• What to do when you are together with a liar?
    Nov 6 2024
    It can be hard. And it happens to everybody.
    If we have the chance to avoid this liar, just do it. If not, we have to protect us.
    I was together with a liar and cheater in a love relationship.
    My first step was how to identify when my dear one is lying!
    When I was finding it out that she lied, she got agitated. At the moment when I stopped blemish her for lying, her anger was over. And this is the proof that the person is lying. Because if we blemish the liar, the liar will perform anger to protect his/her integrity. If we change the talk, the shown anger is over.
    The other step is to write down what the liar has told you… And if the liar is changing his lies, we recognize it.
    If we realize that the other person is lying, we don’t need to mention that, because it will hurt the liar.
    The reason for lying might be through the different culture.
    In the Western World, for instance, in Germany, it is terrible to lie. In Thailand is lying okay, if the person doesn't want to hurt you or confront you or do not want to lose his face. For instance, I wanted to get window grills, and the smith had given me a too low price… He never came to my house, nor he gave a reason not to install the grills… Because he didn’t like to lose his face.
    What makes the lying to our own psychology?
    If we need something urgently from the liar, we have a lot of fear. We don’t know can we trust or not trust… Our own inner monsters are coming up, what is when not? Why should we believe this liar?
    Many years, I was confronted with lies.- It was stressful, never the less I learned a lot to have trust even everything is running against me.
    What to do?
    Everything is God, and God has everything under his control.
    How can somebody lie or cheat you, if you have trust in God?
    I choose that I am thankful for every outcome. That looks really crazy.The reality is and was: So more I am afraid or mistrust so more I got cheated and lied.
    If we can keep cool, the situation is easy. This means we make the situation worse because we demand something urgently. So more we demand so more we distract our beloved outcome!
    Trust in God and don’t trust to 100% people. I got even cheated by my best friends… Look that you can always check the trusted person… For instance, a guy who has a superior position or wealth than you don’t care if he cheats you or not. Don’t trust such person!!!
    I got more cheated and lied by people in higher position or very wealthy than from anybody else!!!

    My video: What to do when you are together with a liar? https://youtu.be/0FhtKE8Yb5MMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/What-to-do-when-you-are-together-with-a-liar..mp3


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  • Ginkgo Biloba is the best for our brain.
    Nov 5 2024


    I came across Ginkgo Biloba as a herb that increases our blood flow and that is crucial for the brain and the entire body…
    For instance, low blood flow causes rectal dysfunction and low Nitrous oxide…40% of 40 years old have rectal dysfunction, 70% of 70 years old have rectal dysfunctionIf you have blood flow problems anywhere you have blood flow problems everywhere…
    So older we get so more problems we have with our blood flow.
    We have to exercise our body daily, otherwise, no supplement can help us increase our blood flow!
    Maybe you think with coffee you can increase your blood flow… The opposite is true, caffeine that is also in Tea cause low blood flow because it constricts the blood vessels. And Caffeine shrinks the brain.
    Laboratory studies have shown that ginkgo improves blood circulation by opening up blood vessels and making blood less sticky. It is also an antioxidant.
    Although Chinese herbal medicine has used both the ginkgo leaf and seed for thousands of years,
    Ginkgo Biloba has the components flavonoids and terpenoids. Flavonoids are plant-based antioxidants. Laboratory and animal studies show that flavonoids protect the nerves, heart muscle, blood vessels, and retina from damage. Terpenoids (such as ginkgolides) improve blood flow by dilating blood vessels and reducing the stickiness of platelets.
    Ginkgo is widely used in Europe for treating dementia.
    Several studies show that ginkgo has a positive effect on memory and thinking in people with Alzheimer's disease or vascular dementia.
    Improve thinking, learning, and memory (cognitive function).Have an easier time performing daily activities.Improve social behavior.Have fewer feelings of depression.
    Good for our eyes, protects our retina, improves Glaucoma, and helps macular degeneration.
    One preliminary study found that a special formulation of ginkgo extract called EGB 761 might help relieve anxiety.
    It can take 4 to 6 weeks to see any effects from ginkgo. Ask your doctor to help you find the right dose.
    How much we should take 2 times 120mg with food?
    Please consult your doctor before you take Ginkgo Biloba.Because Ginkgo Biloba can interfere with some medicaments…


    My Video: Ginkgo Biloba is the best for our brain. https://youtu.be/C4GavOHVO7wMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Ginkgo-Biloba-is-the-best-for-our-brain.mp3
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  • How to overcome our worldly desires?
    Nov 4 2024
    Worldly happiness is only a relief of pain and tension. Watch a happy baby, and see how it is, - just so, without any condition… And that we have lost. The society wants us to work hard and to be unhappy, unsatisfied and fearful, - to take our money for surrogates and protection. A lazy, brave and happy person is independent of the Society, and that the society doesn’t want.

    Why we want wealth and money?
    You can’t buy happiness. If we look for wealth, money we should look also why we want that. Most of the cases, we need a surrogate compensation for our frustration, anger for the dislike jobs, for the bad people around us, … Or we don’t love us. How would it be if we do what we love then we don’t need these surrogates?

    Why are we not thankful for everything that we have already? Through gratefulness we become happy.

    Why do we look for might, power, position to get the world under our control instead of ourselves?

    Bible: Don’t be a slave of the world, get your desires under your control. The master is more enslaved than the slave.

    Why we want that beautiful girl or awesome person or to have sex with that person?
    Nobody can make us happy, fulfilled, and full of love!

    Nature wants children and this drive is rooted so deep in our animal mind that we can’t get rid of it… Nature makes us addicted to our lust to create children and so it creates these dreams of this awesome, handsome, wealthy or mighty soul-mate.
    Regardless how attractive the other person is; the reality is that we idealize that person and project something that we want to have for ourselves…

    Why do we demand prestige, recognition, praise, respect, and love?
    Love yourself and then you don’t need the praise or love of others. If you are independent and love yourself, the world will give you the praise even without demanding.

    Why we take drugs or overeat?
    Addiction is always a sign that we have suppressed negative emotions, traumas inside of us. With the help of the drugs, we keep suppressing our feelings and traumas. Face them!!! Then you don’t need drugs anymore.

    For all of our worldly desires helps a spiritual practice to become inside happy and fulfilled. The spiritual path is created as a remedy for worldly desires. Still, it can’t take away all of our wishes. We should live also our worldly life, and live the desires that are necessary to become a fully developed human being.
    We should challenge us to become a better person.

    My video: How to overcome our worldly desires? https://youtu.be/YsOJV8vuRfE
    My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end.
    My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-overcome-our-worldly-desires.mp3

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  • How to recover from overwhelming?
    Nov 3 2024
    Your computer fails if the Main Hard Disk is full and heavy fragmented.
    First, we unload the Hard Disk from unnecessary files or programs and then defragment the Hard Disk.
    And so we do it with our overwhelmed life that can lead to severe diseases. Stress is the cause number1 of illness or death.
    First, escape from that chaos and relax. Consider an excellent Spa, because to relax is easier.
    What is really important?
    Organize your life after the 80/20 rule. The 80/20 rule says that 20% of our efforts are creating 80% of our Outcome… With other words, we can skip 80% of our tasks, jobs, friends.
    Make your Fear lists with the worst possible outcomes. Prioritize them. Then you have your fears under your controls.
    Make a stress list… What stress is necessary and what not? Get rid of all unnecessary stress from jobs, tasks, and stress-makers (be it your parents or relatives or friends).
    Make your to-do list.
    Make your have done lists.
    Make your daily schedules.
    Write down everything that comes to your mind.
    Stop procrastination. How to stop procrastination? See link at the end.
    Slow down and relax.You don’t need to make every job ready to the same time or in a too short period. So faster you work so more mistakes you make. Make one job right, even it needs more time. And then start with the next job…
    Save time!You don’t need to make every 10 minutes Facebook, or to check your Emails, messages,… 2 times a day is enough… Limit your Facebook time to 15 minutes a day.
    TV causes so many fears inside of us, TV harms us.
    GET RID OF YOUR TV.
    Stop taking drugs. Because drugs are making everything worse in the end…
    Start or do Sport and also do Qigong, Yoga, and Meditation.
    Start to enjoy your life with doing what you love.
    Find friends that lift you up and support you. And get rid of friends and relatives that pull you down or stress you.
    Before you start to work, look for fewer jobs that you can or must do today. Identify the Why you want to do them. Find the How you would like to do them.
    When you don’t like jobs particularly, ask yourself why you don’t like them. Ask your friends how to change your attitude that you like these jobs. Understand that everything has two poles, a positive and a negative pole. And you mainly focus on the negative if you don’t like a job.

    My Video: How to recover from overwhelming? https://youtu.be/ofxW4j2mYFE
    My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/How-to-recover-from-overwhelmed.mp3

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  • How self-improvement is RUINING YOUR LIFE
    Nov 2 2024
    And I could write books about it how all the new standards or rules we should live for have a downside…Self-improvement can make you self-absorptionYour life becomes just you… To maximize your time, spirituality, and outcome and skip what is not fittingBut that doesn’t make you happy, If you love and serve people, your friends, and your spouse… that makes you happy and fulfilled …But that you should skip to improve your life… The people that are not fitting to your goals you should separate, even if you enjoy being together with them… You are the average of the top people with them you are together… You separate and like to be together with people who have a higher standard than yourself…For your goals, you sell your friends, your love… You become isolated and always look for better opportunities to be together with better people or people with more money…You shut out the world and even God to become more focused, and your relationships are over… Who wants to be together with such an Idiot? And it is prostitution, you want to suck out your new friends and …Value your time at best, don’t waste a single moment…The outcome of a normal conversation, When it is not fitting, leave and go, don’t waste your time… And the people around you, think, we will retaliate for such impolite, unfriendly behavior Instead, to become a better version of yourself, you look that you become better than others…Instead of becoming a lovable human being You become a social The self-improving courses give you a rule book that you have to check all the boxes positively to feel happy and fulfilled…Hitler did the same for his Hitler Jugend or Hitler Youth….This means one Aswhxxx can dictates when it is allowed to feel happy…. We call this conditional happinessIf I do x, I can feel productive, happy, and fulfilled.When you don’t do these things or follow these rules on weekends, then you feel depressed… So you miss out on life… I can feel even happier if I don’t earn 10Mill per month even if I don’t care…. Because my focus is on God!If you grow older, You realizethat you're backpacking tours or hitchhiking in foreign countries and being together with totally different people…Staying in an Indian Ashram Climbed or trekked in the Himalayas or Andes …Or your deep love storiesHave many more positive influences in your lifeSelf-improvement is expanding your life, trying out different things…Instead of isolationInstead of chasing $1Mill, what is the difference to a prostitute? The prostitute enjoys her work!The biggest question of any self-improvement is why I feel I am not enough.Even if you get all the stuff, you want so that you think that you are complete.When you get the stuff that you want, then your ego wants more and what you already have is never enough. Money makes you more than what you are already… If you are a bad person, you get even worse…. You think negatively about yourself, that you are unlovable, undeserving of success, and abandonIf/when We enter a time where everything runs against us… And then to ask what is wrong with meThat makes everything worse…Instead of consulting yourself, accept the situation, and see it as a challenge.The new rules of your self-improvement programs teach you, that you can only be happy when you achieve your goals… And makes so everything worse.You can’t force anything that is not under your control… instead accept the situation.My Video: How self-improvement is RUINING YOUR LIFE https://youtu.be/kV94yHKTCg4 My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/How-self-improvement-is-RUINING-YOUR-LIFE.mp3
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  • I’ll be happy tomorrow
    Nov 1 2024
    … If… And that maybe never happens.When we get even everything fulfilled, we will still be unhappy. Because we have created this habit to be happy tomorrow.
    My father who was a very successful guy was never happy. Because he always wanted more. And that was the reason he was so successful.
    All the right things happen today and never tomorrow.
    The Tomorrow thinking is a vicious circle. Because the tomorrow will be the same of postponing to be happy. And even you will be happy tomorrow, the next day you will again shift the happiness on tomorrow.
    Now we want to analyze this tomorrow thinking:
    What we gain tomorrow is in 2 days old again…. And then we are unhappy again.When we get something new, then we think first how brilliant that thing is. Everything has 2 poles…. A beneficial pole and a negative pole. Our mind works like a pendulum. From positive it will swing to negative. Even we admire something after some time our mind will look for mistakes. And that is the reason why in the East philosophy/religion to stop thinking better is than to think at all. We think we can control tomorrow. Normally we have maybe 5% under our control. Every moment we can die… And that will happen!

    Everything is just so, it is neither good or bad. Our thinking makes a thing positive or negative. Still, everything is just so.
    How is it if we analyze everything that we want for the positive and negative. And this I do since over 30 years.
    I found out that mostly what I desire is not so attractive as I thought before. And guess what happens?
    I can be easier happy with what I have and live so more in the here and now.
    The more things change so more they stay the same.This means we remain the same, regardless how many things are changing. How is it to be happy with the things, status you have already? The tomorrow will never be better! Don’ t block your happiness through your Tomorrow thinking.

    My Video: I’ll be happy tomorrow https://youtu.be/7naVX6L2d60
    My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/I’ll-be-happy-tomorrow.mp3


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  • How to speak with confidence?
    Oct 31 2024
    I have put here some useful tips together….
    1.) To sound smartWe all want to be smart, whether we are or not. Wittgenstein said: the greatest fool can become wise if he does what he feels…We express our idea with our own language, don’t polish anything. And through that, you are in the flow with your wisdom, instead of pretending to be somebody else.
    2.) Use the criticism from the others…If we are controversial, then we give information that is new or not appreciate from the other people. In this case, we can receive intense criticism.
    Don’t take it personally. Hear what the people say and ask them to explain further their criticism… Relax and hear. Look where both of you had been on the same page… Acknowledge that so the tension will diffuse. Look for common ground.
    Apply the Strategy of Aikido… You first follow the attacker and then you use his energy to bring him down. Instead of beating him up like the stupid Karate guys.
    Appreciate his opinion. Say thank you for telling me your opinion
    Look where his or your opinion is wrong. And then bring the solution for both.
    3.) Look that he could verbal understand you. Have you spoken your opinion loud and clear enough? Repeat what you have said in different words and loud enough!
    4.) Good posture will tell much better!Look that your spine and neck are straight and your breast is open and forward… The knees should not be locked, should be relaxed and bend a little bit. As you have seen on TV, don’t lean backward, sit straight without support for your spine. This will give you much more confidence.
    5.) Be physically fit and drink enough water… Easy to do…
    6.) Serve the people
    If we try to serve the people instead to polish our ego, we will have confidence. All these ego trips make it so hard to find the best solution for everybody. Always remember that you like to help the people and to be a vehicle for the best of everybody.
    My Video: How to speak with confidence? https://youtu.be/xJ7G08z7ZfIMy Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/how-to-speak-with-confidence.mp3
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  • Why the Religions have failed and not God!
    Oct 30 2024
    Because of the Religions:
    Make huge money through their teaching. Give the people a bad consciousness and then rob them out.Overpower governments, people and squeeze them out.Have a double standard/morality - the sexual and corruption scandals of the Religions are well known.Made/make wars against other Religions in the name of the Lord.Demonize people through witch pursuits and kill them as an enemy of the Lord… Kill, enslave and rape nonbelievers of the Islam.Accept slavery and wars.Sexual abuse women, kids… Torture people.Misuse the donation for the poor people or victims in catastrophes and put the money in their own pocket. Sacrifice human life for the benefit of the Lord.Make active politics in the mosque, church, and temple.Proclaim dishonest religious statements and rules to overpower and to discriminate women and certain groups of people.Teach religion rules and history wrong!Don’t allow to criticize their religion teachers, leaders or Gurus, even they are involved in cheating, corruption, sexual abuse of kids and have forbidden sexual affairs.
    Who wonders, why the Mafia is going to the Catholic Church? Or what is worse the Mafia or the Catholic Church? I could not find an answer!!!!
    Alone all of these examples above would be enough to make the lucrative business of the Religions an end, still, it continues!!
    Because the people like to live in slavery, don’t like to think about the crime of the Religions. People rather like to stick to traditions that never had worked. The mass likes to kneel down in front of people in high positions and never question them!
    Regardless where we look, everywhere we face the wicked guys who want power and wealth. And these people had created the religions, the scriptures after the saint passed by… The next generations made their fortune from the stories of the saint, be them true or false.
    When we blemish God for the crime of the Religions or for the dictators, the liars, and cheaters, then we don’t want to be responsible!
    To complain is too simple, but very comfortable.
    Until we don’t feel responsible or think we can’t do anything. Our fortune is in the hand of the wicked one and not in the hand of God!!!!
    We support the wicked and not God!
    Face it: to idealize a Religion, means to open the door for cheating, lying and to become the fanatic.
    In Thailand, the Military Dictator checks the temples for corruption and want that they pay tax and open their books. The religious people are against that. Even the religious people prevent that the police can catch the most corrupt and criminal Abbot. So there must be something wrong with the religious people and the society.
    Every Country should check their organized Religions like the Thai military government.
    Gandhi said: Religion is man made and God has no Religion.
    We can pray and surrender to God also without any organized Religion.
    My Video: Why the Religions have failed and not God! https://youtu.be/IOnsPSYXf1U
    My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-the-Religions-have-failed-and-not-God.mp3
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