• 93 | Creating Healthy Connections While Healing from Betrayal Trauma and Sex-Addiction
    Feb 17 2025

    Connection...

    When you think about connecting with others, what comes to mind?

    What does it truly mean to be connected, and what are healthy connections? And speaking of healthy connections, it makes you wonder—are there unhealthy connections?

    What do your connections look like in your life?

    Join us today as we dive into these intriguing questions and explore the meaning of connections together!

    We pray this blesses you,

    Johnny and Emily

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    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 57. Alone No More: How Isolation Fuels Sex-Addiction and How to Defeat It

    Episode 53. 4 Ways To Help a Friend Experiencing Sexual Betrayal

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    31 mins
  • 92 | Dying to Self: Transformational Moments in Recovery from Sexual Betrayal
    Feb 10 2025

    Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you realized that making a significant personal sacrifice was the key to resolving a difficult situation?

    And that this decision would alter your life as you know it?

    Often, these moments involve putting the needs of someone else first. It’s those we love most with whom we often decide to "die to self."

    We’d love for you to join us today as Johnny shares four pivotal moments from his recovery journey where he chose to put Emily ahead of himself in their marriage. We can’t wait for you to hear his inspiring story!

    We pray this blesses you,

    Johnny and Emily

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    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 51. Full Therapeutic Disclosure: 3 Steps to Healing and Freedom After Sexual Betrayal

    Episode 60. The High Cost of Freedom in a Sexually Betrayed Marriage

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    38 mins
  • 91 | Overwhelmed While Recovering From Betrayal Trauma or Porn-Fueled Infidelity?
    Feb 3 2025

    Okay, picture this scene: you are on vacation at the beach, having a great time soaking in the sun and playing in the ocean. You're making your way further and further out into deeper water. The waves are getting steadily higher but it’s still manageable as your feet are connected to the sandy ocean floor.

    Suddenly, seemingly out of nowhere, a very large and powerful wave comes crashing over your head. You are overwhelmed - taken off your feet, tossed about, and feeling like you might drown.

    Similar scenes play out from time to time in our recovery journeys from sexual betrayal and addiction. This is certainly true for us.

    Join us as we share about the “wave” that overwhelmed us this week. Our desire as we share our story is that you will know that you are not alone and there is hope.

    We pray this blesses you,

    Johnny and Emily

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    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 12. His Adultery Shattered My Reality. How Do I Know What’s Real?

    Episode 86. Recovering From Porn-Fueled Infidelity: Obstacles We Encountered This Year

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    7 mins
  • 90 | Discovering the Man Within: Sathiya Sam on Overcoming Porn Addiction
    Jan 27 2025

    Today we’ll be sharing a fantastic interview with Sathiya Sam, host of the Man Within podcast and the founder of Deep Clean.

    Sathiya opens up about his personal journey, including how he overcame a 15-year struggle with porn addiction, and the faith and guidance that played a key role in his recovery.

    He dives into some eye-opening differences between just being sober and truly experiencing freedom from addiction, all while highlighting the importance of addressing root issues. Plus, Sathiya shares how he has integrated healthy sexuality into his marriage and how he safeguards that bond through openness and accountability.

    The conversation is packed with practical tips on building resilience and achieving lasting freedom from porn addiction. We can't wait for you to tune in!

    We pray this blesses you,

    Johnny and Emily

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    CONNECT WITH SATHIYA SAM:

    Website: https://www.sathiyasam.com/

    The Last Relapse book: https://www.sathiyasam.com/books

    Man Within Podcast: https://www.sathiyasam.com/podcast

    Instagram: www.instagram.com/sathiyamesam

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    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 16. It’s Just Porn, What’s The Big Deal? And 4 Other Lies We Tell Ourselves To Justify Viewing Pornography

    Episode 26. Recovery Step 1: Hooked on Porn? Admitting Helplessness Over Pornography’s Pull

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    49 mins
  • 89 | Considering Divorce After Sexual Betrayal? 3 Good Reasons to Stay Married
    Jan 20 2025

    After infidelity in marriage is discovered, many questions arise and decisions need to be made. Questions like:

    Is this real?

    How could this happen to me?

    And one of the more frequently asked questions,

    What do I do now?

    Last week, in episode #88, we told the story of our journey toward "making a decision and burning the ships".

    Today, we follow up on our conversation from last week by asking the question, "Why stay married?" We will unpack 3 good reasons to stay married after broken covenant and give you some hope through the scriptures.

    We pray this blesses you,

    Johnny and Emily

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    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 05. The Effects of Infidelity and How We Made the Decision to Stay Married After Sexual Betrayal

    Episode 24. Would You Marry Your Betraying Spouse Again? Renewing Vows After Porn-Fueled Infidelity. This Time...Mean It

    Episode 88. Make a Decision and Burn the Ships

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    29 mins
  • 88 | Burn the Ships: Decisions on Marriage & Sex
    Jan 13 2025

    Often in life, we come to a point where we need to make an important decision. A decision that could alter the trajectory of the rest of our lives. Yes, that kind of decision.

    Have you had to make such decisions??

    When it comes to recovering from sexual betrayal in marriage, these kinds of decisions can come up very soon after the discovery of adultery and then later on as rebuilding your marriage is underway.

    You may commit to moving forward, leaving the safety of what is known, and move into unchartered territory - with no plans to turn back.

    The time has come to "burn the ships".

    Join us for this candid discussion, centered on experiences from our own recovery journey, highlighting the ships we burned to move forward in search of true intimacy.

    We pray this blesses you,

    Johnny and Emily

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    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 05. The Effects of Infidelity and How We Made the Decision to Stay Married After Sexual Betrayal

    Episode 24. Would You Marry Your Betraying Spouse Again? Renewing Vows After Porn-Fueled Infidelity. This Time...Mean It

    Episode 87. Can’t We Just Get Back to Normal? The Shortest Path to True Intimacy After Sexual Betrayal

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    33 mins
  • 87 | Can’t We Just Get Back to Normal? Shortest Path to True Intimacy After Sexual Betrayal
    Jan 6 2025

    Have you gotten to the point in your recovery journey from marital infidelity where you may be feeling the fatigue of endless questions, lack of trust, and having to talk about the pain every day and you’re asking yourself, "Can't we just get back to normal"?

    What is normal?

    What if "normal" got you to where you are today? Would you really want to go back?

    Join us today as we outline the shortest path through minefield of betrayal and addiction recovery to the seemingly illusive "Promised Land".

    We pray this blesses you,

    Johnny and Emily

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    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 13. His Triggers, Her Triggers – 4 Steps For Dealing With Triggers While Healing From Infidelity

    Episode 50. Are You Thriving or Just Surviving in Marriage After Sexual Betrayal

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    38 mins
  • 86 | Recovering From Porn-Fueled Infidelity: Obstacles We Encountered This Year
    Dec 30 2024

    As we approach the end of 2024, we find ourselves reflecting on the past year of recovery. Was this last year anything that we hoped or imagined it would be? What went well? What missed the mark of our expectations? What could we have done differently?

    These are all good questions to ask ourselves in light of the upcoming New Year.

    Our recovery journey from porn-fueled infidelity and betrayal trauma to true intimacy is no different. We must ask ourselves these types of questions if we are to stay on the path to regain what was lost, stolen, or given away.

    So, grab your favorite holiday beverage and listen in as we reflect on this past year and share some harrowing obstacles we encountered and insights on what we learned along the way.

    We pray this blesses you,

    Johnny and Emily

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    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 62. Social Media Hack Triggers Trauma From Porn-Fueled Infidelity

    Episode 77. 4 Practical Steps for Vigilance in Recovery from Porn-Fueled Infidelity

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    36 mins