When we expect more than we give, love begins to crumble in silence. In today’s episode, Alan and Emilia unravel the quiet damage caused by unrealistic expectations. Through real coaching moments and heartfelt stories, they reveal how resentment grows where understanding should live. If you’ve ever felt the quiet ache of mismatched efforts, this conversation will meet you where you are and gently guide you home.

Show notes:
(2:59) Expectations and resentment
(5:54) Two types of relationship dynamics
(7:11) Everyday examples of unfair expectations
(8:30) How broken expectations hurt trust
(10:26) Generational patterns in relationships
(11:19) Listen to what Branden and Hannah have to say about Alan and Emilia and the Relationship Talk.
(14:48) Platinum rule and relationship growth
(17:16) Leadership, self-awareness, and competence
(20:10) Conscious communication Vs. Outdated roles
(22:25) Outro

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