassionate story teller who has an exceptional perspective as both a survivor of narcissistic abuse and now a coach and therapist specializing in this field. His personal journey, from victim to therapist, provides an intimate understanding of the subject. He has unraveled the energetic processes of narcissism and developed a unique orientation towards relational healing, recognizing that narcissism cannot heal in isolation; it's a disorder of disconnection.

His work involves helping clients unpack narcissistic woundings, uncover their impact, and make choices that lead to more intimate, loving, and sustainable relationships. Darren believes in the power of coaching, trauma therapy, and fostering loving kindness as a healthy human behavior. We are inherently pack animals, meant to support one another for mutual thriving, and it's a perspective he actively promotes. Before becoming a therapist and coach,

He's a crusader for human rights through his singing mental health drag character, Doreen, who features on social media with messages of love, belonging and mental health awareness. https://friendsofdoreen.com & is currently working on his first book, "Love Loops" that describes his work with narcissism and more generally with Men who have disconnected from their emotions and the negative impact that has on their families, and why and how there is a better way.

Darren reminds us, "You can't group up emotionally by not feeling your feelings" For more information, you can connect with him on these websites: https://darrenelliott.ca and https://coachingfornarcissism.com

To learn more about my inner child coaching & energy healing services, visit my website at https://vandanalighthealiing.com to schedule a 15 minute clarity call & if this video has helped & inspired you, give a thumbs up, like & subscribe to my podcast at https://hopeandhealingforadultchildreninrecovery.buzzsprout.com/ & my You Tube Channel at Vandana Light Healing.

Stay tuned for more inspiring episodes to come!

Blessings,
Vandana

Greetings Beautiful Adult Child,

In my latest adult child in recovery podcast, I sat down with Katharine Giovanni, an amazing author, speaker & forgiveness facilitator!

Katharine's a three-time award-winning best-selling author, speaker, and one of the original founders of the independent concierge industry. Katharine has authored over twelve books, including her latest release, 'The Ultimate Path to Forgiveness: Unlocking Your Power.' Katharine's journey, from battling stage 3 breast cancer to navigating a challenging childhood, has given her profound insights about resilience and forgiveness.

During our time together, she walked us through a unique forgiveness modality that was both gentle & powerful so I hope you tune in and try this healing method to heal your inner child, teen & especially those loud & overwhelming voices of your inner critic that is really just trying to protect you.

You can find more information about her & her brand new book on her website at https://katharinegiovanni.com/

To learn more about me & my inner child mentoring sessions, visit my website at https://vandanalighthealing.com

If you enjoyed this episode and found it helpful, please like & subscribe to my podcast on You Tube & on my podcast platforms.

Blessings,

Vandana