Necessary Losses
The Loves, Illusions, Dependencies, and Impossible Expectations That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Grow
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
Necessary Losses
Buy for $25.00
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Donna Postel
-
By:
-
Judith Viorst
About this listen
Drawing on psychoanalysis, literature, and personal experience, Necessary Losses is a philosophy for understanding and accepting life's inevitabilities. In this book Judith Viorst turns her considerable talents to a serious and far-reaching subject: how we grow and change through the losses that are certain and necessary parts of life. She argues persuasively that through the loss of our mothers' protection, the loss of the impossible expectations we bring to relationships, the loss of our younger selves, and the loss of our loved ones through separation and death, we gain deeper perspective, true maturity, and fuller wisdom about life. She has written a book that is both life affirming and life changing.
©1986 Judith Viorst (P)2015 TantorListeners also enjoyed...
-
Worthy
- By: Jada Pinkett Smith
- Narrated by: Jada Pinkett Smith
- Length: 14 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 3,595
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 3,429
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 3,426
Jada Pinkett Smith was living what many would view as a fairy-tale of Hollywood success. But appearances can be deceiving, and as she felt more and more separated from her sense of self, emotional turmoil took hold. Sparing no detail, Worthy chronicles her life.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
Budda
- By Tamiko on 10-18-23
-
What Happened to You?
- Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing
- By: Oprah Winfrey, Bruce D. Perry
- Narrated by: Bruce D. Perry, Oprah Winfrey
- Length: 8 hrs and 27 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 22,090
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 19,224
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 19,055
Have you ever wondered "Why did I do that?" or "Why can't I just control my behavior?" Others may judge our reactions and think, "What's wrong with that person?" When questioning our emotions, it's easy to place the blame on ourselves; holding ourselves and those around us to an impossible standard. It's time we started asking a different question. Through deeply personal conversations, Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain and trauma expert Dr. Bruce Perry offer a groundbreaking and profound shift from asking “What’s wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?”
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
I waited more than 30 years for this book.
- By Gary S. on 04-28-21
By: Oprah Winfrey, and others
-
The Garden Within
- Where the War with Your Emotions Ends and Your Most Powerful Life Begins
- By: Dr. Anita Phillips, Sarah Jakes Roberts - foreword
- Narrated by: Anita Phillips, Sarah Roberts
- Length: 7 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 946
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 893
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 891
In this game-changing book, trauma therapist and mental health expert Dr. Anita Phillips reveals how embracing emotion is the key to living your most powerful life. Just as gardens thrive in good ground, the abundant life you’ve been seeking can only be grown in the soil of your heart.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
EXCELLENCE PERSONIFIED!!!
- By Latosha Henderson on 12-01-23
By: Dr. Anita Phillips, and others
-
Thicker than Water
- A Memoir
- By: Kerry Washington
- Narrated by: Kerry Washington
- Length: 8 hrs and 59 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 2,210
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 2,099
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2,099
While on a drive in Los Angeles, on a seemingly average afternoon, Kerry Washington received a text message that would send her on a life-changing journey of self-discovery. In an instant, her very identity was torn apart, with everything she thought she knew about herself thrown into question.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
Technical issues are ruining an otherwise good story
- By Lindsay on 09-27-23
By: Kerry Washington
-
You Are the One You've Been Waiting For
- Applying Internal Family Systems to Intimate Relationships
- By: Richard Schwartz PhD
- Narrated by: Martin LaGrande, Mike Berlak
- Length: 6 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 251
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 231
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 230
Do loving relationships end because couples lack communication skills, struggle to empathize, and fail to accommodate each other’s needs? That’s a common belief within and outside of the therapeutic world… but what if it’s all wrong? In You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For, Dr. Richard Schwartz, the celebrated founder of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, offers a new way—a path toward courageous love that replaces the striving, dependent, and disconnected approach to solving relationship challenges.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Clear examples of parts work
- By Ramona on 10-06-24
-
All Hope Is Found
- Rediscovering the Joy of Expectation
- By: Sarah Jakes Roberts
- Narrated by: Sarah Jakes Roberts
- Length: 3 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 214
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 204
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 204
Undoubtedly, there are moments when hope is obscure. That's because hope has many hiding places. It hides behind heartbreak, camouflages in stress, and disguises itself in grief. It only takes a few disappointments before our expectations are hijacked by doubt and disbelief. Hope is easy to lose and hard to find, but there is never a season when hope is out of reach. Inspiring you towards the pursuit of hope with a lens of compassion, Sarah serves as a guide who exposes the hidden hope that awaits you each day.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
“Heaven hears what your heart whispers” -Sarah Jakes-Roberts
- By Anonymous on 09-20-23
-
Worthy
- By: Jada Pinkett Smith
- Narrated by: Jada Pinkett Smith
- Length: 14 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 3,595
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 3,429
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 3,426
Jada Pinkett Smith was living what many would view as a fairy-tale of Hollywood success. But appearances can be deceiving, and as she felt more and more separated from her sense of self, emotional turmoil took hold. Sparing no detail, Worthy chronicles her life.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
Budda
- By Tamiko on 10-18-23
-
What Happened to You?
- Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing
- By: Oprah Winfrey, Bruce D. Perry
- Narrated by: Bruce D. Perry, Oprah Winfrey
- Length: 8 hrs and 27 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 22,090
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 19,224
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 19,055
Have you ever wondered "Why did I do that?" or "Why can't I just control my behavior?" Others may judge our reactions and think, "What's wrong with that person?" When questioning our emotions, it's easy to place the blame on ourselves; holding ourselves and those around us to an impossible standard. It's time we started asking a different question. Through deeply personal conversations, Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain and trauma expert Dr. Bruce Perry offer a groundbreaking and profound shift from asking “What’s wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?”
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
I waited more than 30 years for this book.
- By Gary S. on 04-28-21
By: Oprah Winfrey, and others
-
The Garden Within
- Where the War with Your Emotions Ends and Your Most Powerful Life Begins
- By: Dr. Anita Phillips, Sarah Jakes Roberts - foreword
- Narrated by: Anita Phillips, Sarah Roberts
- Length: 7 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 946
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 893
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 891
In this game-changing book, trauma therapist and mental health expert Dr. Anita Phillips reveals how embracing emotion is the key to living your most powerful life. Just as gardens thrive in good ground, the abundant life you’ve been seeking can only be grown in the soil of your heart.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
EXCELLENCE PERSONIFIED!!!
- By Latosha Henderson on 12-01-23
By: Dr. Anita Phillips, and others
-
Thicker than Water
- A Memoir
- By: Kerry Washington
- Narrated by: Kerry Washington
- Length: 8 hrs and 59 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 2,210
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 2,099
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2,099
While on a drive in Los Angeles, on a seemingly average afternoon, Kerry Washington received a text message that would send her on a life-changing journey of self-discovery. In an instant, her very identity was torn apart, with everything she thought she knew about herself thrown into question.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
Technical issues are ruining an otherwise good story
- By Lindsay on 09-27-23
By: Kerry Washington
-
You Are the One You've Been Waiting For
- Applying Internal Family Systems to Intimate Relationships
- By: Richard Schwartz PhD
- Narrated by: Martin LaGrande, Mike Berlak
- Length: 6 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 251
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 231
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 230
Do loving relationships end because couples lack communication skills, struggle to empathize, and fail to accommodate each other’s needs? That’s a common belief within and outside of the therapeutic world… but what if it’s all wrong? In You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For, Dr. Richard Schwartz, the celebrated founder of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, offers a new way—a path toward courageous love that replaces the striving, dependent, and disconnected approach to solving relationship challenges.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Clear examples of parts work
- By Ramona on 10-06-24
-
All Hope Is Found
- Rediscovering the Joy of Expectation
- By: Sarah Jakes Roberts
- Narrated by: Sarah Jakes Roberts
- Length: 3 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 214
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 204
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 204
Undoubtedly, there are moments when hope is obscure. That's because hope has many hiding places. It hides behind heartbreak, camouflages in stress, and disguises itself in grief. It only takes a few disappointments before our expectations are hijacked by doubt and disbelief. Hope is easy to lose and hard to find, but there is never a season when hope is out of reach. Inspiring you towards the pursuit of hope with a lens of compassion, Sarah serves as a guide who exposes the hidden hope that awaits you each day.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
“Heaven hears what your heart whispers” -Sarah Jakes-Roberts
- By Anonymous on 09-20-23
-
The Myth of Normal
- Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture
- By: Gabor Maté MD, Daniel Maté
- Narrated by: Daniel Maté
- Length: 18 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 2,569
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 2,239
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2,227
In this revolutionary book, renowned physician Gabor Maté eloquently dissects how in Western countries that pride themselves on their healthcare systems, chronic illness and general ill health are on the rise. Nearly 70 percent of Americans are on at least one prescription drug; more than half take two. In Canada, every fifth person has high blood pressure. In Europe, hypertension is diagnosed in more than 30 percent of the population. And everywhere, adolescent mental illness is on the rise. So what is really “normal” when it comes to health?
-
3 out of 5 stars
-
Bought book after hearing podcast...
- By Adrian on 09-14-22
By: Gabor Maté MD, and others
-
Woman Evolve
- Break Up with Your Fears and Revolutionize Your Life
- By: Sarah Jakes Roberts
- Narrated by: Sarah Roberts
- Length: 6 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 3,803
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 3,259
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 3,240
Who would imagine being friends with Eve - the woman who’s been held responsible for the fall of humanity (and cramps) for thousands of years? Certainly not Sarah Jakes Roberts. That is, not until Sarah discovered she is more like Eve than she cares to admit. Everyone faces trials, and everyone will mess up. But failure should not be the focus. Your focus should not be on who you were but rather the pursuit of who you can become.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Truly a blessing to women all over the world
- By wendy on 05-03-21
-
Get Good with Money
- Ten Simple Steps to Becoming Financially Whole
- By: Tiffany the Budgetnista Aliche
- Narrated by: Tiffany the Budgetnista Aliche
- Length: 12 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 1,092
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 910
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 906
Tiffany Aliche was a successful pre-school teacher with a healthy nest egg when a recession and advice from a shady advisor put her out of a job and into a huge financial hole. As she began to chart the path to her own financial rescue, the outline of her 10-step formula for attaining both financial security and peace of mind began to take shape. These principles have now helped more than one million women worldwide save and pay off millions in debt, and begin planning for a richer life.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Goodbye SWEET 16. Hello ROTH IRA!
- By Will Smith on 04-12-21
-
Feeding the Soul (Because It's My Business)
- Finding Our Way to Joy, Love, and Freedom
- By: Tabitha Brown
- Narrated by: Tabitha Brown
- Length: 5 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 9,514
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 8,444
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 8,399
Tabitha Brown's path to stardom was a long and winding one. For years she pursued acting while raising a family and dealing with undiagnosed chronic autoimmune pain. Before she became vegan, her condition made her believe she wouldn't live to see forty. Now she's one of the most popular personalities in the world, with millions of followers on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook whom she inspires to live and eat well with her blend of homespun wisdom and delicious home cooking. With her relatable personality and health struggles, Tabitha connects with a good story and gentle hand.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Honey Verrrry Good Auntie Tab!!!!
- By Desiree on 09-29-21
By: Tabitha Brown
-
Start Your Notary Public & Loan Signing Agent Business
- The Insiders Guide to Starting a Six-Figure Notary Side Hustle (All State Requirements Included)
- By: LSAUSA Education
- Narrated by: Andrew Rowe
- Length: 3 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 120
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 108
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 108
Are you eager to become a notary public or certified loan signing agent as fast as possible? Perhaps you’ve heard just how much some signing agents are earning—even remotely from home. And now you want to claim your piece. We understand your motives, but first there are some subtle details that you’ll need to know if you want to avoid failure and avoid losing money.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Getting to the point
- By Veneca L Jones on 03-03-24
By: LSAUSA Education
-
The Black Girl's Guide to Financial Freedom
- Build Wealth, Retire Early, and Live the Life of Your Dreams
- By: Paris Woods
- Narrated by: Paris Woods
- Length: 5 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 645
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 596
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 596
Are you tired of spinning your wheels following financial advice that leaves you feeling broker than before? Are you pulling your hair out trying to follow the complicated instructions offered by the gurus? In The Black Girl's Guide to Financial Freedom, Paris Woods takes the guesswork out of wealth-building and presents a plan that anyone can follow. This audiobook is perfect for Black women of any age, including young professionals just starting to set financial goals and mid-career women who are tired of following the same old rules.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
If you want to hear stories.
- By Melissa H. on 10-21-22
By: Paris Woods
-
Love's Executioner
- By: Irvin D. Yalom
- Narrated by: C.M. Carlson
- Length: 10 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 1,143
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 977
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 977
The collection of 10 absorbing tales by master psychotherapist Irvin D. Yalom uncovers the mysteries, frustrations, pathos, and humor at the heart of the therapeutic encounter. In recounting his patients' dilemmas, Yalom not only gives us a rare and enthralling glimpse into their personal desires and motivations but also tells us his own story as he struggles to reconcile his all-too-human responses with his sensibility as a psychiatrist.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
You Can’t Make This Stuff Up
- By Espanolish on 11-02-16
By: Irvin D. Yalom
-
Set Boundaries, Find Peace
- A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself
- By: Nedra Glover Tawwab
- Narrated by: Nedra Glover Tawwab
- Length: 8 hrs
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 3,685
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 3,125
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 3,090
Healthy boundaries. We all know we should have them - in order to achieve work/life balance, cope with toxic people, and enjoy rewarding relationships with partners, friends, and family. But what do "healthy boundaries" really mean - and how can we successfully express our needs, say "no", and be assertive without offending others? Licensed counselor, sought-after relationship expert, and one of the most influential therapists on Instagram Nedra Glover Tawwab demystifies this complex topic for today's world.
-
3 out of 5 stars
-
Your Opinion is the Only Valid One
- By c on 05-13-21
-
No Bad Parts
- Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
- By: Richard C. Schwartz PhD, Alanis Morissette - foreword introduction
- Narrated by: Charlie Mechling
- Length: 8 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,330
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 1,105
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 1,097
Dr. Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems (IFS) model has been transforming psychology for decades. With No Bad Parts, you’ll learn why IFS has been so effective in areas such as trauma recovery, addiction therapy, and depression treatment - and how this new understanding of consciousness has the potential to radically change our lives.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Superb content, but painful dramatizations
- By January on 12-02-21
By: Richard C. Schwartz PhD, and others
-
Divine Feminine Energy
- How to Manifest with Goddess Energy & Feminine Energy Awakening Secrets They Don’t Want You to Know About (Manifesting for Women & Feminine Energy Awakening - 2 in 1 Collection)
- By: Angela Grace
- Narrated by: Alana Marie Cheuvront
- Length: 6 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 169
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 150
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 150
Are you sick and tired of missing out in life and seeing everyone around you succeed? While you’re left behind; broke in a job you hate, in a toxic relationship, or trapped in a body you’re unhappy with? Do you finally want to say goodbye to all of your wasted time and see what actually works for you? If so, then it’s not by chance that you’re reading this! You see, manifesting all of your wants and desires doesn’t have to be difficult, even if you feel like you’ve tried every other manifesting book and YouTube video already.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
1st time thoroughly dissatisfied with a book
- By LeighAnn Macias on 11-12-21
By: Angela Grace
-
Bittersweet
- How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole
- By: Susan Cain
- Narrated by: Susan Cain
- Length: 7 hrs and 35 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,775
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 1,516
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 1,501
With Quiet, Susan Cain urged our society to cultivate space for the undervalued, indispensable introverts among us, thereby revealing an untapped power hidden in plain sight. Now she employs the same mix of research, storytelling, and memoir to explore why we experience sorrow and longing, and how embracing the bittersweetness at the heart of life is the true path to creativity, connection, and transcendence.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
I REALLY wanted to love this book!
- By Leo B. on 05-02-22
By: Susan Cain
-
The Road Less Traveled
- A New Psychology of Love, Values, and Spiritual Growth, 25th Anniversary Edition
- By: M. Scott Peck M.D.
- Narrated by: M. Scott Peck M.D.
- Length: 4 hrs and 23 mins
- Abridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 4,743
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 3,697
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 3,686
Perhaps no book in this generation has had a more profound impact on our intellectual and spiritual lives than The Road Less Traveled. With sales of more than 7 million copies in the United States and Canada, and translation into more than 23 languages, it has made publishing history, with more than 10 years on The New York Times best seller list.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Revised Edition Highly Recommended
- By John on 12-10-03
People who viewed this also viewed...
-
Making the Best of What's Left
- When We're too Old to Get the Chairs Reupholstered
- By: Judith Viorst
- Narrated by: Judith Viorst
- Length: 4 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 2
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 2
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2
From the bestselling author Judith Viorst comes a witty and poignant exploration of the joys and sorrows of life’s twilight years—one that leaves us laughing, pondering, and grateful for the moments we have left.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
The honesty of this book is enthralling, exciting, wise and inspirational. Thank goodness we have Judith Viorst.
- By Tybe Diamond on 04-08-25
By: Judith Viorst
-
For Your Own Good
- Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence
- By: Alice Miller
- Narrated by: Jo Anna Perrin
- Length: 11 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 87
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 72
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 72
For Your Own Good, the contemporary classic exploring the serious if not gravely dangerous consequences parental cruelty can bring to bear on children everywhere, is one of the central works by Alice Miller, the celebrated Swiss psychoanalyst. With her typically lucid, strong, and poetic language, Miller investigates the personal stories and case histories of various self-destructive and/or violent individuals to expand on her theories about the long-term effects of abusive child-rearing.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Should be required reading for everyone
- By Timothy on 05-15-18
By: Alice Miller
-
The Art of Letting Go
- By: Rania Naim, Skyla Child, Marisa Bagnato, and others
- Narrated by: Tanya Eby
- Length: 1 hr and 36 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 245
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 213
-
Story4 out of 5 stars 212
We often struggle to let some people go, especially when they made that decision. We question the universe, we question ourselves, and we question everyone around us but we never truly get our answers. Letting someone go takes time, patience, and commitment to actively stop ourselves from relapsing and thinking about that person again. The Art of Letting Go helps you understand why, how, and when you should let someone go so you can move on and never look back.
-
3 out of 5 stars
-
Robotic voice-painful
- By Jessica Heizman on 01-14-21
By: Rania Naim, and others
-
Ambiguous Loss
- Learning to Live with Unresolved Grief
- By: Pauline Boss PhD
- Narrated by: Rosemary Benson
- Length: 4 hrs and 58 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 63
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 50
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 50
In this sensitive and lucid account, Pauline Boss explains that, all too often, those confronted with ambiguous loss fluctuate between hope and hopelessness. Suffered too long, these emotions can deaden feeling and make it impossible for people to move on with their lives. Yet the central message of this book is that they can move on. Drawing on her research and clinical experience, Boss suggests strategies that can cushion the pain and help families come to terms with their grief.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
the informations relevancy
- By Lauri Rowe on 02-25-25
By: Pauline Boss PhD
-
Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day
- By: Judith Viorst
- Narrated by: Johnny Heller
- Length: 6 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 129
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 104
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 105
When Alexander wakes up with gum in his hair, he thinks that maybe it’s going to be a bad day. When he trips on the skateboard by his bed and drops his sweater in the sink, he knows it’s going to be even worse than he thought. His brothers find fabulous prizes in their cereal boxes; he finds cereal. His best friends get fancy desserts in their lunch boxes; Mom forgets dessert. From being scrunched in the car on the way to school all the way to lima beans for supper and kissing on TV (yuck!), the day just keeps getting worse. It’s enough to make him want to move to Australia.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
way too expensive ($6.95) for a 5 minute reading.
- By John Maletis on 02-18-17
By: Judith Viorst
-
Healing Through the Dark Emotions
- The Wisdom of Grief, Fear, and Despair
- By: Miriam Greenspan
- Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
- Length: 12 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 28
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 21
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 21
We are all touched at some point by the dark emotions of grief, fear, or despair. In an age of global threat, these emotions have become widespread and overwhelming. While conventional wisdom warns us of the harmful effects of "negative" emotions, this revolutionary book offers a more hopeful view: there is a redemptive power in our worst feelings. Seasoned psychotherapist Miriam Greenspan argues that it's the avoidance and denial of the dark emotions that results in the escalating psychological disorders of our time.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Best Book for Introspective Trauma Healing
- By Brea H. on 01-22-22
By: Miriam Greenspan
-
Making the Best of What's Left
- When We're too Old to Get the Chairs Reupholstered
- By: Judith Viorst
- Narrated by: Judith Viorst
- Length: 4 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 2
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 2
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2
From the bestselling author Judith Viorst comes a witty and poignant exploration of the joys and sorrows of life’s twilight years—one that leaves us laughing, pondering, and grateful for the moments we have left.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
The honesty of this book is enthralling, exciting, wise and inspirational. Thank goodness we have Judith Viorst.
- By Tybe Diamond on 04-08-25
By: Judith Viorst
-
For Your Own Good
- Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence
- By: Alice Miller
- Narrated by: Jo Anna Perrin
- Length: 11 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 87
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 72
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 72
For Your Own Good, the contemporary classic exploring the serious if not gravely dangerous consequences parental cruelty can bring to bear on children everywhere, is one of the central works by Alice Miller, the celebrated Swiss psychoanalyst. With her typically lucid, strong, and poetic language, Miller investigates the personal stories and case histories of various self-destructive and/or violent individuals to expand on her theories about the long-term effects of abusive child-rearing.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Should be required reading for everyone
- By Timothy on 05-15-18
By: Alice Miller
-
The Art of Letting Go
- By: Rania Naim, Skyla Child, Marisa Bagnato, and others
- Narrated by: Tanya Eby
- Length: 1 hr and 36 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 245
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 213
-
Story4 out of 5 stars 212
We often struggle to let some people go, especially when they made that decision. We question the universe, we question ourselves, and we question everyone around us but we never truly get our answers. Letting someone go takes time, patience, and commitment to actively stop ourselves from relapsing and thinking about that person again. The Art of Letting Go helps you understand why, how, and when you should let someone go so you can move on and never look back.
-
3 out of 5 stars
-
Robotic voice-painful
- By Jessica Heizman on 01-14-21
By: Rania Naim, and others
-
Ambiguous Loss
- Learning to Live with Unresolved Grief
- By: Pauline Boss PhD
- Narrated by: Rosemary Benson
- Length: 4 hrs and 58 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 63
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 50
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 50
In this sensitive and lucid account, Pauline Boss explains that, all too often, those confronted with ambiguous loss fluctuate between hope and hopelessness. Suffered too long, these emotions can deaden feeling and make it impossible for people to move on with their lives. Yet the central message of this book is that they can move on. Drawing on her research and clinical experience, Boss suggests strategies that can cushion the pain and help families come to terms with their grief.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
the informations relevancy
- By Lauri Rowe on 02-25-25
By: Pauline Boss PhD
-
Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day
- By: Judith Viorst
- Narrated by: Johnny Heller
- Length: 6 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 129
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 104
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 105
When Alexander wakes up with gum in his hair, he thinks that maybe it’s going to be a bad day. When he trips on the skateboard by his bed and drops his sweater in the sink, he knows it’s going to be even worse than he thought. His brothers find fabulous prizes in their cereal boxes; he finds cereal. His best friends get fancy desserts in their lunch boxes; Mom forgets dessert. From being scrunched in the car on the way to school all the way to lima beans for supper and kissing on TV (yuck!), the day just keeps getting worse. It’s enough to make him want to move to Australia.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
way too expensive ($6.95) for a 5 minute reading.
- By John Maletis on 02-18-17
By: Judith Viorst
-
Healing Through the Dark Emotions
- The Wisdom of Grief, Fear, and Despair
- By: Miriam Greenspan
- Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
- Length: 12 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 28
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 21
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 21
We are all touched at some point by the dark emotions of grief, fear, or despair. In an age of global threat, these emotions have become widespread and overwhelming. While conventional wisdom warns us of the harmful effects of "negative" emotions, this revolutionary book offers a more hopeful view: there is a redemptive power in our worst feelings. Seasoned psychotherapist Miriam Greenspan argues that it's the avoidance and denial of the dark emotions that results in the escalating psychological disorders of our time.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Best Book for Introspective Trauma Healing
- By Brea H. on 01-22-22
By: Miriam Greenspan
What listeners say about Necessary Losses
Average customer ratingsReviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Sheila
- 03-17-21
Great book!
It is such a profound book. Easy to listen to. The author describes many theoretical concepts in a easy way that makes the reader relate. I think this is a good book for therapists or anyone interested in getting to know themselves and others better.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
- Pamela
- 07-03-16
Transformational
I read this several years ago, and knew it was worth reading again. having the audio book allowed me to listen again at my leisure, allowing Judith Viorst's wisdom to refresh my insights once again.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
5 people found this helpful
-
Overall4 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story4 out of 5 stars
- bonnie l gray
- 07-27-23
Great listen
Reader’s voice is very pleasant to listen to. Deep thought and understanding of different stages
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Debra Schmitt
- 08-25-17
A must read!
Therapists will find this useful in understanding human development through a psychodynamic approaches. Non professionals will enjoy learning about the stages of life that we all go through and how to successfully proceed to the next, while embracing change.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
4 people found this helpful
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Thalea
- 12-21-23
Eye opener
This book have some good points i definitely would recommend it somethings you have to leave behind to achieve or receive better
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall4 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story4 out of 5 stars
- WOT
- 01-27-24
Loved 2nd half of the book don’t give up if you are disappointed at the beginning.
I don’t know if I’m a fan of Sigmund Freud. There’s a lot references. The book is not what I expected at all.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- SIDNEY BRAVMANN
- 06-20-23
Timeless
We are on finite, but this book guides and supports us when we face our losses.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Jamie gordon
- 12-06-23
The human experience. I think everyone would gain a great deal from this book.
Well written, The person narrating did a brilliant job. This book is not just for someone dealing with loss or grief. It takes you through a life’s journey of the beauty and what is let go to grow. I’ll be recommending this to many friends/family members.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Sina G
- 06-27-24
Transformative, insightful and healing
I got answers to many of my conscious and unconscious questions that I have held over the years through the beautiful story of our losses in this book. Specifically, parts of my shadow that have hurt me all my life are finally embraced and addressed. Can’t recommend this book enough!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Alednam A Uonopk
- 10-07-24
Good and thoughtful throughout ...
Good book, saw the physical copy at the library but then saw that it was available in audiobook format.... Will listen to again at some point..... May even get a physical copy....
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!