
Love Letters from an Ex-Girlfriend
Surviving and Healing from Emotional Abuse
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Kelly D. Smith
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Kelly D. Smith
About this listen
What people saw on the outside and what it was really like behind closed doors were totally different. This book is a continuation of letters for part two in the Love Letter On Purpose series and will take on a different tone than Kelly’s first book, Love Letters from an Ex-Wife, as she directly addresses narcissistic emotional abuse.
Kelly bravely confronts the abuse she experienced after her failed marriage, and then describes how, in her healing journey, she learned how to receive God's love and have the courage to love again.
While abuse will never be the fault of the one being abused, healing from it is!
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