How can you believe in God’s love when the wounds of the past feel overwhelming and you’re dealing with broken trust? Whether you’ve dealt with a betrayal in a relationship, hardships in life, or church hurt - you are not alone in what you’re going through. If you are having difficulty trusting God after you’ve been hurt, today’s episode with author Rachael Adams will bring some healing into your life.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

[05:15] Have You Been Hurt and Are Doubting God’s Love?

[09:08] How Can We Use God’s Love to Start Over in Unthinkable Situations?

[12:40] How Can The Idea of “Loving Fearlessly” Help Us to Move Forward When We Are Wounded?

[17:00] What Can We Do If We Feel Unloveable and Undeserving of Receiving God’s Love?

[21:06] I Read All of The Bible Verses and Still Don’t Feel God’s Love - What Do I Do?

[22:56] Reflecting on 1 Corinthians 13:4-8

[25:06] Alicia’s Reflections: We Cannot Gloss Over The Difficult Moments - Be Willing to Sit in The Muck

RESOURCES:

Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.

Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!

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Friendships are a beautiful gift from God, but have you ever experienced a toxic friendship that crossed emotional boundaries? In today’s episode, I share key signs of a toxic friendship and how to set boundaries around them – especially if you struggle with people-pleasing.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

[02:04] What is an Emotionally Toxic Friendship?

[05:11] “A Healthy Friendship is Based on Mutual Truth and Care”

[08:37] How Do Friendships Vary in Purpose and Support?

[11:54] Are You in an Over-Dependent Relationship?

[18:37] Tools We Can Use to Set Boundaries in Toxic Friendships

[22:53] Do You Want The Fear of Offending Someone to Stop You From Making Healthy Choices in Friendships?

[25:00] Should We Always Bring Up Boundaries in Toxic Relationships?

[27:20] Friendships Do Not Replace Our Relationship With God

RESOURCES:

Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.

Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!

Ready for a step-by-step plan based on the Bible + brain science to identify + rewire subconscious thoughts so they line up with your true identity in Christ? Join us in the Christian Mindset Makeover!

Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!

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Many of us feel lonelier than ever, but what if there were ways to start building connections and overcome that loneliness? Author Becky Harling joins us to discuss powerful mindset shifts for loneliness that we can implement today.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

[04:56] Why Do We Feel Guilt and Shame Around Loneliness?

[06:57] How Can We Break Free From The Things That Keep Us Stuck in Loneliness?

[10:15] How Does Authentic Connection Relate to Our Connection With The Lord?

[13:36] Why is Embracing Humility an Essential Step in Working Through Loneliness?

[16:05] “Stop Comparing and Start Cheering”

[19:38] How Has The Cultural Shift Towards Self-Sufficiency Kept Us From Giving and Receiving Comfort?

[26:58] Why Is It Important to Overcome Being Easily Offended?

[36:41] Alicia’s Reflections: Ask Yourself “What Is My Responsibility and How Can I Look At Loneliness in a New Light?”

RESOURCES:

Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.

Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!

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238: “How Can I Feel More Connected + Less Lonely This Year?”

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If you deal with chronic pain you know that managing emotions often feels emotionally draining. There is a lot of science-based evidence on the emotion-pain connection - which is what I will be sharing about today. You are not alone in the emotions you experience with chronic pain and I am walking this journey right alongside you.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

[03:39] Four Scientific Reasons Why Chronic Pain Can Feel So Emotionally Debilitating

[14:19] Suffering is Not Something We Can Avoid - But We Can Reframe It

[19:21] How Can We Use ADD to Walk Through Chronic Pain?

[30:12] A Real-Life Example of How I Used ADD as Emotional Support While Dealing With a Frozen Shoulder

[32:10] Want Support Managing Emotions Around Chronic Pain? Join Us In The Emotional Confidence Club!

RESOURCES:

Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.

Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!

Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!

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Do you struggle with naming emotions? Do you wish you had a tool to help you name your feelings? In today's episode, author Anjuli Paschall joins us to share why noticing your feelings may feel challenging and ways you can start to learn more about them.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

[05:05] Our Emotions Are a Gift That Draws Us Closer to God

[07:48] The Story Behind Anjuli’s Latest Book “Feel”

[11:07] Why Is Noticing and Naming Our Emotions So Challenging?

[15:23] What Are The Temptations We May Experience With Certain Emotions and How Can We Move Through These Feelings?

[20:06] We Are Not Here to Fix Our Emotions, We Are Here to Become Vulnerable and Build Deeper Connections

[25:44] A Liturgy For When You Feel Numb

[31:09] Alicia’s Reflections: The Importance of Exploring the Depths of Our Emotions

RESOURCES:

Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.

Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!

Connect with author Anjuli Paschall

Book a Free 15-Minute Call to discuss the next steps on your emotional management journey.

Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!

Imagine if you could use brain science and the Bible together to rewire those inner lies that keep you from believing God's truth about your identity--those limiting beliefs, perfectionistic ideals, unresolved fears, and more! Join the hundreds of women who have found renewed confidence + freedom in the Christian Mindset Makeover!

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Asking yourself ‘What am I feeling?’ can feel very daunting, but understanding your emotions is a powerful step toward emotional self-awareness. Join me today as we explore how analyzing your emotions can bring you closer to yourself and God.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

[00:33] How Can We Build a Habit Around Noticing Our Emotions?

[05:14] The First Question to Ask Yourself: “What Am I Feeling?”

[11:54] The Second Question to Ask Yourself: “Why Does It Make Sense That I’m Feeling This Way?”

[13:46] What Keeps You From Asking Yourself These Questions?

[15:08] We Are In Control of Our Actions and Habits

[15:55] I’d Love to Help You Get to The Next Level in Your Life - Book a Free 15-Minute Call With Me!

RESOURCES:

Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.

Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!

Book a Free 15-Minute Call to discuss the next steps on your emotional management journey.

Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!

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It is the time of year when everyone is goal-setting and focusing on outward achievements - but what if God is calling you to embrace emotional replenishment first? Join me today as I talk about the impact of going inward and how not every season of life is about outward production. It might be the time to step back, focus inward, and start waiting on God to bring replenishment.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

[01:16] What if Turning Inward For Replenishment is What You Need For The Big Changes You Desire in Life?

[04:32] Just Like Nature, We Each Experience Seasons of Rest and Growth

[07:27] “There is Hidden Wisdom in a Tree's Annual Dormancy”

[09:39] We Need to be Replenished to Show Up Well For Others

[12:52] What Does The Process of Replenishment Look Like?

[15:56] Have You Bought The Lie That Progress Only Looks Like Achievement?

[17:51] Finding Emotional Strength and Replenishment to Prepare Ourselves For Different Situations

[21:08] Do You Need Emotional Replenishment? Book a Free 15-Minute Call With Me to Discuss The Next Steps in Your Emotional Management Journey!

RESOURCES:

Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.

Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!

Book a Free 15-Minute Call to discuss the next steps on your emotional management journey.

Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!

Ready to refresh your mind, body, and spirit as you explore one of the world's most beloved regions? Join Alicia in September 2025 for a life-changing travel retreat to Italy!

Imagine if you could use brain science and the Bible together to rewire those inner lies that keep you from believing God's truth about your identity--those limiting beliefs, perfectionistic ideals, unresolved fears, and more! Join the hundreds of women who have found renewed confidence + freedom in the Christian Mindset Makeover!

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If you struggle with managing anxiety around your fear of the future, you are not alone. Today is a replay of the most popular episode this year and as we are all creating new year goals, it is important to bring it back. As we head into 2025, I hope this episode helps with ideas around managing fear so you feel confident to step into your God-given dreams - no matter what comes your way.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

[04:50] Is Fear Bad?

[07:42] What is The Difference Between Worldly Fear And Godly Fear?

[11:16] What is The Concept of Pachad And Yirah?

[15:20] Are You Stuck in The Fear Coping Mechanism Cycle?

[17:09] What Is A Healthy Coping Mechanism To Deal With Fear?

[18:11] Are There “Cracks In Your Foundation” When It Comes to Trusting God?

[21:55] Working Through Fear with the “Calm Your Anxiety Toolkit”

[24:05] The Exciting Things That Are Coming in 2025!

[28:10] A Powerful Prayer Dedicating Our Upcoming Year to Christ

RESOURCES:

Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.

Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!

Do anxious thoughts consume your mind + steal your peace? If so, check out the “Calm Your Anxiety Toolkit”

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249: Learning to Expectantly Believe God for Big Dreams (Even If You’ve Been Hurt)

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