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  • Why relationships don’t work out?

    Why relationships don’t work out?
    Nov 23 2024


    What is a real relationship, or most important? Authentic life-giving relationship
    Why are the relationships not working?
    1. They don’t give their real self; they act like in a movie, make shows, or give different versions of themselves… And that version is configured by traumas so that it protects us from getting hurt again…
    I participated in many self-experience groups, with encounter/bioenergetic for an entire weekend… And I heard again and again, I know you better than my husband which I have married for 10 years, and that after one weekend.
    And if we don’t start a relationship fresh, with no past experience that influences our behavior, we will end up in the same relationship from which we separated…So we should assume the best about our new partner, not hide or cover up our emotions…
    The reality is, we don’t want to get hurt again, so we like to protect ourselves, and giving just a little bit more might be dangerous…You never can be loved when hurt is an option…
    If you just open your heart just a little bit then love is no option.The level that you are vulnerable is the level that you experience the love…
    Which personality you are bringing into the relationship? The broken wounded, needy, pessimistic version of yourself?
    Or you start new… Remember Nelson Mandela was 20 years in jail. Nelson Mandala asked himself, " Do I want to let go of all the pain and suffering, forgive, and start new? Or do I want to hold on to my past and live in jail?
    2. First, we have to heal the wounds inside to start a new relationship…And that needs time…
    We need time to care for ourselves for our well-being…
    We are not bringing our full selves into the relationship, be it intimacy, love, friendship, or business, when we allow our traumas to guard us. We don’t tender to ourselves to heal our wounds.
    3. We don’t love ourselves, we can’t forgive ourselves and so we can’t really love another partner.
    4. The relationship reflects on ourselves, and how we deal with our spouses so we treat ourselves.
    6. How harder we work on ourselves, so better the relationships become.
    First, heal yourself.Face your traumas.Face your shame.
    7. What to do?Analyze the negative patterns that you repeat in relationships.And fix them instead of repeating them. The cause of these negative patterns is traumas or suppressed negative feelings.
    You come limping to love instead of leaping to love.
    What you scared that you need at most … This intentional time to heal, and to question yourself.Intentionally time with god, and counseling
    If you don’t do so you attract what fits your traumas, to heal them…And not what fits you, what you can love most…
    We have so many traumas inside of us... We address only the traumas we are facing now in the relationship or wherever... And so a therapist is necessary.And you don't care in which relationship you are, perfect or imperfect, and make the best out of it... Instead to wait for the perfect relationship.
    My Video: Why relationships don’t work out? https://youtu.be/2WZ76rMTVt4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Why-relationships-don’t-work-out.mp3
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  • All Bodies are good Bodies

    All Bodies are good Bodies
    Nov 22 2024
    All Bodies are good bodies after the Body Positively Movement. It sounds great but is stupid.
    Do you agree with that concept and if so can you be in love or even in the bed with all bodies?
    I remember an old, funny French movie with Jean-Paul Belmondo and Mia Farrow. A couple of friends mad a contest who could sleep with the ugliest girl…
    The Body Positively wants to see in the media all kinds of bodies, thin, black, fat, ugly,… to encourage the people to feel good about them.
    If we look in a magazine we want to see something desirable and so we like to see beautiful and attractive people or products.
    For many females, it is an offense to show sexy and beautiful girls in a magazine… Because of their negative self-image.
    If the females would love their-self as they are, they would not feel jealous or inferior.
    The female magazines are negative because they define what is beautiful and attractive and what not. So that even the most beautiful women like Whitney Houston thought that they are not beautiful.
    Why should we define us by stupid magazines?
    The problem is not the pictures of beautiful and sexy girls. The problem is our self-image, that we can’t accept and love ourselves.
    It is better to see healthy, slim and attractive people in magazines because it motivates us to be the same.
    Most of the beautiful girls in the magazines are smoking, taking drugs and live an unhealthy lifestyle. Still, they motivate us to become slim and attractive. We like more to lose weight and become healthy through such beautiful images. And that is good.
    How would you feel if you would enjoy your life? Would you be happier? Or would you be more jealous of beautiful young people?

    My Video: All Bodies are good Bodies https://youtu.be/eyqLY-bT62YMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/All-Bodies-are-good-Bodies.mp3
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  • True Religion

    True Religion
    Nov 21 2024
    The basis of a true Religion is:
    Honesty:
    Honesty, regardless what matter it is. The Great Saint Ramakrishna (the Gospel of Ramakrishna), who became famous through his love to the Lord said: he never can sacrifice his honesty, regardless what. Or Ramakrishna said: when he sees a totally honest person he knows that this is his last life.
    The Hindu and Buddhist Religion are wrong because we should not hurt people with the truth or tell the trues about the fake Gurus!
    Gandhi said: You can not hurt me without that I have given you the permission.
    We are blind to our own errors and shortcomings. Only, when somebody is pointing out that we are wrong we can comprehend. Or remember the story of the King without cloth, when a child said the king has no clothing on, the king realized that he was naked. Quotes: One honest word is more than 1000 flatter words. Honesty hurts (it should be).
    Health:
    In a healthy body is also a healthy soul!
    For the Sufis is the body the temple of God. For the Taoist are health and longevity a must!
    If we get ill then there is a reason for that. It might be an unhealthy lifestyle or suppressed negative feelings. In any case, we should know why we live an unhealthy lifestyle or why we suppress our negative feelings and which feelings we have suppressed in which situation. Read my book: Heal yourself and stay healthy.
    Live your sex:
    The Sufis are saying that sex is divine and similar is it to the Taoists. We should live our sex otherwise suppressed sex leads to diseases or perversions. Monks and nuns have double so much prostate cancer and breast cancer than worldly people. If our sex life is too exhausting we should reduce our sex. Because too much and too less sex harms our body.

    Personal God relationship:
    We should develop a personal God relationship and have total faith in God. If we do so our life will be much easier and we can develop our spirituality much faster.
    Awareness:
    Awareness of our feelings, thoughts and of the changes in the world is necessary to live a religious life. Aristotle: (Ignorantia Juris non excusat) Ignorance does not protect one from punishment.
    Love and compassion:
    Love and compassion are the highest goods in the world. Love is the sum of our good habits (Tao) and should be based on honesty and health!
    Never give blind faith to anybody.
    No religious or worldly leader should be idealized, rather more checked again and again, for his honesty. Ramakrishna said: please check me like counterfeit money. Osho said You are responsible for your life and for your decisions. Blind faith will never help you! You should be the driver of your life and be aware what you are doing. Don’t give blind faith to me or anybody else!
    No corruption…
    Every income and every spending should be taxed. The government should check, tax and regulate every temple, monastery, church, and mosque, to make sure that never corruption will happen again. Every misuse or corruption should be punished with the highest penalty. Because people have donated selflessly their hard earned money to the religious organizations, to help the poor and needy people, money for catastrophes, and the Religions have misused their money.
    For instance, the Thai Military government checks for corruption every temple. And every temple has to pay tax on their income so that the government has to check the income of the temples. Every Religion should do so.
    No Politics of Religion.
    The Religions should only teach religion, help the poor and needy people and don’t make politics!

    My Video: True Religion https://youtu.be/O_YRBaOgiXAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/true-religion.mp3
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  • What is destiny and what can we change?

    What is destiny and what can we change?
    Nov 20 2024
    And why is to be in the flow always the best?
    The belief that everything is destiny in our life has made India to the poorest country in the world!!!
    The astrology describes that everything undergoes a time cycle of changes and that the stars indicate us that.
    This means: there are times in favor of our doing, and times where we have more resistance to get our things done.
    For instance, a farmer would not plant his seeds on the ground during the cold and icy wintertime.
    We can’t be everything that we want if we don’t have the talents and support for that.This looks logical, still some marketing experts making money with selling us our dreams and we can’t accomplish them. Not everything is possible. Still, it is much more possible than we can imagine.
    Even worse, we have the best talents for our chosen courier and we don’t get the opportunity. Every effort runs in vain. Everything is possible. Also that we lose. Dr. Patrick Liew, Cofounder of Success Resources said our Agenda should be also in compliance with God will.
    For instance in wartime or crises, many people are suffering that they can’t do what they want and even must go in the war as a soldier.
    Still, we can be thankful that we still alive.
    We should try our best, regardless if we win or lose. If we don’t try who knows that we could accomplish our goals? And then to say it is our destiny that we can’t be successful is to fool ourselves.
    For me is the most important thing that I learn something on the path to accomplish something. And also that I enjoy my time and be in the flow. If I do so I never can lose!
    We try our best and sacrifice our fruits to God… That says the Srimad Bhagavatam.
    My Video: What is destiny and what can we change? https://youtu.be/NAMtTZ82EiI My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-is-destiny-and-what-can-we-change.mp3
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  • Ashwagandha the wonder herb from India

    Ashwagandha the wonder herb from India
    Nov 19 2024


    Also known as Indian ginseng,
    Normalizes cortisol levels, which reduces the stress response.Reduces inflammation.Reduces cancer risks.Improves memory.Improves immune function and anti-aging properties.Eases stress and anxiety.Improves sleepImprove sexual function in womenBoosts Fertility and Testosterone Levels in Men.

    7 Science-Backed Health Benefits of AshwagandhaResearch on Ashwagandha continues to evolve as scientists around the world study its efficacy against a variety of ailments.
    Here are a few science-backed benefits of Ashwagandha.
    1. Relieves Stress and AnxietyAshwagandha is perhaps best known for its stress-relieving properties. Several studies highlight this advantage, observing Ashwagandha’s ability to decrease participants’ stress and anxiety levels significantly.
    One particular study indicated that Ashwagandha can benefit sleep quality as well—researchers confirmed participants slept much better with doses of the herb compared to placebo doses[4].
    2. Lowers Blood Sugar and FatA couple of small clinical studies found ashwagandha to be helpful in reducing blood glucose levels and triglycerides (the most common type of fat in the blood)
    3. Increases Muscle and StrengthResearchers continue to study ashwagandha’s efficacy in improving strength and muscle size. One study found participants experienced increased speed and strength. Another study observed an increase in muscle power.
    4. Improves Sexual Function in WomenAt least one clinical study indicates ashwagandha can benefit women experiencing sexual dysfunction[10]. The administration of ashwagandha resulted in significant improvements in arousal, lubrication, orgasm, and satisfaction, as self-reported by the participants. It also significantly improved the number of successful sexual encounters and improved metrics of distress around their sex lives and sexuality.
    5. Boosts Fertility and Testosterone Levels in MenAshwagandha may also provide reproductive benefits for men. Administering ashwagandha to infertile men has been shown to improve sperm quality significantly by rebalancing reproductive hormone levels.
    Separately, in a stress-related ashwagandha study, researchers found the herb increased testosterone levels in male but not female participants.
    6. Sharpens Focus and MemoryAshwagandha may help improve cognition, memory, and the ability to perform motor responses after instruction.
    7. Supports Heart HealthAt least two studies have shown that ashwagandha can increase VO2 max levels, which is the maximum amount of oxygen you take in while physically exerting yourself.
    Risks and Side Effects of AshwagandhaAshwagandha is a safe and non-toxic plant, but there are a few factors to consider before adding it to your diet.
    Do you take other medications? It’s a good idea to let your doctor(s) know if you want to add something new to your health routine, including ashwagandha. If you’re already taking other medications, ashwagandha may enhance or weaken their effects.
    Are there other conditions to consider? Ashwagandha may be unsafe if you are pregnant, breastfeeding, immune compromised, soon undergoing surgery, or have a thyroid condition.
    What dosage should I take? Experts say that bodies may not absorb all of a 300-milligram dose of ashwagandha, for example. Larger doses may even trigger unwanted side effects, such as vomiting and diarrhea. Instead, take smaller doses more frequently to benefit most from its balancing effects. I take ashwagandha from Himalaya Herbs.
    My Video: Ashwagandha the wonder herb from India https://youtu.be/cig8uJFMwjkMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Ashwagandha-the-wonder-herb-from-India.mp3
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  • You are the average of your 5 friends

    You are the average of your 5 friends
    Nov 18 2024
    Or be the leader!
    If we can’t find the right friends that are fitting to our lifestyle, still, we can choose to help our friends to adopt a better lifestyle.
    Recently, I trekked on the Mount Apo (Philippines). It was a must to have a guide and all the camp equipment, that I didn’t have. So I chose to join a group…. For me is most important to meditate, make Qigong and eat only raw food.
    In the night the guides, porters, group members ate their nonvegan meal and drunk a lot of brandy. Should I join or should I adapt to my healthy lifestyle?
    I meditated inside of my tent in the morning and night. My exercises and Qigong I made in front of the group. The people made their jokes, I didn’t care, even I am an introvert.
    Afterwards, I said: Great, I am making my Qigong and be surrounded by monkeys!!!
    We don’t need to be the average of our friends! Why not be the leader of our friends.
    Who cares what others think about you? Maybe only You!!!
    Why we can’t do what we want?
    Why not doing the things what we want in any way, regardless what our friends or family think???
    Nobody can accomplish something great when he has not the bones to stand out of the mass.
    Why shouldn’t you change your friends or separate from your family when they hold you back?
    I have done both and I never will regret that!!!
    Don’t be the average of your friends, be the best that you can be!!!
    My Video: You are the average of your 5 friends https://youtu.be/egWn2YRuXDsMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/You-are-the-average-of-you-5-friends.mp3
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  • How women convince men?

    How women convince men?
    Nov 17 2024
    The women like to study men to find out how to manipulate them. They try to get as much information as possible to manipulate the men.The Information is power. Information is like a currency that she can use to manipulate him.
    And through that the women getting their power over the men.
    For different men exist different strategies and there doesn’t exist a single strategy to convince every man.
    I will here describe some often used strategies.
    1.) The closeness of their body, - that convince much more than anything else. Because a man is getting vulnerable if she touches him or if he feels her closeness of her skin. 2.) To sleep with him. Through sex, a man gets very vulnerable and after some time he can’t live without her.
    3.) To get pregnant by him.
    4.) To deny facts that are in the way to manipulate.
    5.) To feel helpless,- please help me; I need your help…
    6.) Emotional dramas like to be sad or crying.


    To tell:
    1.) To say I love you.
    2.) That she has felt love for him.
    3.) We are together you know that.
    4.) I am always here for you, you know that.
    5.) I care for you.- To care for people doesn’t mean to love people.



    The negative strategies:
    To destroy his confidence to enslave him.
    1.) A woman can destroy the confidence of the man in a second because of what she has learned from him. And the man is scared to get hurt by his spouse and is doing what she wants.
    2.) Imagine, you have a very important meeting and the spouse is making a scene to destroy your confidence. Wouldn’t you like to avoid that scene? In the most important times of the man, the woman can easily blackmail the guy….
    3.) To break his confidence in the bed, so that he feels like a failure. Wouldn’t you like to avoid that? Simple, fulfill her desires!
    4.) To pull emotional him down, when he is not in compliance with her.


    To blackmail the guys:
    1.) With money issues.
    2.) With a bad consciousness.
    3.) With a divorce. So that the man has to pay for her and the kids even after the separation. 4.) To abuse the man with the most hurtful.
    5.) To say she can get better men.




    My video: How women convince men? https://youtu.be/JZoC971rZZQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-women-convince-men.mp3
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  • The Graph That Changed My Life

    The Graph That Changed My Life
    Nov 16 2024


    A simple sinus curve with below negative.
    We have positive and negative outcomes of our actions… like in a sinus graph.Our dark side is the negative outcome that wipes out our positive outcome.If both sides have the same size, you have no outcome at all.
    Because your dark side or shadow side or self-sabotage destroys your outcome.
    For instance, you make money and spend all the money.Regardless of how much money you make, you can’t save money.
    It is not about how much money you make, it is about how much money you keep/

    For instance Relationship
    It starts great and ends in fights. Even you can get out of your first battle and go on a honeymoon.And then again, there was heavy fighting and so on.This means the relationship will end…

    Our dark side sabotages again our positive outcome.
    If all of our self-improvement gets sabotaged by our dark side…Because we get stuck by our dark side.
    We should look for self-healing of our dark side.,
    If we show on social media how great we are,… and exclude our failures, then we can’t connect truly with friends or our family or spouse. We will isolate ourselves and if we focus only on the positive things, we can’t run away from our shadows.,
    We have to heal our dark side. And when we share our failures we start healing our dark sides and connect with people.
    The law of polarity proves that … so more we focus on one side so more we attract the opposite side…
    We should look at our dark side, heal it, and then we still move in up and down movements, but the down movements have a positive outcome.And that is true progress…
    How to solve that?
    Awareness.Get curious, instead of negative judging.Look for your dark side and heal it.
    My Video: The Graph That Changed My Life https://youtu.be/PibHO0TJdHgMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/The-Graph-That-Changed-My-Life.mp3
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