Most relationships don’t fail because of cheating or incompatibility—they fail for a hidden reason that no one talks about.

In this episode, Coach Melissa Rochelle breaks down key insights from the book "Stronger Than You Think" and reveals:

🔹 The surprising reason most relationships fall apart

🔹 Why trying to change your partner is actually hurting your connection

🔹 How your "ideal self" influences who you choose as a partner

🔹 The Michelangelo Phenomenon – Why great relationships bring out your best self

🔹 4 powerful questions to determine if your relationship is expanding or holding you back

🔹 How to create a shared vision with your partner to build long-term happiness

🚨 "The key to a strong relationship isn’t changing your partner—it’s growing together."

💡 If you’ve ever felt stuck, unseen, or disconnected in your relationship, this episode will help you break free and build the love you deserve.

📖 Book: "Stronger Than You Think" – https://www.amazon.com/Stronger-Than-You-Think-Relationship/dp/0316454710

🎥 Watch the Full Discussion on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oIPhMiIYYTY&t=167s

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💬 What’s your take? Have you ever tried to change a partner? Drop a comment or DM us on Instagram!

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Does paying for dates mean a man is entitled to more? Should modern women contribute financially during the dating process? Who really benefits from 'going 50/50' on dates?

In this episode, Coach Melissa Rochelle breaks down the truth about status, finances, and dating expectations—and how societal norms have shaped modern relationships.

🔹 Topics Covered:

✔ Why a man’s status matters more than his paycheck

✔ The hidden power dynamics behind paying for dates 💰

✔ How traditional vs. modern dating roles affect relationships

✔ Why women should NOT feel pressured to go 50/50 on dates

✔ The real reason some men hesitate to commit

✔ How men use status as leverage in dating & relationships

✔ Why being courted is every woman’s birthright

🔹 Key Takeaways:

🚀 If a man isn’t choosing you, it’s because he doesn’t see how you upgrade his status. The right man won’t hesitate.

🚨 "If a man is asking for your time, your resources, and your body—but isn't offering commitment in return, what exactly are YOU getting out of the deal?"

💬 What’s your take? Do you think women should ever go 50/50 on dates? Drop a comment or DM us on Instagram!

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📖 Book: "Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts" – https://a.co/d/22ajrQL

📊 SYMBIS Relationship Assessment – https://www.symbis.com/

🎥 Watch the Full Discussion on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uGp-xOHdu6w

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Is income really the most important factor in a relationship? 💰 Or do values matter more? In this episode, Coach Melissa Rochelle (Holistic Wellness & Relationship Coach) breaks down:

✔ Why financial values matter more than salary

✔ How money styles (spender vs. saver) impact long-term happiness

✔ The science behind lasting love & attachment theory

✔ Why moving in together before marriage can backfire

✔ The truth about sex, monogamy, and neurotransmitters

✔ How to assess your compatibility BEFORE marriage

Backed by science & decades of research, this episode explores practical ways to build a lasting relationship beyond financial status.

Want to avoid relationship pitfalls? Tune in & learn how values shape love.

Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts –https://a.co/d/iL1fwfY

SYMBIS Relationship Assessment – https://www.symbis.com/

Watch Full Episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CouplesDevelopment

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Get Our Marriage Plan Workbook: https://www.couplesdevelopment.com/marriageplan

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Welcome to the Couple’s Development Podcast, where we

help couples break negative cycles and build unshakable relationships!

In this episode, Coach Clark (usually joined by Coach

Mel) brings you powerful highlights from one of our very first

YouTube podcast episodes. If you’re new here, this is a great way to get a

taste of what we offer!

We’re not just giving opinions—with nearly 24 years of

relationship experience, professional certifications, and credentials from

organizations like the American Board of Sexology & The Relationship

Coaching Institute we bring you real, practical solutions backed by

expertise.

In This Episode, We Discuss:

Why marrying potential rarely leads to a successful

relationship

The importance of emotional intelligence and how

childhood trauma affects adult relationships

Why men need a sense of duty to remain attractive in

long-term relationships

The truth about dating expectations—money,

independence, and relationship dynamics

How feminism has impacted modern relationships (both

positive & negative)

Why social media is NOT a reflection of happy

relationships

And much more!

If you enjoy this episode, be sure to check out our full

video episodes on YouTube!

Full episodes will be uploading soon every Friday!