The Secrets of Happy Families

Surprising New Ideas to Bring More Togetherness, Less Chaos, and Greater Joy

By: Bruce Feiler

Narrated by: Bruce Feiler

Length: 7 hrs and 44 mins

Publisher's summary

• Don't worry about family dinner.
• Let your kids pick their punishments.
• Ditch the sex talk.
• Cancel date night.

These are just a few of the surprising innovations in this bold first-of-its-kind playbook for today's families. Best-selling author and New York Times family columnist Bruce Feiler found himself squeezed between caring for aging parents and raising his children. So he set out on a three-year journey to find the smartest solutions and the most cutting-edge research about families. Instead of the usual family "experts", he sought out the most creative minds - from Silicon Valley to the set of Modern Family, from the country's top negotiators to the Green Berets - and asked them what team-building exercises and problem-solving techniques they use with their families. Feiler then tested these ideas with his wife and kids. The result is a fun, original look at how families can draw closer together, complete with 200 never-before-seen best practices.

Feiler's life-changing discoveries include a radical plan to reshape your family in 20 minutes a week, Warren Buffett's guide for setting an allowance, and the Harvard handbook for resolving conflict. The Secrets of Happy Families is a timely, counterintuitive book that answers the questions countless parents are asking: How do we manage the chaos of our lives? How do we teach our kids values? How do we make our family happier?

Written in a charming, accessible style, The Secrets of Happy Families is smart, funny, and fresh, and will forever change how your family lives every day.

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©2013 Bruce Feiler (P)2013 HarperCollins Publishers

Well worth reading, even if you can't do it all!

Any additional comments?

This is a practical guide to things that work for families. It is not a 'therapist' type guide, where research has been done...kind of book. Just what works for real people, in real & imperfect lives. I liked that, because that describes the kind of families I know.

I think he does a nice job discussing what makes these methods work, and how the families benefit. Also, he does point out how his wife is not impressed by his 'ideas' and often is not a willing participant, but then finds the methods draw the couple, as well as the family, together. Really, it is all about doing things together, making everyone feel they are an important part of a team, that really matters.

It is an easy listen as an audio, nice & simple pdf comes with it, and if you just put a few of the ideas into place, as I have done so far, you will likely see instant success. And what could matter more than greater happiness at home!

Very Enjoyable

I looked up the author's previous books before spending a credit on this one. I must say, I was worried that this book would be too preachy because some of Feiler's other publications had strong religious themes. It was not preachy at all. Listening to this book was more like having a casual conversation with a friend about family life. The author pulled ideas from various sources, including business men, military leaders, coaches, and his own family experiences and presented them as short stories and lessons. Every lesson won't apply to every family but I think the book was well written and researched and it was worth listening to.

Family!

A must read for families ! This book truly offers excellent recommendations to improve your most important unit.

Fantastic!

This was a fantastic book, I am so inspired to change the way our family works. We have a small boy and twin baby girls and to start this thinking early will be good as our kids will not need to have the dysfunction first, we can just start the happy early :)

Great book!

I great take into what families are about, interactions, ways to strengthen families and encouragement!

Lots of great takeaways

There are so many different ideas that there is something everyone can take home.

Fresh insights on ways to nurture a happy family

Good reminder that one needs to be continuously intentional about creating a happy family.

The book draws ideas from management techniques and applies them to family. Managing and leading a family is more difficult than managing a team, because, you cannot fire your children.

It is important to nurture the positive moments, and be resilient.

A must read for new parents!

A must hear/read to all who care about the happiness of their family.

Detailed and informed content aimed at impacting as many lives as possible through a un bayous view of family life.

A must read for all.

Awesome approach

Feiler's idea to approach family advancement using techniques developed in other arenas is groundbreaking. We've already implemented some of his suggestions and noticed an impact on our family. A great, quick read that you will find yourself going back to.

Highly advantageous information

Highly advantageous information. 12 more words are required and I say: that is silly. Hoozah