Episodios

  • We See Ourselves In You! (We Know What It Feels Like to be Hopelessly Drowning in Marriage)

    We See Ourselves In You! (We Know What It Feels Like to be Hopelessly Drowning in Marriage)
    Mar 31 2025
    In this week's episode, Brian and Jamie (fully recovered) talk about the amazing time they had down in South Texas, hosting their first marriage reconciliation mediation Intensive, and some major take-aways from that. (Review by couple coming soon!!). They go on to share some of the upcoming interviews they will be showcasing on the podcast, including a few parenting episodes, one with Blake and Adrina Mabry, who have one young adult son, and 2 highschoolers, and another one with their own adult children, Chandler (31), Christian (29), and Carson (24). They will also be doing episodes on the top 5 most frequently googled marriage questions. Don't miss these!!!

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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    35 m
  • Lucky In Love Workshop Recap

    Lucky In Love Workshop Recap
    Mar 24 2025
    Disclaimer right up front - Brian felt horrible, and was literally about to hurl as they recorded this podcast - our apologies that he was off his game. Brian and Jamie did the best they could do hit the highlights (quickly) of their recent Lucky In Love Workshop at Justin Coffee Co. It was a great time, reminding us all that love has nothing to do with luck, and that it is a daily choice...choosing to be curious about your spouse/partner, learning to express love to them in intentional ways, keeping love fresh and exciting...because, after all, we are all in it for the long haul!

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    32 m
  • March 17th, St. Patrick's Day!! (AKA Corban's Day!)

    March 17th, St. Patrick's Day!! (AKA Corban's Day!)
    Mar 17 2025
    March 17th!! Known to almost everyone as St. Patrick's Day!! But to Brian and Jamie, it will forever be known, remembered, and celebrated, as the day that Corban went home!! Listen as they discuss how the passing of their 2 year old son, Corban, affected them then, and now! Hopefully, your heart will be touched as they discuss openly and vulnerably about grief, and what walking through intense pain has taught them, and how they believe God has used it for their good!

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    38 m
  • Parenting Adult Kids (And Do We RAISE Them, or do they RAISE Us?)

    Parenting Adult Kids (And Do We RAISE Them, or do they RAISE Us?)
    Mar 10 2025
    Join Brian and Jamie as they briefly discuss their current relationships with their adult children, and how they love to hang out with them and their friends. They discuss the temptation for parents to over-function, and to "impose" their wills onto their children when they're becoming young adults, needing to figure things out for themselves - meaning that they will inevitably make mistakes that we parents desperately want them to avoid - but how detrimental that can be, many times leading to resentment. They share how "backing off" a litte, interjecting their opinions (and yes, wisdom and experience) only when asked is the thing that will draw those adult kids into a loving, friendship that will last a lifetime. Be listening for our special guest, princess RuRu.

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    37 m
  • Brandon and Lindsey - From Hopeless to Helpers, a Marriage Mediation Intensive Testimony

    Brandon and Lindsey - From Hopeless to Helpers, a Marriage Mediation Intensive Testimony
    Mar 3 2025
    In this week's episode, Brian and Jamie interview their new friends, Brandon and Lindsey Charles, of Bentonville Arkansas. They talk about how they met at the XO Marriage Mediation Intensive Certification Training, and the way they became fast friends. Brandon and Lindsey share their testimony of having become hopeless in their marriage, believing it was over, until a friend suggested that they reach out for help through a mediation intensive. Not only did the mediation save their marriage, but now, Lindsey and Brandon are passionate about spreading the word about the process that helped them, and are now certified Marriage Mediator Intensivists!! (We apologize for the audio, as it was recorded on a zoom call. If you, or anyone you know could benefit from a reconciliation mediation intensive, please reach out to us. We hope you are inspired by today's episode...Thank you for listening.)

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    53 m
  • Do Not Disturb! "I'm on my phone" (Translated - This TiKTok is More Important Than You)

    Do Not Disturb! "I'm on my phone" (Translated - This TiKTok is More Important Than You)
    Feb 24 2025
    Lucky in Love Event referenced in today's episode - 3/22/25 at Justin Coffee in Texas, from 5-7pm. Registration opens on 2/24 at Justin Coffee and Trading Co webiste. In today's episode, Brian and Jamie share how much fun their Love and Latte event was in Justin, TX. Then, they get into how important it is to show priority to our spouse by giving them undivided attention, listening to them, and making sure they know they are your "number 1." They talk about one of the biggest distractions in our culture, and in our relationships - "that damn phone." (Jamie asks you to excuse Brian's horrible language...). We hope you guys will take time this week to put the phone down, look your partner in the eye, and make sure they know you value them above all else!

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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    32 m
  • Top 5 Take Aways from Annual Marriage Conference

    Top 5 Take Aways from Annual Marriage Conference
    Feb 17 2025
    In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss their top 5 take-aways from the annual XO Marriage Conference they attended in the DFW area on Valentine weekend. From a variety of doctors, clinicials, psychologists, pastors, and marriage experts, they loved the way that every single speaker/presenter normalized all of the issues that we ALL go through. They discuss the Passion, Intimacy, Commitment triangle, the inverted bell curve of marital satisfaction over time, the importance of hormones in everything, especially libido health, and the "mental load" that many women report as being the number one sex killer in their marriage. They end with how much they enjoyed the conference, and the awareness it brings to the important work they do, and how thankful Brian is that during the vow renewal ceremony at the end, Jamie said yes!!! Whew!

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    40 m
  • Top 10 Relationship and Marriage Issues

    Top 10 Relationship and Marriage Issues
    Feb 10 2025
    In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss the "top 10" issues they have seen 100's of times over the last few decades, normalizing the challenges that we all face in marriage and other relationships. Whether dating, engaged, married, divorced, or even in parenting, and sibling relationships, they talk about things in a relatable way that will help to destigmatize seeking help, and truly opening up to receiving the help needed to grow. They discuss anger, infidelity, intimacy issues, identity and insecurity issues, betrayal wounds, father wounds, being raised in single parent homes, and differences in faith beliefs, and spiritual leadership in the homes, (and more). We hope you hear yourself and your struggles as they share, so that you will feel less crazy, less alone, and might even reach out for help.

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    36 m