Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married

By: Gary Chapman

Narrated by: Chris Fabry

Before you plan your wedding, plan your marriage! Wish you could know what you’re getting into when you say “I do”? Now, with Things I Wish I’d Known Before We Got Married, you can. Dr. Gary Chapman, #1 New York Times best-selling author of The 5 Love Languages™, has spent the last thirty-five years counseling couples. In Things I Wish I’d Known Before We Got Married, he shares what he and these couples have learned from experience. Among the twelve things you should know: that being in love is not enough to make a successful marriage, that romantic love has two stages (and how to make the transition), that mutual sexual fulfillment is not automatic, and that personality profoundly affects behavior. The stakes on marriage are high, but the rewards of preparing are even higher. Whether you’re single or dating, this audio can be your relationship blueprint and help you decide if and when you’re ready to tie the knot. If you’re engaged, even recently married, it will help you examine your relationship foundation and learn the skills necessary for building a successful marriage. Things I Wish I’d Known Before We Got Married was written to help you realize your goal of marital happiness. But don’t just listen to it - experience it. Grapple with the practical tips and ideas discussed, honestly share your thoughts and feelings, respect each other’s opinions, and find workable solutions to your differences. The more you do so, says Chapman, the more you will be prepared for marriage.

Download the accompanying reference guide.©2010 Oasis Audio; 2010 Gary Chapman

Great book

What made the experience of listening to Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married the most enjoyable?

The author had evident experience in the field and provided a lot of detail.

Read before you get married!

I'm really glad I came across this book! It's basically a compilation of questions that I've always thought about all outlined and ready for reflection! Great book!

everyone should read

what a great read, everyone should learn the things discussed in the book. every single person is different and thinks differently so talking things through in a healthy way will really help with bonding and understanding one another.

highly recommend this easy read for both parties of the relationship.

Totally recommend this book!!!

Good read and def a must for any relationship either starting out or currently in a relationship or marriage.

excellent book

I learn a lot from this book. After reading this book, I think it is very worthy to share it with my daughter.

Loved all about it

Personally, I really like the way that this book is written. I also love the narrator. The book touches every important part of marriage and how human development, and upbringing relates to it. What should we be aware of stepping into a dating world and the importance of self awareness and acceptance prior to marriage and/ or relationships. I have read/listened to this book 3times and keep
Coming back to it when I need a reminder and some guidance going through my own life. I have also suggested the book to friends and even randomly met people who hopefully benefited from the book on some level. The main idea of premarital counseling that was brought up throughout this book is something I wish I would have understood the importance of before I got married (for the second time)

You will definitely not loose anything by investing some time in listening to this book, and most likely you will gain something. Some more than others.
Grateful I came across this read!

Some Common Sense, Some I Never Thought About

Would you listen to Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married again? Why?

I do plan to listed to this again, I think that by listening to it again, I will get even more out of the book

What did you like best about this story?

I think what I like best about it is going back into the early married life, the stories he shared and the lessons learned. It was a mix of humor and stories told.

What insight do you think you’ll apply from Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married?

Not to take everything so seriously, talk about things/issues before they fester.

Thank you so much for this amazing book!

Love it!!!! It was amazing and helpful. Thank you for sharing your experience and advising.

Excellent book

This could save many marraiges. The ideas in this book will help understand and solve practical problems in a relationship

Must have for every person who is, wants or wish to be married!

I have been divorced for already 9 years and I am finally dating someone that I do feel may lead to a new marriage.
I have learned and reviewed over these years a lot of things that I did wrong or that we did wrong at my failed marriage, but this book is a wide eye opener to any couple!
I would really love to give copies of it to two loved married cousins and their wife’s, I already recommended the book to my boyfriend and I hope that if we get more serious, to go over it again as a working book and part of our preparation.
This could definitely be a marriage changer if both partners agree to follow it! I think it’s never to late when you really love and want your marriage to succeed! ♥️