Who the F*ck Am I?
The People Pleaser's Guide to Self-Love
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Jennifer Layer
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Jennifer Layer
About this listen
Are you trying your hardest to be a better you, but still feel like it’s not enough? Looking for fulfillment, but stuck with an empty cup? Struggling to communicate and connect with others? Do you question who you are?
Constantly contorting yourself into prescribed molds of who you think you are supposed to be is an exhausting reality with which author Jennifer Layer is deeply familiar.
In this audiobook, she untangles the sticky web of people-pleasing patterns she'd cultivated throughout her life - patterns she thought kept her safe and loved, only to find that they silently tore her apart and left her empty.
Whether you’re a textbook people-pleaser or just struggle with filling your own cup, this listen provides companionship and tools to help you manage your emotions, actions, and thoughts, so you can create a more peaceful and balanced relationship with yourself and the world around you.
You’re not as alone as you think. Let’s grow together, shall we?
©2021 Jennifer Layer (P)2021 Jennifer LayerListeners also enjoyed...
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Life changing
- By KM on 07-27-22
By: Debi Silber PhD
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Perfectly Hidden Depression
- How to Break Free from the Perfectionism That Masks Your Depression
- By: Margaret Robinson Rutherford PhD
- Narrated by: Eleanor Caudill
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 64
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 54
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 53
If you were raised to believe that painful emotions are a sign of weakness, or if being vulnerable has always made you feel unsafe, then you may have survived by creating a perfect-looking life - a life where you appear to be successful, engaged, and always there for others. The problem? You're filled with self-criticism and shame, and you can't allow yourself to express fear, anger, loss, or grief. You recognize something is wrong, but you're not sure what exactly - only that you feel trapped and alone. If this sounds like you, you may have perfectly hidden depression (PHD).
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5 out of 5 stars
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Amazing
- By Kimberly Davis on 10-27-20
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Codependent No More
- How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
- By: Melody Beattie
- Narrated by: Melody Beattie
- Length: 8 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,052
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 916
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 913
Is someone else's problem your problem? If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to a loved one’s self-destructive behavior, you may be codependent—and you may find yourself in this book. With personal reflections, exercises, and instructive stories drawn from Beattie’s own life and the lives of those she’s counseled, Codependent No More helps you break old patterns and maintain healthy boundaries, and offers a clear and achievable path to healing, hope, freedom, and happiness.
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2 out of 5 stars
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great book with unbearable reader
- By Nielah on 09-01-22
By: Melody Beattie
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The Good Karma Divorce
- Avoid Litigation, Turn Negative Emotions into Positive Actions, and Get On with the Rest of Your Life
- By: Judge Michele F. Lowrance
- Narrated by: Judge Michele F. Lowrance
- Length: 4 hrs and 20 mins
- Abridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 57
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 37
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 36
The average divorce takes two years with a median cost of $30,000. Yet the true cost of divorce is more than time or money; it is the legacy of the decisions made during the process. No matter how long two people have been married, whether there are children or not, divorce often leads to bad choices that can forever alter a family's life. But what if you could reverse the stereotype and move regret-free through this process?
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5 out of 5 stars
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Thanks for the great advice!
- By Tom Clemente on 11-09-16
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Gratitude and Trust
- Six Affirmations That Will Change Your Life
- By: Paul Williams, Tracey Jackson
- Narrated by: Paul Williams, Tracey Jackson
- Length: 6 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 124
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 104
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 104
Paul Williams is an alcoholic. Tracey Jackson is not. But together, these two close friends have written Gratitude and Trust, a book designed to apply the principles of the recovery movement to the countless people who are not addicts but nevertheless need effective help with their difficulties and pain. Williams, the award-winning songwriter, actor, and performer, has embraced a traditional alcoholism recovery plan for more than two decades of sobriety.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Just what I needed!
- By Cheryl on 02-18-15
By: Paul Williams, and others
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I Used to Be a Miserable F*ck
- An Everyman’s Guide to a Meaningful Life
- By: John Kim
- Narrated by: John Kim
- Length: 5 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,236
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 1,074
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 1,076
In I Used to Be a Miserable F*ck, Kim delivers the dos and don’ts for stepping up and into manhood, which he defines by transparency and strength of character, not six-pack abs or a corner office. With his signature no-nonsense approach that will make you laugh and think, Kim takes you on a rugged, rough-and-tumble road trip of self-exploration and discovery, sharing his wisdom and insights.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Some wisdom, some common knowledge.
- By Rick on 02-21-19
By: John Kim
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Fierce Self-Compassion
- How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power, and Thrive
- By: Kristin Neff
- Narrated by: Jean Ann Douglass
- Length: 12 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 305
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 258
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 257
Kristin Neff changed how we talk about self-care with her enormously popular first book, Self-Compassion. Now, 10 years and many studies later, she expands her body of work to explore a brand-new take on self-compassion. Although kindness and self-acceptance allow us to be with ourselves as we are, in all our glorious imperfection, the desire to alleviate suffering at the heart of this mindset isn't always gentle, sometimes it's fierce.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Liberal Activism distracting
- By Janiene on 07-26-21
By: Kristin Neff
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Hungry for Happiness, Revised and Updated
- Stop Emotional Eating & Start Loving Yourself
- By: Samantha Skelly
- Narrated by: Samantha Skelly
- Length: 6 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 27
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 22
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 23
Break free of the binge-eating cycle and heal your relationship with your body by tapping into your intuition through meditation, breathwork, and journaling.
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4 out of 5 stars
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A journey of self worth
- By Jes_074 on 07-12-24
By: Samantha Skelly
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The New Codependency
- Help and Guidance for Today's Generation
- By: Melody Beattie
- Narrated by: Lorna Raver
- Length: 10 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 645
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 510
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 508
In Codependent No More, Melody Beattie introduced the world to the term codependency. In The New Codependency, she clears up misconceptions, identifies how codependent behavior has changed, and provides a new generation with a road map to wellness.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Please offer with different narrator
- By Janie on 11-12-09
By: Melody Beattie
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The Self-Love Experiment
- Fifteen Principles for Becoming More Kind, Compassionate, and Accepting of Yourself
- By: Shannon Kaiser
- Narrated by: Shannon Kaiser
- Length: 7 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 349
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 297
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Story4 out of 5 stars 295
Put a stop to self-sabotage and overcome your fears so that you can gain the confidence you need to reach your goals and become your own best friend. Too many people seem to believe that they are not allowed to put themselves first or go after their own dreams out of fear of being selfish or sacrificing others' needs. The Self-Love Experiment rectifies this problem. Whether you want to achieve weight loss, land your dream job, find your soul mate, or get out of debt, it all comes back to self-love and accepting yourself first.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Not for me.
- By Crippledhobo on 06-24-18
By: Shannon Kaiser
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The Codependency Recovery Plan
- A 5-Step Guide to Understand, Accept, and Break Free from the Codependent Cycle
- By: Krystal Mazzola M.Ed LMFT
- Narrated by: Linda Henning
- Length: 4 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 143
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 111
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 111
You can say no. You can stop people-pleasing and start setting boundaries. You can ask for what you need. You can love and be loved - without sacrifice - by breaking the codependency cycle. The Codependency Recovery Plan empowers you to have healthy, happy interdependent relationships. This actionable five-step program is designed to help you get in touch with yourself, assert boundaries, and communicate confidently. You’ll be free to nurture true intimacy.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Great content, audio not for the neurodiverse
- By Danielle A on 01-30-23
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Why Good People Do Bad Things
- By: Debbie Ford
- Narrated by: Debbie Ford
- Length: 8 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 143
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 70
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 72
Why Good People Do Bad Things exposes the pervasive and often hidden impulses that influence our everyday decisions. The headlines are full of stories of good people gone astray. They show up on the evening news and are splashed across the weekly tabloids.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Examples but no help changing...
- By Rebecca on 12-13-11
By: Debbie Ford
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Make Peace with Your Mind
- How Mindfulness and Compassion Can Free You from Your Inner Critic
- By: Mark Coleman
- Narrated by: Mark Coleman
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 60
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 52
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Story5 out of 5 stars 52
The inner critic is the voice inside our heads reminding us that we are never "good enough". It's behind the insidious thoughts that can make us second-guess our every action and doubt our own value. The inner critic might feel overpowering, but it can be managed effectively. Meditation teacher and therapist Mark Coleman helps listeners understand and free themselves from the inner critic using the tools of mindfulness and compassion.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Life changing!
- By Lisa Ackerman on 12-28-20
By: Mark Coleman
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The Only Little Prayer You Need
- The Shortest Route to a Life of Joy, Abundance, and Peace of Mind
- By: Debra Landwehr Engle
- Narrated by: Debra Landwehr Engle
- Length: 2 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 84
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 76
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 76
A typical prayer goes something like this: "Please help us find the money to pay our mortgage this month." Saying the prayer may help you feel like the burden of that month's mortgage has been lifted, but the part of you that feeds on fear will simply seek out new financial worries to keep you awake at night. Old patterns remain intact.
In contrast, asking, "Please heal my fear-based thoughts about our mortgage" lifts the burden and relieves the need to re-create that fear and hold onto it.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Sad & Insulting In One Nasty Package
- By Sara on 01-11-15
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If the Buddha Got Stuck
- A Handbook for Change on a Spiritual Path
- By: Charlotte Kasl
- Narrated by: Renée Raudman
- Length: 8 hrs and 8 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 80
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 58
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 57
Charlotte Kasl's perennial favorites If the Buddha Dated and If the Buddha Married have inspired readers with their empowering blend of spiritual and psychological insights. Her third "If the Buddha" book, If the Buddha Got Stuck, is a wise yet lighthearted book that will speak to anyone who's ever experienced being stuck in life and wanted to break free.
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4 out of 5 stars
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i like the author's blend of spirituality
- By dayle on 01-09-12
By: Charlotte Kasl
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The Dark Side of the Light Chasers
- By: Debbie Ford
- Narrated by: Debbie Ford
- Length: 8 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 921
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 763
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 755
Debbie Ford explains that the dark side of our personality should not be hidden. By denying our dark side, we reject aspects of our true natures rather than giving ourselves the freedom to live authentically. Here she shows that it is possible to acknowledge and accept our so-called weaknesses, proving that these qualities may be hidden strengths. Full of illuminating stories and practical exercises, Debbie Ford shows us how to reconcile our darker impulses and find the gifts they offer.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Great book and I would combine it with others
- By Jes_074 on 05-01-17
By: Debbie Ford
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Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents
- Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy
- By: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Narrated by: Suzie Althens
- Length: 7 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 565
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 474
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Story5 out of 5 stars 470
In this important sequel to Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, author Lindsay Gibson offers powerful tools to help you step back and protect yourself at the first sign of an emotional takeover, make sure your emotions and needs are respected, and break free from the coercive control of emotionally immature parents.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Asinine
- By Amazon Customer on 07-14-20
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- PearlGirl
- 05-14-24
Amazing
I absolutely love this book The Way She read it and told her story it was so close to home for me it was as if she was almost telling my story through her. she also gave some great advice on things that I also need to work on and I'm going to start working on because it was almost as if she was talking to me as well so yes I would highly highly recommend this book
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- Michael J Roberts
- 11-20-23
Very helpful!
Learning to love yourself is difficult and the author really simplifies the process. I’ve grown as a result of listening to this book.
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- J
- 09-18-22
Helped me take a look at traits I have denied
I felt like I was looking into a mirror, I am currently going through a divorce from a loveless marriage and what the author described was me to a t. I always thought I loved myself but now I realized that I have sought validation from others to justify my self worth. This book is eye opening for any people pleasers.
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- Jen
- 10-25-21
Heart warming
Feels like she’s sitting right next to me on the couch, talking to me as a friend. No shame, no demands. Only love. And God knows I now have more tools to love myself better.
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