Episodes

  • Episode 10 - Polyamory and dating with Michelle Hy
    Aug 26 2024

    We talk about dating, relating through conflict, and raising our standards. Find Michelle's work on IG @polyamorouswhileasian

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    47 mins
  • Episode 9 - Dan's side of the story in opening up our marriage (Part 2)
    May 24 2024

    In this episode, Dan answers the following questions:

    • How did you experience jealousy, if at all? Especially when I found other people more physically and sexually attractive?
    • How do we experience conflict in our marriage right now?
    • How have you experienced judgment from others about our open marriage at work?
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    1 hr
  • Episode 8 - Dan's side of the story in opening up our marriage
    May 12 2024

    He talks about how he went from a "hell no" to "I have always been polyamorous."

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    58 mins
  • Episode 7 - Conversation with my original relating teacher James-Olivia Chu Hillman
    Apr 20 2024

    James-Olivia and I talk about our current vexations and how they inform the way we relate to other humans.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Episode 6 - Meaningful and human advocacy with Dina Arouri
    Mar 7 2024

    In this episode, I talk to my friend Dina Arouri about examining our guilt and shame in showing up for Palestine and our collective humanity.

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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • Episode 5 - Speaking with my metamour Kirby
    Feb 18 2024

    In this episode, I sit down with Kirby, my husband Dan's partner. We talk about how our relationships started, the common challenges we experience as we grow our relationships together, and how we tend to our hearts while we practice love differently.

    Follow Kirby on IG here: @authorelainedarling

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    34 mins
  • Episode 4 - Relating around sex
    Feb 5 2024

    What do we do when we are not getting what we want around sex? This is what I address in this episode.

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    26 mins
  • Episode 3 - Relating during a conflict
    Feb 1 2024

    I offer a framework as a starting point for relating during any conflict.

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    27 mins