When we expect more than we give, love begins to crumble in silence. In today’s episode, Alan and Emilia unravel the quiet damage caused by unrealistic expectations. Through real coaching moments and heartfelt stories, they reveal how resentment grows where understanding should live. If you’ve ever felt the quiet ache of mismatched efforts, this conversation will meet you where you are and gently guide you home.

Show notes:
(2:59) Expectations and resentment
(5:54) Two types of relationship dynamics
(7:11) Everyday examples of unfair expectations
(8:30) How broken expectations hurt trust
(10:26) Generational patterns in relationships
(11:19) Listen to what Branden and Hannah have to say about Alan and Emilia and the Relationship Talk.
(14:48) Platinum rule and relationship growth
(17:16) Leadership, self-awareness, and competence
(20:10) Conscious communication Vs. Outdated roles
(22:25) Outro

Book a FREE Relationship Talk:
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Join us at Relationship Talks #47 on Thursday, May 15th 20th, 2025, at 05:00 pm Eastern Time: “What is Your Partner's Fight Language" - https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/3w4JwyS0QaSMZ_MiD1GI5A#/registration

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Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast. We love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more, it would mean the world if you subscribed, left us a review, and shared this with someone you love and care about. Until next time, remember, it’s not about you or me; it’s about The We!

Do you really know what love means to you, or have you just been guessing all along? In this episode, Emilia and Alan open up about their definitions of love and reveal why so many relationships suffer simply because partners never ask this one essential question. Through heartfelt stories, practical frameworks, and yes, even eagle metaphors, they break down what it takes to experience real connection, growth, and intimacy. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this episode will help you reflect, reconnect, and grow.

Show notes:
(3:51) Lessons from 46 Relationship Events
(5:08) Love is growing together
(7:09) Emilia’s definition of love
(12:58) Soaring higher than the crows
(14:57) Lucas and Antonie talk about Alan and Emilia’s Relationship Coaching.
(17:07) What quality time really means
(19:29) The three pillars of quality time
(22:54) Intimacy and emotional attunement
(25:51) Depth Vs. Surface-level connection
(30:28) Outro

Digital Asset:
The 25 Conscious Love Languages Worksheet - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1UZzCXujFRFEbYY-vSWcCwAY9hSPeq0ZZ/view

Book a FREE Relationship Talk:
https://calendly.com/emiliasmith/30-minute-relationships-talk-coaching?back=1&month=2025-03

Join us at Relationship Talks #47 on Thursday, May 15th 20th, 2025, at 05:00 pm Eastern Time: “What is Your Partner's Fight Language" - https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/3w4JwyS0QaSMZ_MiD1GI5A#/registration

Learn more about:
Evolve Movie Club Link - https://forms.gle/bBZUbFEeD2ijypCT7

___________________________

Follow us on Instagram:
Emilia Smith @evolvewithemilia
Alan Lazaros @alazaros88

*Email:* 💬
alan@theweuniversity.com
emilia@theweuniversity.com

Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com.

Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast. We love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more, it would mean the world if you subscribed, left us a review, and shared this with someone you love and care about. Until next time, remember, it’s not about you or me; it’s about The We!

Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In today’s episode, they explore how self-respect, self-awareness, and inner dialogue shape every aspect of your intimate relationship. Through honest stories, surprising insights, and practical tools, they’ll help you stop outsourcing your happiness and start building a solid foundation within. Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode will shift the way you think about love—from the inside out.

Show notes:
(2:09) Blind spots and inner work
(4:38) Self-worth and admiration
(6:00) The long list of inner requirements
(9:53) Crossing personal boundaries
(12:58) Derek shares his experience with Alan and Emilia.
(14:31) Outsourcing emotional security
(16:43) Going deeper to climb higher
(23:22) Self-esteem’s impact on relationships
(25:58) Outro

Digital Assets:
1. Pyramid of Fulfillment - https://drive.google.com/file/d/13zkiW6VZ5Rx0m87omHULzCsT8kOmmGf_/view

2. Pyramid of The Self - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1w5p656YRbF4dZ2KfZmU_Z_ROCQSJW-Rs/view

Book a FREE Relationship Talk:
https://calendly.com/emiliasmith/30-minute-relationships-talk-coaching?back=1&month=2025-03

Join us at Relationship Talks #46 on Thursday, April 17th, 2025, at 05:00 pm Eastern Time: “How to Create More Quality Time with Your Partner” -
https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/J3vhhpWCSyOJPKvwTGWLWg#/registration

Learn more about:
Evolve Movie Club Link - https://forms.gle/bBZUbFEeD2ijypCT7

___________________________

Follow us on Instagram:
Emilia Smith @evolvewithemilia
Alan Lazaros @alazaros88

*Email:* 💬
alan@theweuniversity.com
emilia@theweuniversity.com

Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com.

Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast. We love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more, it would mean the world if you subscribed, left us a review, and shared this with someone you love and care about. Until next time, remember, it’s not about you or me; it’s about The We!