Most relationships don’t fail because of cheating or incompatibility—they fail for a hidden reason that no one talks about.

In this episode, Coach Melissa Rochelle breaks down key insights from the book "Stronger Than You Think" and reveals:

🔹 The surprising reason most relationships fall apart

🔹 Why trying to change your partner is actually hurting your connection

🔹 How your "ideal self" influences who you choose as a partner

🔹 The Michelangelo Phenomenon – Why great relationships bring out your best self

🔹 4 powerful questions to determine if your relationship is expanding or holding you back

🔹 How to create a shared vision with your partner to build long-term happiness

🚨 "The key to a strong relationship isn’t changing your partner—it’s growing together."

💡 If you’ve ever felt stuck, unseen, or disconnected in your relationship, this episode will help you break free and build the love you deserve.

📖 Book: "Stronger Than You Think" – https://www.amazon.com/Stronger-Than-You-Think-Relationship/dp/0316454710

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Does paying for dates mean a man is entitled to more? Should modern women contribute financially during the dating process? Who really benefits from 'going 50/50' on dates?

In this episode, Coach Melissa Rochelle breaks down the truth about status, finances, and dating expectations—and how societal norms have shaped modern relationships.

🔹 Topics Covered:

✔ Why a man’s status matters more than his paycheck

✔ The hidden power dynamics behind paying for dates 💰

✔ How traditional vs. modern dating roles affect relationships

✔ Why women should NOT feel pressured to go 50/50 on dates

✔ The real reason some men hesitate to commit

✔ How men use status as leverage in dating & relationships

✔ Why being courted is every woman’s birthright

🔹 Key Takeaways:

🚀 If a man isn’t choosing you, it’s because he doesn’t see how you upgrade his status. The right man won’t hesitate.

🚨 "If a man is asking for your time, your resources, and your body—but isn't offering commitment in return, what exactly are YOU getting out of the deal?"

💬 What’s your take? Do you think women should ever go 50/50 on dates? Drop a comment or DM us on Instagram!

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📊 SYMBIS Relationship Assessment – https://www.symbis.com/

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Is income really the most important factor in a relationship? 💰 Or do values matter more? In this episode, Coach Melissa Rochelle (Holistic Wellness & Relationship Coach) breaks down:

✔ Why financial values matter more than salary

✔ How money styles (spender vs. saver) impact long-term happiness

✔ The science behind lasting love & attachment theory

✔ Why moving in together before marriage can backfire

✔ The truth about sex, monogamy, and neurotransmitters

✔ How to assess your compatibility BEFORE marriage

Backed by science & decades of research, this episode explores practical ways to build a lasting relationship beyond financial status.

Want to avoid relationship pitfalls? Tune in & learn how values shape love.

Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts –https://a.co/d/iL1fwfY

SYMBIS Relationship Assessment – https://www.symbis.com/

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