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A GMA Book Club Pick (A Novel)

By: Bryan Washington

Narrated by: Bryan Washington, Akie Kotabe

A New York Times Notable Book of the Year

A Good Morning America Book Club Pick

Named a Best Book of the Year by The New York Times, The Washington Post, TIME, NPR, Entertainment Weekly, Vanity Fair, O, the Oprah Magazine, Esquire, Marie Claire, Harper's Bazaar, Good Housekeeping, Refinery29, Real Simple, Kirkus Reviews, Electric Literature, and Lit Hub

A funny and profound story about family in all its strange forms, joyful and hard-won vulnerability, becoming who you're supposed to be, and the limits of love.

Benson and Mike are two young guys who live together in Houston. Mike is a Japanese-American chef at a Mexican restaurant and Benson's a Black day-care teacher, and they've been together for a few years - good years - but now they're not sure why they're still a couple. There's the sex, sure, and the meals Mike cooks for Benson, and, well, they love each other. But when Mike finds out his estranged father is dying in Osaka just as his acerbic Japanese mother, Mitsuko, arrives in Texas for a visit, Mike picks up and flies across the world to say good-bye.

In Japan he undergoes an extraordinary transformation, discovering the truth about his family and his past. Back home, Mitsuko and Benson are stuck living together as unconventional roommates, an absurd domestic situation that ends up meaning more to each of them than they ever could have predicted. Without Mike's immediate pull, Benson begins to push outwards, realizing he might just know what he wants out of life and have the goods to get it. Both men will change in ways that will either make them stronger together, or fracture everything they've ever known. And just maybe they'll all be okay in the end.

“A masterpiece.” (NPR)

“No other novel this year captures so gracefully the full palette of America.” (The Washington Post)

“Wryly funny, gently devastating.” (Entertainment Weekly)

©2020 Bryan Washington (P)2020 Penguin Audio

Critic reviews

“Wryly funny, gently devastating... Washington’s hand is effortless - smooth dialogue, a love for good food, and his vibrant, sprawling, gradually gentrifying hometown - in inviting you into a nuanced love story that sticks to you like the Texas heat.” (Entertainment Weekly)

“A fresh, vibrant love story that interweaves race, queerness, nationality, family, and intimacy with narrative ease.” (Vogue)

“A beautiful, unusual examination of the difference between love and care, and what happens when they merge.” (The Washington Post)

I just couldn’t connect.

Did I hate this? No. I was interested in the story the whole time, but the characters are just so flat. Bryan Washington did his work a disservice because he sooooo painfully monotone on top of it. I am a queer man myself and I am in an interracial relationship so I thought I may be able to relate, but not very much. The constant f bombs were weird. It just didn’t seem real. If it was a characteristic of one person maybe, but from every main character. It just was awkward. I was mostly interested in both Tan and Omar rather than any of the other characters.

Great Read

Fresh story line showing a rarely shown dynamic between families, couple, children and parents set in Houston and Japan!

one narrator great, the other not so great

narrator for the first and last sections isn't great, every sentence ends with the tone shifting downward and it's pretty grating. middle narrator is much much better. the first part of the novel is a little too aimless, the second part is much stronger, and the third part doesn't resolve anything. I think that's the point, that the story is just a series of things that happen. but I read stories to get away from life, not mimic it.

Underwhelming with a little charm

Simple, uncomplicated story that meanders through the character’s world during a small window of their lives. Charming and sweet, frustratingly in their own way of a less complicated life, thought provoking, quiet. I was unclear why the author chose so frequently to repeatedly state “I said…” or “He said…” etc with the conversational parts of the story. It was overdone, unnecessary and distracting.

A bit bland

The narrator's voice was so monotoned I really struggled to enjoy the book. There were too many he said she said.

Stream of consciousness

I didn’t appreciate the book particularly as an audible

The frequent he said she said was distracting

I am not sure why this book was so highly rated

Interesting to blend the Asian and Black culture but ultimately these two guys came from disfunctional families regardless of skin color

I loved this!

I loved this story. I loved the characters. I loved the relationships. I loved the themes of family, as screwed up as they can be. I teared up once or twice, but I laughed at the frank truths within numerous times. I loved it. If you want something cookie cutter move on. If you want something honest, then do yourself a favor and read this. Amazing.

Some poignant moments

Bryan Washington is a gifted writer but his narration lacks emotion. This book contained too much dialogue and not enough movement too keep me completely engaged.

Lots of love grounded in reality

It’s nice to hear a story about people who’s lives, love, and relationship aren’t the “norm”.

Immigration, love, privilege, sex, HIV status, monogamy, and food speak more about culture than many see on the daily.

Thoughtful, without being intense or dramatic

This isn’t a book that will hit the reader over the head. It’s more subtle than that. Mostly it’s about rejection, survival, doing the best we can, slow forgiveness for being such a mess. The narration is realistic. I could taste the food. Again, subtle. But it added something.