Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

I want to talk about something we all need a little more of: self-compassion.

It can feel strange or even wrong to be kind to ourselves, especially if your trauma history does not give you a good model of what that should look like.

But I’m here to tell you that self-compassion is not selfish—it’s actually essential, especially when you’re healing from childhood trauma. So, let’s dive in and talk about what self-compassion really is, whether it’s okay to practice it, and six simple tips to start showing yourself more grace today.

I hope this episode blesses and inspires you.

In Healing and Love 😊

Jenniel

🌟Your Next Steps🌟

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***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is not a substitute for individual coaching or therapy. It is for educational purposes only. For professional support, seek out and follow the advice of your licensed mental health practitioner.

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

Today, we’re going to dive into something really important when it comes to trauma—understanding the different ways our bodies and minds respond to it. If you’ve ever found yourself reacting to stress in ways that don’t quite make sense, this episode will help clarify and allow you to give grace to yourself. We’re discussing the four trauma responses: fight, flight, freeze, and fawn and how to address each.

I hope this episode blesses and inspires you.

In Healing and Love 😊

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🌟Your Next Steps🌟

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***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is not a substitute for individual coaching or therapy. It is for educational purposes only. For professional support, seek out and follow the advice of your licensed mental health practitioner.

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

Want to do something to take immediate control of your mental health? There is a simple action you can take.

Today, we're diving into something I think we all can relate to—social media. Yep, that thing we love, hate, or sometimes can’t live without. But here's the truth: if you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or just drained, it might be time to hit pause.

So, in today’s episode, we’re talking about taking a break from social media and why it’s so good for your mental health, especially if you’re on a healing journey from childhood trauma. Let’s get into it!"

I hope this episode blesses and inspires you.

In Healing and Love 😊

Jenniel

🌟Your Next Steps🌟

👉🏼 Download the Free Guide: 10 Signs You Need Inner Child Healing: And How it can Help You Live out Your Calling https://go.shadesoftraumahealing.com/10-signs

👉🏼 Help the show reach more sisters by Leaving a Review to boost visibility

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***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is not a substitute for individual coaching or therapy. It is for educational purposes only. For professional support, seek out and follow the advice of your licensed mental health practitioner.

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 ***Trigger Warning*** This episode contains conversations about suicidal thoughts and attempts. If you struggle with suicidal thoughts, please call your local Suicide Crisis Helpline

Here are the contacts for three countries

Suicide Crisis Helpline

USA: 9-8-8

Canada 9-8-8 UK: 1-1-1

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My guest today is Rev. Tanya Nemley is a licensed minister, mother of 6 children, grandmother of 2, and married to, Rev. James A. Nemley. She is the author of 3 books “Obsessed with God, A Layman’s view of the Holiness of God, and A Handbook For Surviving Suffering”.

She is a recording artist and avid blogger at “Godspeaks-i-listen.com.” Tanya can also be seen performing her ventriloquist act with her sidekick, “Miss Jae” at “Samantha’s Lil’ Bit of Heaven” in East Northport, NY. She has been serving the Lord in ministry for over 50 years.

Our conversation today is about surviving Parental emotional neglect, suicidal ideation, rejection, feeling unloved, domestic violence and experiencing the transformation needed to step into and live out God’s purpose.

I hope this episode blesses and inspires you.

In Healing and Love 😊

Jenniel

Connect with Tanya

https://godspeaks-i-listen.com/about/

https://www.facebook.com/TanyaNemley https://twitter.com/NemleyTanya https://www.instagram.com/nemleytanya/

🌟Your Next Steps🌟

👉🏼 Download the Free Guide: 10 Signs You Need Inner Child Healing: And How it can Help You Live out Your Calling: https://go.shadesoftraumahealing.com/10-signs

👉🏼 Help the show reach more sisters by Leaving a Review to boost visibility

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👉🏼Join the FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heal.childhood.trauma.christian.women

👉🏼Email Me: support@shadesoftraumahealing.com

***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is not a substitute for individual coaching or therapy. It is for educational purposes only. For professional support, seek out and follow the advice of your licensed mental health practitioner.

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

Let’s talk about managing our thoughts—specifically, how we can take every thought captive as believers in Christ. For many of us, especially those healing from trauma, our minds can be a battlefield.

But the Bible offers us practical ways to renew our minds and overcome negative, self-defeating thoughts.

I hope this episode blesses and inspires you.

In Healing and Love 😊

Jenniel

🌟Your Next Steps🌟

👉🏼 Download the Free Guide: 10 Signs You Need Inner Child Healing: And How it can Help You Live out Your Calling: https://go.shadesoftraumahealing.com/10-signs

👉🏼 Help the show reach more sisters by Leaving a Review to boost visibility

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👉🏼Join the FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heal.childhood.trauma.christian.women

👉🏼Email Me: support@shadesoftraumahealing.com

***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is not a substitute for individual coaching or therapy. It is for educational purposes only. For professional support, seek out and follow the advice of your licensed mental health practitioner.

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

Overwhelm is a common issue that many people struggle with, and it can be incredibly challenging for those who are healing from childhood trauma.

If you’ve ever felt like the weight of the world is pressing down on you, like you’re constantly running but getting nowhere, today’s episode is just for you.

We’re diving into overwhelm, what it is, why we feel it, and, most importantly, what we can do about it.

I hope this episode blesses and inspires you.

In Healing and Love 😊

Jenniel

🌟Your Next Steps🌟

👉🏼 Download the Free Guide: 10 Signs You Need Inner Child Healing: And How it can Help You Live out Your Calling: https://go.shadesoftraumahealing.com/10-signs

👉🏼 Help the show reach more sisters by Leaving a Review to boost visibility

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shades-of-trauma-healing-childhood-trauma-trust/id1697943321

👉🏼Join the FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heal.childhood.trauma.christian.women

👉🏼Email Me: support@shadesoftraumahealing.com

***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is not a substitute for individual coaching or therapy. It is for educational purposes only. For professional support, seek out and follow the advice of your licensed mental health practitioner.

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽

Today ,we continue to explore the different types of threats that can cause you fear and unwanted behaviors. The threats to each area are real, and the aim is not to deny thrat the theats exist. As Christian women we are told not to fear, even in the midst of threats, so the hope is that you will identify the specific threats that you feel fear around and take steps to get healing while exchanging the fear for God’s love and peace.

I hope this episode blesses and inspires you.

In Healing and Love 😊

Jenniel

🌟Your Next Steps🌟

👉🏼 Download the Free Guide: 10 Signs You Need Inner Child Healing: And How it can Help You Live out Your Calling https://go.shadesoftraumahealing.com/10-signs

👉🏼 Help the show reach more sisters by Leaving a Review to boost visibility

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shades-of-trauma-healing-childhood-trauma-trust/id1697943321

👉🏼Join the FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heal.childhood.trauma.christian.women

👉🏼Email Me: support@shadesoftraumahealing.com

***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is not a substitute for individual coaching or therapy. It is for educational purposes only. For professional support, seek out and follow the advice of your licensed mental health practitioner.