Face to Face Conversations for Couples

Before and After Marriage

By: Dr. Natanael Valenzuela

Narrated by: Virtual Voice

Conversation means the informal discussion among the people. And the purpose of this book is to keep record of agreements between couples. I always remember a couple of youngsters who came to me and told me I had avoided them a divorce even when they were still not married. They said this because as they read the book they realized that they disagree with the questions in more than an 80 percent of them. To use this book, you need to agree to be sincere and bring the cards to the table. Hiding your true feelings will open a box of distrust and pain at the end of the tunnel. Many couples try to please their counterpart by waving their rights to an answer and that is exactly what will bring a case to courts or will provoke a fight among you a few months from now. In this book you can record both answers. And if you agree so good in one of the questions go ahead and only write one… THE ANSWER! Determine who is A: and determine who is B: Then keep those answers and know that many times you wouldn’t agree but you can always agree to disagree. If a question it way to important for you do not move forward until you find support, help or until you understand the consequences of moving on without that agreement. I will give you here a few examples. A: Jay lived in California and Daisy lived in Montana. They could not pass that conversation no matter how much they wanted to be together. They decided to stop the conversations and remain friends because neither of them would move to another state due to their own reasons. B: Jessica wanted 1 child and Josh wanted 3 children They agreed on 2 and they wrote their answer as an agreement and 2 children they had. The topic was never a problem or a discussion to them. C: Raoul and Betty had agreed on the conversation of drugs and vices. However; Betty took recreational marijuana and began hanging around new friends breaking the conversations about friendships. Her recreational marijuana became a heavy vice and Raoul was forced to file for divorce. D: Nate and Rachel started reading the book and found out they could not agree on many questions and still decided to move on. Their agreement was not to bring those uncomfortable topics to the table and live out of them. They are still together but never talk about those topics.