What an incredible episode! Not only because It was filled with so many gems, but having a chance to have our hosts mother on the show was AMAZING!!

Having almost 70 years of life and decades of marriage this is definitely an episode you do NOT want to miss!!

Tune in to this whole episode if you feel like there are women willing to cut corners, use their bodies, and other financial resources to secure their men…. And as Mrs. Fontenot said, there’s nothing new under the sun… It comes down to what you’re exposed to!

Let us know what it’s giving in the comments

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0:00 - Intro
3:06 - why are you here and dad is not
4:30 - what’s one piece of advice you would give to someone who wants to get to know her
4:59 - what’s the most trouble Sarah got into when she was younger
7:14 - i don’t come from gentle parenting - i was afraid to disappoint you
8:13 - you instilled a healthy level of fear
9:24 - what was the most important lesson your children needed to inherit? Critical thinking
13:52 - what did mom look for in a man back in her day
15:23 - did you and dad fight?
16:15 - why do you have a black eye?
17:40 - there’s such a difference in the generation
20:00 - there were cultural differences
21:38 - i believe there are still good women
22:10 - i think the internet has changed things
23:04 - no one liked me growing up but im grateful i didn’t have a baby
24:21 - do you think im going to be married?
25:52 - one fear around never having children…
28:03 - remember when you started that scholarship with young women
28:59 - who chose my name and why?
30:53 - what was my first word
31:10 - describe one time that Sarah ran up your blood pressure
31:35 - you’re a completely different grandma than mother
33:40 - a teacher was telling me how to parent
36:02 - you may see sweet, but I am a warrior and i come from warriors
38:05 - how does your teaching reflect in Sarah?
41:36 - what type of man would you like to see your daughter marry?
42:15 - what is your favorite thing that Sarah did for you?

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Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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Alpha Man!! What do you really want? In this episode we get to hear insights from one of our early 2000’s R&B Staples @Lyfe Jennings!! He gives us all sides of the pros and cons of marriage in this modern day, and whether he believes marriage is on the table or not! Check this episode out and find out more with Sarah and Lyfe!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, the Alpha male mind, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are the answers! let us know what its giving in the comments!

Guest: Lyfe Jennings
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Author: Neville Goddard

0:00 - Intro
2:00 what is this season called?
3:30 - how did you get into singing?
4:25 - who do you look up to?
7:00 - how many years were you in prison and did you miss growing up
7:45 - how has that affected your dating experience
8:50 - how do you know who wants you for you vs the money?
9:30 - i keep a severance pay!
10:25 - we talk a lot about modern women
12:24 - do you think you should provide while dating or should It be reserved for a relationship
13:55 - why do men overcompensate with things?
14:57 - a lot of men are just infatuated with looks
15:20 - being attractive is apart of being high value for a man
16:40 - my sister always said you don’t like attractive men
18:58 - i hate how visual i am!
19:24 - masculine wants a visiual aesthetic
23:10 - consciousness is sexy to me!
23:53 - i like a woman who doesn’t talk to much
Can you be comfortable in the quiet
25:45 - i don’t like girls with…
27:00 - this is how women can tell how much money a man makes…
28:55 - if you’re dripped down you’re probably Broke for real
30:00 - for my ladies, one of the most attractive things to a man is…
We don’t feel safe inside of flow…
31:46 - you think we want things that we don’t - BBL?
Why do we as women think that most black men want BBLS?
33:28 - would you marry a woman with a bbl?
34:20 - who is marriage for?
35:20 - why do you think the divorce rate is so high?
36:20 - people don’t know how important marriage is…
37:50 why do women want marriage
38:38 - if a man told you i can be everything you need but marriage is off the table?
41:28 - your value increases or decreases
42:50 - we can agree to disagree
45:00 - life is an echo
46:20 - bro, what is your angle
48:30 - do you want more children?
50:00 - would you ever do gospel
51:49 - song could have been worse - https://open.spotify.com/track/1MT5uznE9kQWGDNesknp45
53:17 - when ever something good happens i trace It backwards
54:56 - you have new music coming out! These kids will never know real music
56:50 back then you needed talent now you just need a hot beat - we have to start calling what It is what It is
57:40 - how you dress is in colusion with what you do
1:03:20 - IG vs IG
Courthouse or breakup
1:10:27 date and on the phone, yay or nay!

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Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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0:00 - Intro
2:05 - why is It that women pray for something then get It and treat It like trash?
4:40 - what does It mean to treat you bad?
6:25 - it’s always a ME thing!
7:03 - should a woman take a man’s last name
8:55 - when a woman marries a man she’s leaving her family behind
11:15 - tips on how to carry a conversation with a man!
14:20 - what do you want to talk about with your man?
15:35 - now if we are in in person…
16:40 - be INTERESTED not interesting
18:38 - masculine men want to feel needed!
19:25 - men love when you stroke their ego
20:00 - make people feel SEEN!
20:40 - master the art of manipulation
21:30 - why do women raise the very men they don’t want?
22:25 - women should not raise boys by themselves
24:00 - women are raising women in their sons
24:28 - ladies need to stop getting pregnant by losers that don’t support a child
25:05 - why are you laying down with men you don’t like
27:10 - ladies don’t squander your legacy
29:30 - will you be a victim or a victor of your circumstances
30:30 - do you feel like it’s okay to date someone that comes from a single mom?
33:20 - as a single parent It does disqualify you from certain things
36:15 - when a woman has a child and single you have to bring even more value
38:30 - a pretty face will catch them but not keep them
39:05 - you should never give a man more than one time to say he doesn’t want you
40:40 - we have to stop allowing our desires of an outcome outweigh the reality of what It is!
41:10 - if you find yourself saying… he wasn’t trying to hurt you… you have to ask yourself this?
42:27 - how do you deal with people that don’t want you to be high value?
46:50 - i met mean girls in Atlanta
49:40 - I’m okay with vulnerable around me, i can’t let weak
51:18 - is being a high value individual for being picky or is It valid?
53:17 - is It fair to expect your partner to be high value if you’re not
54:47 - high value is in you…
55:12 - do you think high value are born or can learn It?
*** 56:44 link to secure attachment styles ***
56:55 - if you come from trauma it’s okay are you intentional about It growth?!
59:19 - reaction videos
How do you feel about the phone being facedown
1:01:05 - Kenny’s male p

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Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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0:00 - Intro
3:09 - what are some boundaries a man should have in a relationship?
5:04 - should a man want to provide for a woman he just met and is dating?
7:30 - there are certain things that need to be reserved and exclusive
8:14 - when I’m in a relationship i attract men that want to provide for me
9:00 - share a 50/50 love - over a decade my experience has been so different
11:20 - not every man is masculine by nature
12:00 - I have a friend that hates the idea of “high value”
13:10 - how do you help someone want to be high value
15:20 - as a person that is on the healing journey i can’t function in the same disfunction
16:40 - there’s power in rest
18:19 - how do you deal with a partner that has trust issues?
19:50 - we GIVE birth but we can’t…
21:25 - you’ve got to learn to be emotionally regulated
22:45 - there are some men that need the toxicity
24:15 - I’ve gotten to q place where I’ll say okay
25:00 - when should an unmarried wife start dating
27:00 - if a man proposes after 2 months what would you say?
29:08 - no one is a bad person some people are just weak!
30:38 - only ONE of those are tangible
31:15 - people see things through their experiences and perceptions and that’s okay
33:26 - most people live in their experiences of course you wouldn’t like us
34:58 - why do men get so sensitive about when women say they want a man with money? People are getting delusional
38:00 - most people don’t want a solution they want to complain
41:53 - people need to stop being delusional - people start dying after 30
44:34 - why are women so jaded now a days - it’s a combination
47:07 - Why do women actively lie to themselves
48:45 - would you date someone shorter than you?
52:25 - what is the easiest way to overcome trauma
53:15 - It was the I’m sorry list that changed my list
1:01:00 - what are the top 3 relationship killers?
1:04:00 - why is It that we can operate at work but not in the home?
1:06:25 - why do women want to work for real?
1:07:42 - most people are so caught up in the things that they forget to be passionate and loving

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Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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0:00 - intro
3:24 - should your wife have the last say so in the household
5:57 - do black women feel regret when black men date outside of their race
6:59 - a lot of white women are trained to be wives
8:07 - i need someone that’s had my experience - cultural differences
9:25 - i love a black king - a lot of black men have a chip on their shoulder
10:38 - how do you feel about white families adopting black children
12:50 - both my parents are black
13:07 - black is an action and not a race - you don’t act like It
15:00 - wow you speak really well for…
15:46 - Kenny what do you think?
17:45 - my dad is prejudice
19:39 - why should a man get married when women leave so easily
22:00 - most people break up a year later for what they saw in the first week
23:07 - should you and your partner get tested before sex
23:36 - how to be a high value gem woman
25:04 - how do you correct a man in your femininity
26:48 - what is one thing you’re willing to compromise in a relationship
28:36 - if you don’t want a 50/50 man what should you do?
30:55 - i don’t need a man to pay my bills but when im in a relationship he does
32:28 - why are relationships so adversarial?
36:55 - everyone successful has narcissistic traits
39:05 - outside of infidelity and physical abuse is there any reason to divorce your wife?
40:33 - marriage licenses weren’t created until…
42:33 - why do women equate success to being masculine?
46:08 - i don’t want to ask anyone for help
47:00 - how do i get over an ex?
49:45 - if i finally let you go, I'm gone
Videos:
52:00 - why should a man get married?
https://youtube.com/shorts/QQkRmfLopxI?si=hT_Jx2pID9BLm-cp
1:01:45 - there was a woman that agreed to a prenup and then didn’t want to sign it and he didn’t show
1:02: 40 - what is the definition of love?
1:05:09 - i would never date a black woman
https://youtube.com/shorts/saF3ZjI8R6U?si=qdpIqjV5I4Jda8MF

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Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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Wow!! Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook

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0:00 - Intro
3:00 - do you believe people have a false sense of interest on social media?
4:41 - do you believe the more money you have the more value you have?
5:20 - is It wrong when a man sets a spending limit on a woman in a relationship?
7:25 - why can’t men treat women that dress super sexy like a lady?
10:28 - a man’s perspective on why a man won’t want to keep you if you’re overly sexy
11:40 - a video talking a scantily clad woman - is this sexy or insecure?
13:29 - do women deserve respect just because they’re women?
13:50 - what is your perception of sexy?
15:59 - why do women expect men to cheat, but men don’t expect women to cheat?
18:01 - what is contravance? What is manipulation?
20:25 - why can’t men say how they truly feel without hurting?
24:42 - in your observation why is It that men have to come with everything but women have to come with nothing?
26:06 - what do you think of a man who’s embarrassed because he grew up with all women in his life?
29:18 - what does self hate look like?
30:41 - bullying is at an all time high!
31:56 - how do you explain soulmate love?
33:49 - 4 types of soulmate love
36:46 - when your partner asks how you feel, why isn’t the first instinct to validate their feelings?
40:00 - we have an ebook!
41:55 - what if you have a dismissive partner?
44:51 - conversations go really far in relationships - I’ll be ready to jump ship if not
47:12 - i shut down when there’s yelling
48:08 - there’s more than just fight or flight
49:44 - do you believe you should love people according to their love language or theirs?
51:40 - what’s RULE #1?
52:09 - you should study your partner!
53:00 - warm body syndrome is messing people up!
54:45 - At some point you have to hold yourself accountable
55:53 - would you date someone that has mental health issues?
56:40 - do you feel like men and women can be plutonic friends?
56:55 - did you have to build up to the way you communicate?
59:00 - should women give nerds a chance?
1:01:15 - what mistakes have learned in a relationship?
1:05:43 - what happens when your man stops supplying your needs and gets lazy?
1:07:20 - i think people rush because…
1:09:29 - we are going to be eaten alive!!
Responses:
1:10:45 - man humbles OF girl
Video Credit: https://youtube.com/shorts/xjvpKKVTS7g?si=LFsVzSo_xlXpaWf2
1:14:00 - what makes someone high value?
1:15:15 - do you believe you can be high value without a high number in your bank account
1:24:50 - does It matter what society thinks?
1:27:11 - you’ve got to play the game
1:28:00 - I’m getting my smile done

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