Why Good Girls Fall for Bad Guys – The Anxious-Avoidant Trap Explained

Why do good girls fall for bad guys? It’s deeper than you think. In today’s episode, Coach Mel reveals the truth about the Anxious-Avoidant Trap—why so many relationships feel like an emotional roller coaster and how to break free from toxic cycles.

🔹 What You’ll Learn:

• The three attachment styles: Secure, Anxious, and Avoidant.
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• Why Anxiously attached people crave closeness and approval.
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• Why Avoidantly attached people run from commitment and intimacy.
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• How these two attachment styles are magnetically drawn to each other—but for all the wrong reasons.
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• Why the drama and emotional highs of these relationships can feel more addictive than drugs.
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• How your childhood patterns may be influencing who you’re attracted to—and why.
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• Steps to break free from toxic, unhealthy dynamics.
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• 💡 "Opposites attract, then they attack."

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, understanding your attachment style can completely change how you approach love.

👉 Ready to break the cycle? Visit CouplesDevelopment.com:

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🔸 Couples: Download the “Why Love Alone Isn’t Enough” eBook to discover what it really takes to build a relationship that thrives.

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