Episodios

  • How to Get Your Partner to Stop 'Fixing' and Start Validating Your Feelings
    Mar 4 2025

    Does your partner always try to "fix" your problems, leaving you feeling unheard, & invalidated? In this episode, I coach a former engineer Jorge, on what he can do to solve this, be a better listener, and help his wife feel validated and truly heard!

    If you want to get coached by me on these weekly calls, join my weekly group coaching program, “Becoming One.” It’s open for enrollment for a limited time! 👉 Sign up here https://www.matttownsend.com/becomingonesm

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    8 m
  • My Husband Runs Away From Conflict... What Can I Do?
    Feb 28 2025

    What if my partner runs away during conflict? In this episode, I coach a member of my Becoming One weekly group coaching program on one of my most frequently asked questions.

    If you’re dealing with this, and want to learn from me, join Becoming One and I'll give you the skills and tools you need to transform your communication!

    Enrollment is open for a limited time! 👉 https://www.matttownsend.com/becomingonesme

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    10 m
  • 4 Communication Ruts That Are Killing Your Relationship
    Feb 18 2025

    Communication can make or break a relationship—but most couples don’t realize the small habits that are slowly tearing them apart. The truth is, we all fall into communication ruts that create distance, resentment, and frustration. But the good news? You can break free and start connecting again.

    Today, we’re diving into 4 Common Communication Ruts That Are Killing Your Relationship—and how to fix them.

    If you need extra help and want to work directly with me weekly to resolve your communication struggles, check out my $59 weekly group coaching program, “Becoming One.” It’s open for enrollment for a limited time! 👉 Sign up here https://www.matttownsend.com/becomingonesm

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    5 m
  • I Hate My Mother In-Law
    Feb 14 2025

    Struggling with a difficult mother-in-law? You’re not alone. Many couples face tension, conflict, and stress when dealing with in-laws, which can put a serious strain on their marriage. In this episode, I coach a member of my Becoming One weekly group coaching program as we tackle common mother-in-law issues—setting healthy boundaries, handling toxic behavior, and improving communication with your spouse.

    If you’re dealing with in-law drama and want expert relationship advice, join Becoming One and get the tools to strengthen your marriage. Enrollment is open for a limited time! 👉 https://www.matttownsend.com/becomingonesm

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    9 m
  • My Husband Can’t Communicate Without Getting Defensive
    Feb 11 2025

    If you struggle to communicate with your husband or wife, due to one or both of you getting defensive, you are not alone. Today, I chat with a caller live and explore effective strategies to foster open dialogue and reduce defensiveness in relationships. This is a segment pulled from my "Becoming One" weekly group coaching program, where I answer your questions live each Friday.

    If you're facing similar issues and seeking to strengthen your marriage, and want to ask me your questions, consider joining "Becoming One". Enrollment is now open for a limited time.

    https://www.matttownsend.com/becomingonesm

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    16 m
  • Dr. John Gottman Shares the Secrets to a Happy & Lasting Marriage (Based on 40+ Years of Research)
    Feb 5 2025

    I was fortunate to interview Dr. John Gottman, the world's #1 marriage/relationship expert. John has spent 40+ years studying what makes relationships last—and what causes them to fail, and today, he's sharing the research backed strategies happy couples use to build lasting love.

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    34 m
  • I Coached 5,000+ Struggling Couples—These 5 Habits Make or Break A Marriage
    Jan 31 2025

    I’ve coached 5,000+ struggling couples over the past 25 years, and I’ve found there are 5 habits that separate happy, thriving relationships from those that are falling apart. In my latest video, I’m breaking down the 5 things happy couples do differently—practical, research-backed relationship advice that can help you build a stronger marriage, improve communication with your partner, and stop unnecessary fights before they start.

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    42 m
  • 4 Game-Changing Marriage Rules You’ll Wish You Knew Sooner
    Jan 24 2025

    Marriage is hard—no one hands you a rulebook when you say 'I do.' But what if you had a guide to avoid common pitfalls and build a thriving relationship? In this episode, Dr. Matt's diving into 4 Game-Changing Marriage Rules You’ll Wish You Knew Sooner—practical, eye-opening principles that can transform how you approach your partnership. Whether you’re newlyweds or decades in, these rules will help you communicate better, fight fair, and reconnect with your partner in ways that last. Tune in and discover the keys to a stronger, more fulfilling marriage!"

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    28 m