Polyamory
A Clinical Toolkit for Therapists (and Their Clients)
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Kim Niemi
About this listen
Your favorite long-term client tells you they want to open up their relationship. Are you ready to help them?
This groundbreaking guide to consensual nonmonogamy offers a listening experience that feels like consulting with a trusted advisor. Martha Kauppi equips you with the skills to be a true ally to clients who want to explore polyamory. Learn from the expert who trains experts as she debunks myths and shares the exact tools she uses with her own clients.
Listeners will gain an understanding of what is possible, where things break down and why, and how to help. You'll learn how to conceptualize complicated relational dynamics in a way that leads to effective treatment, and how to identify and disrupt maladaptive relational patterns without perpetuating negative cultural bias. A must-listen for anyone looking for a framework to simplify the complexities of polyamory.
Contains mature themes.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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Open Monogamy is Dr. Nelson's guidebook for couples who wish to explore new directions in their relationships - to bring in excitement, variety, and fresh experiences without sacrificing trust, security, and respect. In this practical, skill-based book, she helps you find your place on the "monogamy continuum"; have honest conversations about attraction and desire; remove shame and suspicion from an open relationship; and create agreements - traditional or otherwise - that are fulfilling, exhilarating, and built for enduring love.
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5 out of 5 stars
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People, listen: THIS is the book you need
- By KBgilly on 03-18-22
By: Tammy Nelson PhD
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The Polyamory Toolkit
- A Guidebook for Polyamorous Relationships
- By: Dan Williams, Dawn Williams
- Narrated by: Dan Williams, Dawn Williams
- Length: 5 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 11
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For nearly two decades, Dan and Dawn have navigated their journey in polyamory by being proactive, insightful and analytical. Early on, there was very little information or resources available, so the adventure required them to learn from their mistakes as well as their successes.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Great tips and pleasant listen
- By Sean on 02-18-25
By: Dan Williams, and others
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Polysecure
- Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy
- By: Jessica Fern, Eve Rickert - foreword, Nora Samaran - foreword
- Narrated by: Jessica Fern, Eve Rickert, Nora Samaran
- Length: 7 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 9
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A practical translation of the principles of attachment theory to nonmonogamous relationships.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Learned a lot
- By Tom Fetherston on 04-08-25
By: Jessica Fern, and others
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The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy
- Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go
- By: Lola Phoenix, Kathy G. Slaughter LCSW - foreword
- Narrated by: Lola Phoenix
- Length: 4 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 4
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Embarking on a non-monogamous relationship can be a daunting experience, opening old wounds that cause anxiety, fear, and confusion, something Lola Phoenix knows about all too well. In this all-you-need-to-know guide to exploring non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships, Lola draws upon their years of experience in giving advice and being non-monogamous to provide guidance for every stage of your journey, helping you to prioritize your mental health and wellbeing along the way.
By: Lola Phoenix, and others
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Open
- Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage
- By: Jenny Block
- Narrated by: Lauren Weedman
- Length: 6 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
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Finally, a book about open marriage that grapples with the problems surrounding monogamy and fidelity in an honest, heartfelt, and non-fringe manner. Jenny Block is your average girl next door, a suburban wife and mother for whom married life never felt quite right. While many books on this topic presuppose that the listener is ready to embrace an "alternative lifestyle", Block operates from the assumption that most couples who are curious about or engaged in open marriages are in fact more like her - normal people who question whether monogamy is right for them.
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5 out of 5 stars
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"Open" inspires a new look at marriage
- By Erich on 01-20-15
By: Jenny Block
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The Ethical Slut
- A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, & Other Adventures
- By: Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
- Narrated by: Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
- Length: 10 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 4,524
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For anyone who has ever dreamed of love, sex, and companionship beyond the limits of traditional monogamy, this groundbreaking guide navigates the infinite possibilities that open relationships can offer. Experienced ethical sluts Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy dispel myths and cover all the skills necessary to maintain a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle.
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4 out of 5 stars
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The information and advice is 100% totally solid!
- By Troy on 07-28-15
By: Janet W. Hardy, and others
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Open
- An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy
- By: Rachel Krantz
- Narrated by: Rachel Krantz
- Length: 10 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 196
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When Rachel Krantz met and fell for Adam, he told her that he was looking for a committed partnership—just one that did not include monogamy. Intrigued and more than a little nervous, Krantz decided to see whether their love could coexist with the freedom to date other people. Could they strike an exquisite balance between intimacy and independence, and find a way to feel passion for each other once the honeymoon phase ended?
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5 out of 5 stars
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I wrote this book
- By rachelkrantz on 02-05-22
By: Rachel Krantz
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Insatiable Wives
- Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them
- By: David J. Ley
- Narrated by: Rose Caraway
- Length: 12 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 168
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Long before the term cuckold was a common word thrown around in the media, Dr. Ley explored the history and science of cuckolding. This groundbreaking work explores why and how some men not only allow, but encourage, their wives to pursue sexual relationships with other men.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Challenge your marriage
- By A.C.V. on 05-09-23
By: David J. Ley
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On Being a Therapist
- By: Jeffrey A. Kottler
- Narrated by: Rob Shapiro
- Length: 10 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 696
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 617
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An updated revision of Jeffrey Kottler's classic book On Being a Therapist reveals the new realities and inner experiences of therapeutic practice today.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Excellent Read for Those in the Helping Profession
- By Amanda on 08-20-12
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Polygamy
- A Very Short Introduction
- By: Sarah M.S. Pearsall
- Narrated by: Holly Adams
- Length: 4 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 11
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In Polygamy: A Very Short Introduction, Sarah M.S. Pearsall explores what plural marriages reveal about the inner workings of marriage and describes the controversies surrounding it. The book emphasizes the diversity of historical polygamist societies, from the Shi'ite Muslims and Wendat men who practiced short-term marriages to the Mixteca, Maori, Inca, Algonquin, and Marta indigenous people of North America and the Pacific Islands. Pearsall also explains the divides within Christianity that led to Joseph Smith's establishment of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Perfect perfect perfect
- By Anonymous User on 10-27-24
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Existential Kink
- Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power; A Method for Getting What You Want by Getting Off on What You Don't
- By: Carolyn Elliott PhD
- Narrated by: Carolyn Elliott PhD
- Length: 6 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,493
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 1,251
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 1,243
Each of us has a dual nature: we are light (conscious) and dark (unconscious). The dark side of our personality - the “other,” the shadow side - is made up of what we think is our primitive, primal, negative impulses - our “existential kink.” Our existential kink also drives the dark or negative repeating patterns in our life: always choosing the abusive partner or boss, settling for less, thinking that we’re undeserving, not worthy. But it also is the source of our greatest power.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Personal Experience Based Pseudoscience
- By The Humble Housewife on 11-02-21
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The F-ck List
- By: Schahrzad Morgan
- Narrated by: Virtual Voice
- Length: 10 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall3.5 out of 5 stars 9
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Performance3 out of 5 stars 9
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Story3.5 out of 5 stars 9
After 25 years of marriage, Schahrzad, mother of three, files for divorce and decides to embark on a powerful journey of sexual discovery, liberation and freedom. Her memoir, The F-ck List, takes us on her riveting ride over the course of two years, as she lets go of her inhibitions and explores her relationship to her body, desire, and sexuality. The F-ck List is a woman’s courageous story about healing old wounds, discovering pleasure, and claiming lust. A must read if you want to get turned on.
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2 out of 5 stars
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A.I. can't do everything
- By Teniqué on 01-12-25
By: Schahrzad Morgan
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The Polyvagal Theory
- Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation
- By: Stephen W. Porges
- Narrated by: Joe Hempel
- Length: 14 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 42
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 39
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This book compiles, for the first time, Stephen W. Porges's decades of research. A leading expert in developmental psychophysiology and developmental behavioral neuroscience, Porges is the mind behind the groundbreaking Polyvagal Theory, which has startling implications for the treatment of anxiety, depression, trauma, and autism. Adopted by clinicians around the world, the Polyvagal Theory has provided exciting new insights into the way our autonomic nervous system unconsciously mediates social engagement, trust, and intimacy.
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3 out of 5 stars
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If only the narration were better...
- By Amazon Customer on 06-24-21
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Anatomy of an Affair
- How Affairs, Attractions, and Addictions Develop, and How to Guard Your Marriage Against Them
- By: Dave Carder
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 5 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 133
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 113
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 112
When it comes to adultery, never say, "It won't happen to me." Just when you think your marriage is safe from adultery is when you may be the most vulnerable. With eye-opening stories, clinical insights, and up-to-date data, Dave Carder reveals what adulterers learned the hard way - and what they want the rest of us to know to save us the pain.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Hard to relate, as a non-evangelical
- By NANCY HALL on 01-18-19
By: Dave Carder
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The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy
- Engaging the Rhythm of Regulation
- By: Deb Dana, Stephen W. Porges - foreword
- Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
- Length: 5 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 406
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 335
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This book offers therapists an integrated approach to adding a polyvagal foundation to their work with clients. With clear explanations of the organizing principles of Polyvagal theory, this complex theory is translated into clinician and client-friendly language. Using a unique autonomic mapping process designed to effectively track autonomic response patterns, this book presents practical ways to work with clients' experiences of connection.
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5 out of 5 stars
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great resource
- By Amazon Customer on 07-12-19
By: Deb Dana, and others
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- Matthew Letcher
- 11-27-23
informative, valuable information
the beginning had repetitive explaining of what the book was about and for could have been put more simple.
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- Sean
- 03-16-25
Super informative
I really enjoyed it from beginning to end. Nothing I would change about it. Highly encouraged you to “read” it as well.
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- cathriene101
- 06-24-24
Incredibly Objective
I absolutely loved how the author was able to clarify when she was expressing an opinion, vs shining an objective light on how the listener can use questions and tools to objectively figure out their own opinions, thoughts, feelings, and comfort within the bulky topic of Polyamory.
The narrator also did a fantastic job of pacing, pronunciation, and tone.
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- grim999
- 02-19-24
Not Only For Therapists
I'm not a therapist. I'm not even a therapy client. I'm just a polyamorist. I've been practicing polyamory for many years and have read most of the books available on the subject. This one is probably the best, most useful, and most comprehensive work on the subject thus far. I especially recommend it to anyone interested in learning how to manage jealousy, even if you're not polyamorous or non-monogamous. The chapter about jealousy was more helpful than any other writing on the topic I've seen.
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