How to Stop Being Insecure

Learn How to Overcome Emotional and Relationship Insecurity

By: Ashley Rosebloom

Narrated by: Jordy Christo

Dealing with Emotional and Relationship Insecurity

Discover everything you need for overcoming the insecurities you are faced with in your personal life and relationships in this audiobook. The author shares insightful wisdom gained through 40 years of experience in dealing with emotional and relationship insecurity. These quick tips are easy to understand and can be applied to your everyday life immediately.

Ashley Rosebloom, the author, has written this book in such a way that you won't have to sift through a pile of babble to find the meaningful content. No! You will be getting straightforward guidance on how to stop feeling insecure in many different situations you may find yourself involved in.

When you are finished with this book, you will know exactly how to:

• Improve your self-esteem
• Stop being jealous
• Love yourself just as you are
• Stop comparing yourself to others
• Overcome your fears of failure
• Let go of the past and live in the moment
• Deal with procrastination
• Be more confident
• Overcome financial insecurity
• Stand up for yourself and be more assertive
• Not be afraid of failure
• Overcome social anxiety
• Stop obsessing over the behaviors of others
• Overcome feeling like you are the only one who doesn't fit in
• Have a conversation with anyone and not feel insecure while doing it
• Work through your insecurities with your partner to create a healthier relationship
• Communicate with your boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse about your insecurities in order to make your relationship stronger

Now you can learn how to stop the emotional turmoil that has caused you to feel so out of place at times due to being insecure. The tips contained in this book are fashioned to help both men and women learn how to deal with personal insecurity issues.

©2014 Jordy Christo (P)2015 Jody Christo

really short only 29 minutes.

i thought it was going to be a lot longer, not only 29 minutes. was hoping for a longer book to listen to. somewhat good info but didn't feel narrator read with any "feeling or compassion"

Cheaper than Therapy

What did you love best about How to Stop Being Insecure?

The narrator obviously suffers from insecurity issues. There are some honest admissions that make you feel like you're not alone.

Have you listened to any of Jordy Christo’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

Just as good, clearly narrated and not rushed

What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

My favourite tip was not to wear a new outfit in a stressful situation. I've always thought a new outfit would give me more confidence, but the author is right, wearing something comfortable and familiar puts you at ease. It's these little tips that are easy to implement that are invaluable.

Any additional comments?

A useful book that will help anyone with insecurity. Teaching you how to have more confidence in yourself and not to put too much emphasis on what other people are thinking about you. A quick and easy alternative to expensive therapy!

I was gifted a copy of this book - all opinions are my own.

A list of things to do, not how to do them.

It was basically a list of things to do other books to read and avoidance tactics. What I was hoping to to hear is ways to change my perspective so that I don't feel insecure.

Impractical Advice

This came up as a recommendation on several websites about self-help books and it was fairly cheap so I mistakenly said, “why not”. In hindsight, I think the websites I saw this on were just listing self help books and a summary without actually considering the quality of content.

If you are willing to live your life in a bubble, with no growth, no real or exciting experiences, and constantly making decisions based on your insecurities to avoid triggering them, then this book is for you! There is absolutely zero advice on how to actually cope with or confront your insecurities. All of the advice given basically encourages the reader to structure their life around their insecurities so they do not have to deal with them. It’s learning how to live with them instead of learning how to either confront them or learning how to accept them. With the approach this book suggests you are still limiting the potential of your life; in other words, the outcome is the same as it would’ve been you just get to it a different way.

Save your money, save your time, and save your hope in the effectiveness of self help books by gambling on any one other than this one.

Not really helpful

Basically it says if ur introverted, stay that way. Staying away from situations that make you uncomfortable, will make it so ur not uncomfortable.

just a list

this is just a list of things you can do it doesnt go in depth.

Not very informative.

The book pointed out wonderful facts, but it seem to be very vague, wasn't intuned to how to actually heal instead.
saddened as this was my first audio book :(

Learning to love yourself

What made the experience of listening to How to Stop Being Insecure the most enjoyable?

Being able to really draw from the book on how to change myself. I know these things aren't sudden, but you really don't think about the causal advice that change your insecurities.

What other book might you compare How to Stop Being Insecure to and why?

The one about breaks up, and how to stop being jealous. All good books for going through a roller coaster of dating and breaking up.

What does Jordy Christo bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

Just being able to hear another human read to me the information. I mean, I can read it and see it, but when someone says it it just clicks.

What did you learn from How to Stop Being Insecure that you would use in your daily life?

People really aren't thinking about you like you think they are. Most people don't "care" about what you do in your daily life, so stop worrying about what others think.