• Letting Go of Perfectionism
    Dec 18 2024
    Hi, I’m Dr. Jodi Aman, and today, we’re going to tackle one of the biggest roadblocks to happiness and self-acceptance: perfectionism. I’ll be sharing insights on why perfectionism feels helpful but actually holds us back from joy and peace. We’ll explore ways to let go of these unrealistic standards and replace them with healthier, kinder expectations. Let’s dive into how you can free yourself from perfectionism and live a more fulfilling life!Episode SummaryIn this episode, Dr. Jodi discusses the traps of perfectionism and the toll it takes on mental health and overall happiness. While perfectionism may seem to keep us focused on success, it often leads to burnout, self-criticism, and a sense of never being “enough.” Dr. Jodi explains how perfectionism is rooted in a biological drive for social acceptance, making us feel that we need to meet impossible standards to belong.She then provides actionable strategies for listeners to break free from this mindset. By redefining personal success, recognizing the downsides of perfectionism, and setting realistic goals, Dr. Jodi offers a roadmap to release anxiety and embrace a more balanced life. This episode is packed with practical advice to help you shed perfectionism’s weight and find joy in your achievements.Key TakeawaysRecognize the Cost of Perfectionism: Understand that perfectionism isn’t helping you; it often keeps you from reaching your goals and enjoying life.Redefine Success and Goals: Set realistic, intentional goals that encourage growth without the pressure of being “perfect.”Celebrate Small Wins: Focusing on accomplishments, big or small, helps build confidence and keeps motivation high.Externalize Perfectionism: Treat perfectionism like an external influence you can manage rather than an identity you’re stuck with.Start Before You’re Ready: Avoid hesitation and get started, letting go of the need to be fully prepared.Resources mentioned in this show: Watch the video of this episode at the blog:https://jodiaman.com/blog/let-go-of-perfectionsim/ Dr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel:@DoctorJodiHow to Do Self-Compassion Articlehttps://jodiaman.com/blog/self-compassion/Generation Z Mental Health Resource Guide:jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cardsjodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activityjodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety,I'm So Done with You!BookThank you so much for listening! If you enjoyed today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a five-star review onApple Podcastsand share it with someone who needs inspiration or help to heal! You’re listening to the Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health & Relationship Advice with Jodi Aman.Sign up for text updates, where you can ask me your private questions! Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the group. Want personalized coaching on the show? Sign up to be a call-in guest at jodiaman.com/live Remember, you can join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week. PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live. Let's keep building a stronger, happier generation! Contact Doctor Jodi:• Website: jodiaman.com• TikTok: @doctorjodi• YouTube: @doctorjodi• Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi: Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find hundreds of self-help videos on YouTube @doctorjodi. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi. Ask Dr. Jodi LiveWelcome to Ask Dr. Jodi, where you get trauma-informed mental health and relationship advice you won’t hear anywhere else. Advice that helps you breathe a sigh of relief.You’ll discover that your brain is not broken. That…. Whatever you are feeling is understandable. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. But that doesn’t mean you are destined to stay like this. You can get better. And I’m here to help. We cover topics that you and those you love are dealing with every day, helping you understand the problem, yourself, and other people so you have the information you need to heal, shift beliefs, get relief, set strong limits, let go, or act in a way that helps you and those you love FEEL BETTER. I’m your host, Dr. Jodi. I've worked for 28 years as a psychotherapist, so I've seen and understood the nuances of human behavior and relationships from a rare perspective inside people’s ...
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  • How to Be Happy: 6 Practices for a Robust Mind, body, and Soul
    Dec 17 2024
    In this enlightening episode, Dr. Jodi tackles the concept of happiness, debunking the myth that some people are naturally happy while others are destined to struggle. Through her three decades of experience, Dr. Aman shares how happiness can be cultivated through intentional practices, even when life feels unfair or overwhelming.Listeners will learn about the "Happiness Formula"—a simple yet effective method to let go of suffering and embrace joy. Dr. Jodi discusses the six (or seven!) priorities for a fulfilling life, including purpose, community, routine, novelty, movement, creativity, and the essential practice of celebrating your wins. With engaging stories, heartfelt advice, and actionable steps, this episode empowers listeners to create a daily routine that fosters happiness and resilience.Whether you're dealing with depression, anxiety, or simply want to improve your outlook, Dr. Jodi provides the tools and motivation to get started on your journey to a happier life. Plus, she gives practical insights on letting go of negative experiences and explains why celebrating small victories can have a big impact on your mental health.Key Takeaways:Happiness is a Skill: It’s something you generate daily, not a trait you’re born with or without.The Happiness Formula: Let go of what causes suffering, invite more joy into your life, and practice this consistently.Six Essential Priorities: Integrate purpose, community, routine, novelty, movement, and creativity into your day to nourish your mind and body.Celebrate Your Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements to maintain motivation and positivity.Practical Techniques for Letting Go: Learn Dr. Jodi's unique three-step process for releasing negativity and feeling more at peace.Resources mentioned in this show: Watch the video of this episode at the blog:https://jodiaman.com/blog/be-happy/Patterned Box Breathing video:https://jodiaman.com/blog/box-breathing/Hand and Heart Somatic Experience:https://jodiaman.com/blog/somatic-experiencing/Lily's Instagram @c.lily_amanand TikTok@c.lilyamanDr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel:@DoctorJodGeneration Z Mental Health Resource Guide:jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cardsjodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activityjodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety I'm So Done with You! Book You’re listening to the Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health & Relationship Advice with Jodi Aman.Sign up for text updates, where you can ask me your private questions! Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the group. Want personalized coaching on the show? Sign up to be a call-in guest at jodiaman.com/live Remember, you can join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week. PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live. Let's keep building a stronger, happier generation! Contact Doctor Jodi:• Website: jodiaman.com• TikTok: @doctorjodi• YouTube: @doctorjodi• Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi: Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find hundreds of self-help videos on YouTube @doctorjodi. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi. Ask Dr. Jodi LiveWelcome to Ask Dr. Jodi, where you get trauma-informed mental health and relationship advice you won’t hear anywhere else. Advice that helps you breathe a sigh of relief.You’ll discover that your brain is not broken. That…. Whatever you are feeling is understandable. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. But that doesn’t mean you are destined to stay like this. You can get better. And I’m here to help. We cover topics that you and those you love are dealing with every day, helping you understand the problem, yourself, and other people so you have the information you need to heal, shift beliefs, get relief, set strong limits, let go, or act in a way that helps you and those you love FEEL BETTER. I’m your host, Dr. Jodi. I've worked for 28 years as a psychotherapist, so I've seen and understood the nuances of human behavior and relationships from a rare perspective inside people’s minds and emotions. Together, we’ll discover how you are much more amazing than you think you are, build your confidence, and accelerate your healing journey. We livestream this show on YT every Monday at 8 PM E, @doctrojodi, so follow me there so you can ...
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  • Joy-Expanding & Anxiety-Reducing Lessons from Inside Out 2
    Dec 17 2024
    Today, we’re exploring the powerful themes ofPixar's Inside Out 2 and how our experiences, beliefs, and emotions shape our sense of self. I’m thrilled to have my daughter, Lily, joining me to share her insights and reflections. Together, we’ll break down the movie’s take on identity, belief systems, and self-acceptance. Let’s jump in!Episode SummaryIn this episode, Dr. Jodi and her daughter, Lily, discuss Pixar’sInside Out 2and the impactful ways it reflects our journey of self-discovery. They explore how experiences, emotions, and memories create beliefs that shape our identities. Dr. Jodi provides insights into how these beliefs can influence our mental health, self-perception, and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of developing a strong sense of self. Lily shares her reactions to key moments in the movie, sparking discussions on concepts like identity, resilience, and joy.This heartfelt episode is both fun and reflective, as Dr. Jodi and Lily look at how self-understanding and emotional awareness can reduce anxiety and enhance well-being. They examine the importance of embracing all emotions and memories as part of a whole, multidimensional self.Key TakeawaysBeliefs Shape Identity: Our experiences and memories contribute to beliefs that define our sense of self. By recognizing this, we can actively shape a more positive self-view.Embrace All Emotions: Like the movie shows, emotions like sadness and fear have a place. Embracing all emotions makes our experience of joy even richer.Generate Your Own Happiness: Happiness often requires deliberate effort and isn’t just “natural” for some. Building daily routines that include joy is empowering.Challenge Negative Self-Beliefs: Question beliefs that undermine your self-worth. Changing how you interpret experiences can help create a healthier self-image.Self-Acceptance is Key: Self-actualization is embracing the full spectrum of who you are, including imperfections and complex emotions.Resources mentioned in this show: Watch the video of this episode at the blog:https://jodiaman.com/blog/inside-out-2/Dr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel:@DoctorJodiLily's Instagram @c.lily_amanand TikTok@c.lilyamanGeneration Z Mental Health Resource Guide:jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cardsjodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activityjodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety,I'm So Done with You!BookThank you so much for listening! If you enjoyed today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a five-star review onApple Podcastsand share it with someone who needs inspiration or help to heal! You’re listening to the Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health & Relationship Advice with Jodi Aman.Sign up for text updates, where you can ask me your private questions! Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the group. Want personalized coaching on the show? Sign up to be a call-in guest at jodiaman.com/live Remember, you can join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week. PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live. Let's keep building a stronger, happier generation! Contact Doctor Jodi:• Website: jodiaman.com• TikTok: @doctorjodi• YouTube: @doctorjodi• Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi: Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find hundreds of self-help videos on YouTube @doctorjodi. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi. Ask Dr. Jodi LiveWelcome to Ask Dr. Jodi, where you get trauma-informed mental health and relationship advice you won’t hear anywhere else. Advice that helps you breathe a sigh of relief.You’ll discover that your brain is not broken. That…. Whatever you are feeling is understandable. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. But that doesn’t mean you are destined to stay like this. You can get better. And I’m here to help. We cover topics that you and those you love are dealing with every day, helping you understand the problem, yourself, and other people so you have the information you need to heal, shift beliefs, get relief, set strong limits, let go, or act in a way that helps you and those you love FEEL BETTER. I’m your host, Dr. Jodi. I've worked for 28 years as a psychotherapist, so I've seen and understood the nuances of human behavior and relationships from a rare perspective ...
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  • Analysis Paralysis: Prevent Overthinking from Sabotaging your Decision- Making
    Dec 17 2024
    Today, we're tackling a big one—analysis paralysis. Does overthinking keep you from moving forward? You’re not alone. We’re diving into why so many of us get stuck, and, more importantly, how to break free and take action in ways that really make a difference. Let’s get started!In this episode, we discuss the ins and outs of analysis paralysis—the state of feeling paralyzed by overthinking and indecision. I break down how societal pressures, perfectionism, and self-doubt all fuel this cycle of inaction, especially for emerging adults. I explore how our brains are wired to prioritize survival over risks, which often means playing it safe rather than trying something new.Then, I’ll take you through eight strategies to help ease the cycle of overthinking and empower you to take practical, meaningful steps forward, from setting clear goals to embracing imperfection. By the end of this episode, you’ll feel ready to tackle indecision head-on and start taking action on the things that matter to you.Key TakeawaysDefine Clear Goals: Break down your goals into smaller steps to overcome the overwhelm of indecision.Limit Your Choices: Too many options can increase anxiety; narrow down to a few and commit.Set Deadlines: A timeline reduces procrastination and makes goals more achievable.Celebrate Small Wins: Recognize each small step forward to build confidence and motivation.Embrace Imperfection: Perfectionism often leads to paralysis; allow yourself to make mistakes and keep going.Resources mentioned in this show: Watch the video of this episode at the blog:https://jodiaman.com/blog/analysis-paralysis/Lily's Instagram @c.lily_amanand TikTok@c.lilyamanDr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel:@DoctorJodGeneration Z Mental Health Resource Guide:jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cardsjodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activityjodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety,I'm So Done with You!BookThank you so much for listening! If you enjoyed today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a five-star review on Apple Podcasts and share it with someone who needs inspiration or help to heal! You’re listening to the Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health & Relationship Advice with Jodi Aman.Sign up for text updates, where you can ask me your private questions! Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the group. Want personalized coaching on the show? Sign up to be a call-in guest at jodiaman.com/live Remember, you can join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week. PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live. Let's keep building a stronger, happier generation! Contact Doctor Jodi:• Website: jodiaman.com• TikTok: @doctorjodi• YouTube: @doctorjodi• Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi: Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find hundreds of self-help videos on YouTube @doctorjodi. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi. Ask Dr. Jodi LiveWelcome to Ask Dr. Jodi, where you get trauma-informed mental health and relationship advice you won’t hear anywhere else. Advice that helps you breathe a sigh of relief.You’ll discover that your brain is not broken. That…. Whatever you are feeling is understandable. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. But that doesn’t mean you are destined to stay like this. You can get better. And I’m here to help. We cover topics that you and those you love are dealing with every day, helping you understand the problem, yourself, and other people so you have the information you need to heal, shift beliefs, get relief, set strong limits, let go, or act in a way that helps you and those you love FEEL BETTER. I’m your host, Dr. Jodi. I've worked for 28 years as a psychotherapist, so I've seen and understood the nuances of human behavior and relationships from a rare perspective inside people’s minds and emotions. Together, we’ll discover how you are much more amazing than you think you are, build your confidence, and accelerate your healing journey. We livestream this show on YT every Monday at 8 PM E, @doctrojodi, so follow me there so you can participate in the conversation. We do live coaching on air, and you can get personalized advice for your situation. You will gain a deeper understanding of yourself, gain practical tips, and hear ...
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  • Coming Soon: Ask Dr Jodi
    Dec 10 2024
    Are you ready to breathe a sigh of relief? Hi, I’m Dr. Jodi, and on Ask Dr. Jodi, I’m here to help you feel better, really better. I bring trauma-informed mental health and relationship advice to make sure you know: your brain isn’t broken, and your feelings aren’t wrong. Whatever you’re experiencing is understandable. It’s a natural human response to living in this wild world.Feeling stuck or overwhelmed? You’re not destined to stay that way. You can heal, and I’m here to show you how. I’ve spent the last 28 years as a psychotherapist, helping people like you navigate the complexities of relationships, emotions, and life. Together, we’ll explore topics that touch your daily life—at home, work, and school—and I’ll give you the tools to heal your past, release what no longer serves you, and set boundaries that stick.Each week, I’ll guide you through self-discovery and healing with advice you can trust and put into action. We’ll work to shift those limiting beliefs, build self-acceptance, and uncover just how amazing you truly are. Whether it’s tackling tough relationships, managing stress, or simply figuring out how to feel better, I’ll be here to help every step of the way.Want to connect live? Tune in every Monday at 8:00 PM Eastern on YouTube, where I answer your questions in real time. Prefer to binge episodes? You can listen anytime on your favorite podcast platform. And if you want private support, text me at 833-458-3845 with your questions.If you’re enjoying the show, please leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts to help us reach more people who need this. Let’s take this healing journey together—I can’t wait to see you thrive! You’re listening to the Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health & Relationship Advice with Jodi Aman.Sign up for text updates, where you can ask me your private questions! Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the group. Want personalized coaching on the show? Sign up to be a call-in guest at jodiaman.com/live Remember, you can join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week. PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live. Let's keep building a stronger, happier generation! Contact Doctor Jodi:• Website: jodiaman.com• TikTok: @doctorjodi• YouTube: @doctorjodi• Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi: Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find hundreds of self-help videos on YouTube @doctorjodi. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi. Ask Dr. Jodi LiveWelcome to Ask Dr. Jodi, where you get trauma-informed mental health and relationship advice you won’t hear anywhere else. Advice that helps you breathe a sigh of relief.You’ll discover that your brain is not broken. That…. Whatever you are feeling is understandable. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. But that doesn’t mean you are destined to stay like this. You can get better. And I’m here to help. We cover topics that you and those you love are dealing with every day, helping you understand the problem, yourself, and other people so you have the information you need to heal, shift beliefs, get relief, set strong limits, let go, or act in a way that helps you and those you love FEEL BETTER. I’m your host, Dr. Jodi. I've worked for 28 years as a psychotherapist, so I've seen and understood the nuances of human behavior and relationships from a rare perspective inside people’s minds and emotions. Together, we’ll discover how you are much more amazing than you think you are, build your confidence, and accelerate your healing journey. We livestream this show on YT every Monday at 8 PM E, @doctrojodi, so follow me there so you can participate in the conversation. We do live coaching on air, and you can get personalized advice for your situation. You will gain a deeper understanding of yourself, gain practical tips, and hear from relatable guests who will show you how to get rid of worry, strengthen your emotional bandwidth, and create a happy, purposeful life.
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