Sorrow and Bliss

A Novel

By: Meg Mason

Narrated by: Emilia Fox

"Brilliantly faceted and extremely funny. . . . While I was reading it, I was making a list of all the people I wanted to send it to, until I realized that I wanted to send it to everyone I know." — Ann Patchett

“Improbably charming...will have you chortling and reading lines aloud.” — PEOPLE

The internationally bestselling, compulsively readable novel—spiky, sharp, intriguingly dark, and tender—that combines the psychological insight of Sally Rooney with the sharp humor of Nina Stibbe and the emotional resonance of Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine.

Martha Friel just turned forty. Once, she worked at Vogue and planned to write a novel. Now, she creates internet content. She used to live in a pied-à-terre in Paris. Now she lives in a gated community in Oxford, the only person she knows without a PhD, a baby or both, in a house she hates but cannot bear to leave. But she must leave, now that her husband Patrick—the kind who cooks, throws her birthday parties, who loves her and has only ever wanted her to be happy—has just moved out.

Because there’s something wrong with Martha, and has been for a long time. When she was seventeen, a little bomb went off in her brain and she was never the same. But countless doctors, endless therapy, every kind of drug later, she still doesn’t know what’s wrong, why she spends days unable to get out of bed or alienates both strangers and her loved ones with casually cruel remarks.

And she has nowhere to go except her childhood home: a bohemian (dilapidated) townhouse in a romantic (rundown) part of London—to live with her mother, a minorly important sculptor (and major drinker) and her father, a famous poet (though unpublished) and try to survive without the devoted, potty-mouthed sister who made all the chaos bearable back then, and is now too busy or too fed up to deal with her.

But maybe, by starting over, Martha will get to write a better ending for herself—and she’ll find out that she’s not quite finished after all.

©2021 Meg Mason (P)2021 HarperCollins Publishers

A difficult story, written just beautifully

This ranks among the most moving books I’ve ever read… it will stay with me a long time.
The performance was perfect.

so much more than a book "about mental illness"

This book! This performance!! Both were so beautifully done! I was skeptical at first, but quickly fell in love with this story, the writing, the characters, and the execution of it all. Emilia Fox's performance made this book better than a movie or show or podcast or any other form of media entertainment. Such a tender, relatable, heart-wrenching listen. Laughter and tears.

I laughed, I cried, I couldn’t stop listening

This is the most moving, sad, yet hilarious book I’ve listened to in a long time. Anyone who’s ever suffered from any form of despair, anxiety, sadness or hormonal rage will find this book deeply endearing. The relationships are genuine, complex and admirable.

Lovely story

I really enjoyed this story. A very unique love story. It did however take quite a while for me to stay interested. I had to start over listening. I think this was due to the monotone reader. I detected very little inflection in the voice throughout the story.

Unique

In all honesty I’m unsure how I feel about the book but I can share that despite several attempts to throw in the towel I continued listening and finished the book.
I think what I most liked about the book were the specific, well-written disturbing thought process(es) that plagued the lead character and the impact of her actions on others (as a result of her thoughts).
I know the book describes the mental health disorder as “z” but I think it is clear that there were layers of pathology that cannot be attributed to one diagnosis.
The book is disturbing but it offers some insight into living with years of mental illness that is not treated.

Heartbreaking, funny, beautifully written.

I loved this book. Vivid interesting characters, complicated, relationships, funny and real. Very well written.

stay with it!

so interesting. I am now checking to see what other books by this author.

wow

this is a story that touched me deeply. it is not only well written it tells a story that we can relate to on so many levels.

It is far more depressing than I had expected.

It's a will written and performed story. I got really engaged with the characters. However, it made me depressed and I kept asking myself it I would just quit. I pushed through. It was solid ending. I am glad I finished it, but want to warn others that I didn't hear many funny parts, just depressing over and over.

At first I thought depressing & boring but then...

In the beginning I wasn't very open to the characters in the book & almost quit reading with the intent of returning the book. I am glad I didn't because by the end I completely understood them & felt a great appreciation for each of them. Meg Mason did a terrific job of fully fleshing out her characters. It was watching a bud begin to bloom, A slow process but the true beauty is felt once the process is complete.
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