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"No individual - not even Freud himself - has had a greater impact on modern psychotherapy." - Psychology Today
With a New Foreword by Kristene A. Doyle, Ph.D.
CLASSIC SELF-HELP FROM A RESPECTED PIONEER OF PSYCHOTHERAPY
Life can get tough. From unemployment - or overwork - to divorce or remarriage, the challenges of newly blended families, not to mention everyday hassles, stress can feel non-stop. To top it off, technology confronts us with a barrage of seemingly urgent tasks 24/7. It's no wonder things and people can make you lose your cool. In this landmark book you'll find a very specific, powerful skill set designed to help you keep any scenario from pushing your buttons - and it works.
Rational-Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), created by world-renowned therapist Dr. Albert Ellis, provides you with realistic, simple, proven techniques that will significantly reduce your stress levels and help you react effectively, whether the circumstances are professional or personal. Discover:
* Ten beliefs we use to let people and situations needlessly push our buttons
* A powerful alternative to the kind of thinking that upsets us
* The Fatal Foursome - feelings that sabotage you
* How to change your irrational thinking using four key steps
Whether you're dealing with colleagues, parents, kids, friends, or lovers, How to Keep People From Pushing Your Buttons will show you how to enjoy an active, vibrant, successful life.
"Don't get mad or get even - get placid using these techniques for defusing difficult situations." - Booklist
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
Download the accompanying reference guide.©1994 Institute for Rational-Emotive Therapy. (P)2016 Brilliance Audio, all rights reserved. Updated edition © 2017 Albert Ellis Institute. Foreword © 2017 Albert Ellis Institute.Listeners also enjoyed...
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 1,040
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 1,029
Let's face it: We all know people who are irrational. No matter how hard you try to reason with them, it never works. So what's the solution? How do you talk to someone who's out of control? What can you do with a boss who bullies, a spouse who yells, or a friend who frequently bursts into tears? In his book Just Listen, Mark Goulston shared his best-selling formula for getting through to the resistant people in your life. Now he brings his communication magic to the most difficult group of all - the downright irrational.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Dissapointed
- By Aaron Olson on 11-04-15
By: Mark Goulston MD
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Joint Custody with a Jerk
- Raising a Child with an Uncooperative Ex
- By: Judy Corcoran, Julie A. Ross, MA
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 7 hrs
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 80
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Story4 out of 5 stars 79
It's a fact that parenting is hard enough in a family where two parents love and respect each other. After divorce, when the respect has diminished and the love has often turned to intense dislike, co-parenting can be nearly impossible, driving one or both parents to the brink of insanity. Joint Custody with a Jerk offers many proven communication techniques that help you deal with your difficult ex-husband or ex-wife.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Victim blaming
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By: Judy Corcoran, and others
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People Can't Drive You Crazy If You Don't Give Them the Keys
- By: Mike Bechtle
- Narrated by: Mike Bechtle
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 279
You don't have to be controlled by difficult people! Strange as it may seem, other people are not nearly as committed to our happiness as we are. In fact, sometimes it seems like they’re on a mission to make us miserable! There’s always that one person. The one who hijacks our emotions. The one who seems to thrive on drama. If we could just “fix” that person, everything would be better. But we can’t fix other people. We can only make choices about ourselves.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Riddles With Religious Overtones
- By Y. Martin on 05-22-13
By: Mike Bechtle
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When Your Best Isn't Good Enough
- By: Kevin Leman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
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- Unabridged
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Some people feel they don't measure up to anyone's expectations. As a result, they tend to procrastinate, set unrealistic goals, or continually try to please others. With the positive, no-nonsense strategies offered in When Your Best Isn't Good Enough, listeners can raise their low self-perception and overcome these feelings of rejection and inadequacy.
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Therapy
- By E.M.Knight on 03-25-19
By: Kevin Leman
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We Love Each Other, But . . .
- Simple Secrets to Strengthen Your Relationship and Make Love Last
- By: Ellen Wachtel
- Narrated by: Joyce Bean
- Length: 6 hrs and 27 mins
- Unabridged
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 31
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We Love Each Other, But... offers simple, practical tips that will help you restore and strengthen a relationship that has gone off track. It lays out the nuts and bolts of building relationships so they continue to be gratifying over the long haul. Dr. Ellen Wachtel shows how, even when you feel like giving up on a relationship or marriage, you can recapture why you fell in love in the first place. Dr. Wachtel promises that there is more and suggests simple ways to keep vitality in relationships.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Some interesting material
- By Scott on 10-25-12
By: Ellen Wachtel
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Living with the Passive-Aggressive Man
- Coping with Hidden Aggression - From the Bedroom to the Boardroom
- By: Scott Wetzler Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Matthew Josdal
- Length: 6 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 58
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Do you know one of these men? The catch-me-if-you-can lover...Phil's romantic and passionate one minute, distant and cold the next. The deviously manipulative coworker or boss...Jack denies resenting Nora's rapid rise in the company, but when they're assigned to work together on a project, he undermines her. The obstructionist, procrastinating husband...Bob keeps telling his wife he'll finish the painting job he began years ago, but he never seems to get around to it. These are all classic examples of the passive aggressive man.
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5 out of 5 stars
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A good review of the PA type man
- By Dew on 12-29-17
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Anger Management Workbook for Men
- Take Control of Your Anger and Master Your Emotions
- By: Aaron Karmin MA
- Narrated by: Brett Barry
- Length: 3 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 173
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 170
Clinical therapist Aaron Karmin teaches you the skills to manage your anger without aggression and build up your self-confidence, self-control, and self-respect. The Anger Management Workbook for Men goes beyond why men get angry and helps you get to the root of your anger. It gives you positive and productive anger management tools to strengthen the most important and most overlooked relationship in your life - your relationship with yourself.
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1 out of 5 stars
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just not good at all.
- By brian gregory on 06-02-22
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Self-Esteem
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- By: Matthew McKay PhD, Patrick Fanning
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The much-anticipated fourth edition of the best-selling classic by Matthew McKay, Self-Esteem is the go-to guide for those seeking to increase their sense of self-worth. This fully revised new edition features an innovative application of acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) to self-esteem and utilizes updated cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to help listeners create positive change and thrive.
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1 out of 5 stars
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for professionals only
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Crucial Conversations
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- Narrated by: Anna Fields
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 233
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 192
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 192
When stakes are high, opinions vary, and emotions run strong, you have three choices: avoid a crucial conversation and suffer the consequences; handle the conversation badly and suffer the consequences; or check out Crucial Conversations and discover how to communicate best when it matters most. Crucial Conversations gives you the tools you need to step up to life's most difficult and important conversations, say what's on your mind, and achieve the positive resolutions you want.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Probably the worste nagging sounding narrator
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By: Kerry Patterson, and others
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When Good People Have Affairs
- Inside the Hearts & Minds of People in Two Relationships
- By: Mira Kirshenbaum
- Narrated by: Callie Beaulieu
- Length: 6 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 219
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 186
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 183
A world-renowned therapist, Mira Kirshenbaum has treated thousands of people caught in the powerful drama over what to do when an affair rocks their emotional lives. Now, in When Good People Have Affairs, Kirshenbaum puts her unsurpassed experience into one clear, calming place. She leads listeners through six easy-to-navigate steps that will take anyone from anxiety to clarity, and identifies 17 types of affairs, helping listeners figure out which type they're in and what it means.
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1 out of 5 stars
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This book condones affairs
- By Summer Phillips on 06-18-18
By: Mira Kirshenbaum
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Women Who Think Too Much
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- By: Susan Nolen-Hoeksema
- Narrated by: Sheryl Bernstein
- Length: 2 hrs and 58 mins
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 530
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 438
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Story4 out of 5 stars 441
It's not a surprise that our fast-paced, overly analytical culture is pushing people - especially women - to spend countless hours thinking about negative ideas, feelings, and experiences. Renowned psychologist Dr. Susan Nolen-Hoeksema calls this "overthinking". Her groundbreaking research shows that an increasing number of women - more than half of those in her extensive study - are doing it too much and too often, hindering their ability to lead a satisfying life.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Generic tools for overcoming overthinking
- By letlet on 01-09-19
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The Worry Cure
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 226
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A new, comprehensive approach to help you identify, challenge, and overcome all types of worry. This empowering seven-step program, includes practical, easy-to-follow advice and techniques.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Don't worry about buying this one
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By: Robert L. Leahy
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Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?
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- By: Lundy Bancroft
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 117
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Like a constant friend, this collection of meditations is a source of strength and reassurance designed to speak to women like you, women in relationships with angry and controlling men. It helps you to digest what is happening a piece at a time, so you can gain clarity, safety, and freedom.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Just what I needed.
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Super You
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 303
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Story4 out of 5 stars 304
Superheroes don't start from glorious beginnings. Their origins are almost always marked by traumatic events that leave them helpless and scared. Batman witnessed his parents' murder. Superman was sent away from his dying planet with no one to guide him as he grew up. Orphaned Catwoman was forced to steal food to survive on the streets of Gotham. What makes these superheroes super is their determination to not be defined by helplessness. They embrace their origins, their flaws, and their mistakes and strive every day to become the best versions of themselves.
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5 out of 5 stars
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A wonderful book filled with empathy and humanity.
- By Vincent on 10-06-15
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10 Stupid Things Couples Do To Mess Up Their Relationships
- By: Dr. Laura Schlessinger
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 199
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 128
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 124
In Ten Stupid Things Couples Do to Mess Up Their Relationships, Dr. Laura Schlessinger calls for a return to traditional courtship. Courtship allows couples and their families to get acquainted with each other over a longer period of time, and provides structure and guidelines for that important process.
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5 out of 5 stars
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No brainer ideas that we can forget
- By Ali0531 on 07-06-15
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30 Lessons for Loving
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- By: Karl Pillemer Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Sean Pratt
- Length: 8 hrs and 41 mins
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 77
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 70
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 70
Based on the most detailed survey of long married people ever conducted, 30 Lessons for Loving shows the way to lifelong, fulfilling relationships. The author, an internationally renowned gerontologist at Cornell University, offers sage advice from the oldest and wisest Americans on everything from finding a partner, to deciding to commit, to growing old together.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Our Elders Really are the Experts!
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I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You
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- By: Andrew G. Marshall
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 32
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 30
In I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You - a real-life relationship guide from couples' counselor Andrew G. Marshall - partners and individuals who have "fallen out of love" or want to rekindle the love that once was will learn how to use Marshall 's program with impressive results. This is a much-needed book to help men and women of all ages in any type of committed romantic relationship to truly understand love and to point out the everyday habits that undermine growing together.
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5 out of 5 stars
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If you feel stuck in a relationship, this book is a MUST!
- By Christopher on 05-09-19
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Never Get Angry Again
- The Foolproof Way to Stay Calm and in Control in Any Conversation or Situation
- By: David J. Lieberman
- Narrated by: David J. Lieberman, Robert Fass
- Length: 5 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 440
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David J. Lieberman understands that a change in perspective is all that is needed to help keep from flying off the handle. In Never Get Angry Again, he reveals how to see anger through a comprehensive, holistic lens, illuminates the underlying emotional, spiritual, and physical components of anger, and gives listeners simple, practical tools to snuff out anger before it even occurs.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Christian propaganda alert!
- By Charles A Ray on 06-27-19
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Paradise Bronx
- The Life and Times of New York's Greatest Borough
- By: Ian Frazier
- Narrated by: Robert Fass
- Length: 20 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 25
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For the past fifteen years, Ian Frazier has been walking the Bronx. Paradise Bronx reveals the amazingly rich and tumultuous history of this amazingly various piece of our greatest city. From Jonas Bronck, who bought land from the local Native Americans, to the formerly gang-wracked South Bronx that gave birth to hip-hop, Frazier’s loving exploration is a moving tour de force about the polyglot culture that is America today.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Just Beautiful
- By Yusuf on 09-09-24
By: Ian Frazier
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Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents
- Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy
- By: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Narrated by: Suzie Althens
- Length: 7 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 570
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 478
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In this important sequel to Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, author Lindsay Gibson offers powerful tools to help you step back and protect yourself at the first sign of an emotional takeover, make sure your emotions and needs are respected, and break free from the coercive control of emotionally immature parents.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Asinine
- By Amazon Customer on 07-14-20
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How to Think Like a Roman Emperor
- The Stoic Philosophy of Marcus Aurelius
- By: Donald J. Robertson
- Narrated by: Donald J. Robertson
- Length: 8 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 4,301
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 3,691
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Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius was the final famous Stoic philosopher of the ancient world. The Meditations, his personal journal, survives to this day as one of the most loved self-help and spiritual classics of all time. In How to Think Like a Roman Emperor, psychotherapist Donald Robertson weaves stories of Marcus’s life from the Roman histories together with explanations of Stoicism—its philosophy and its psychology—to enlighten today’s listeners. He discusses Stoic techniques for coping with everyday problems, from irrational fears and bad habits to anger, pain, and illness.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Marvelous mix of a biography with stoicism and CBT
- By Eduard Ezeanu on 04-12-19
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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Made Simple
- 10 Strategies for Managing Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Panic, and Worry
- By: Seth J. Gillihan PhD
- Narrated by: Stephen Hoye
- Length: 5 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 200
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 169
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 166
Cognitive behavioral therapy is a proven form of psychotherapy that is often the first-line of treatment recommended for managing depression, anxiety, worry, and other common issues. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Made Simple delivers a simplified approach to learning the most essential parts of cognitive behavioral therapy and applying them to your life.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Where are the goodies?
- By J. Pike on 03-08-21
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It's Not You
- Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
- By: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Narrated by: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Length: 11 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 981
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 937
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Story5 out of 5 stars 937
It’s not always easy to tell when you’re dealing with a narcissist. One day they draw you in with their confidence and charisma, the next they gaslight you, wreck your self-confidence, and leave you wondering, What could I have done differently? As Dr. Ramani Durvasula reveals in It's Not You, the answer is: absolutely nothing. Just as a tiger can’t change its stripes, a narcissist won’t stop manipulating and invalidating you. To heal in the aftermath of their abuse and protect yourself from future harm, you first have to accept that you are not to blame.
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5 out of 5 stars
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I needed this
- By Austin E. Jonas Jr. on 03-02-24
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Invisible Women
- Data Bias in a World Designed for Men
- By: Caroline Criado Perez
- Narrated by: Caroline Criado Perez
- Length: 9 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 3,197
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 2,790
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2,762
Data is fundamental to the modern world. From economic development, to healthcare, to education and public policy, we rely on numbers to allocate resources and make crucial decisions. But because so much data fails to take into account gender, treating men as the default and women as atypical, bias and discrimination are baked into our systems. And women pay tremendous costs for this bias in time, money, and often with their lives. Celebrated feminist advocate Caroline Criado Perez investigates the shocking root cause of gender inequality and research in Invisible Women.
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2 out of 5 stars
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A statistical fire hose
- By B. Andresen on 09-11-19
What listeners say about How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons
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- M.Biblioswine
- 08-21-19
Good Solid Psychology
This is a good book that probably does everything that it promises provided the user is willing to do a lot of work doing what the authors tell the reader to do.
Wrinkles with the audio version are that the narrator reads filled out versions of the form at the end of each chapter. All of that is good and well. But, it could be off putting if the listener didn't know to expect it or know what the performer was doing. Also, the attached exercise is slightly different than what is in the published book.
Again, be expecting these differences and practice the materials and this is great.
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- Jewels
- 10-10-19
Wish I read this 40 years ago
Didn't realize how many people pushed my buttons until I read this. Will listen to a couple of chapters again that will help me with my current button pusher! My ex always said it's a lot easier to pick and choose your battles. This book reinforces that philosophy. Well worth the time to read it.
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- Marcheta
- 02-15-17
Watch out for self-inflicted button pushing
I'm learning a lot about how to avoid button pushing by myself and others from this book. So much of it is avoidable if you're aware of what's going on. This is an audio that I'll listen to more than once - so many good points and Aha moments.
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- Honest POV
- 06-17-18
Insightful and sound advice.
I enjoyed listening to this a few times. I played chapters 4 and 5 over a few times before they applied the most to me in this season of life that I am in now. The narrator was great and made it easy to follow and listen. I struggle with the application of the 4 steps; they were a little difficult to follow. It would help to read those sections. Overall, this was a good book and a new point of reference for me.
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- alejandro luna
- 01-30-21
Worth the money
This book is beneficial to anyone, regardless of where they happen to be in this journey we call life, if you are willing to be honest with yourself, you will grow if you take in all that this book has to offer.
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