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아이의 그릇 [Child's Bowl]
- Narrated by: 이지선
- Length: 4 hrs and 55 mins
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"우리 아이는 소심한 아이일까, 신중한 아이일까?"
소심과 신중은 다르지 않다.
아이를 바라보는 부모의 시선이 다를 뿐
"넌 대체 누굴 닮아서 이 모양이니?" 아이를 기르면서 이런 말을 안 해본 부모가 있을까? 한국아동심리코칭센터를 운영하며 20년 넘게 대한민국 부모들의 멘토로 활동해온 이정화 소장은 상담실에 찾아온 부모들이 하나같이 하는 말, "전 안 그랬는데 우리 애는 왜 이러는 걸까요?"에서 육아 갈등을 풀어낼 수 있는 실마리를 찾아냈다. 바로 상당수의 부모가 자신의 성장 과정에서 형성된 경험을 아이들에게 적용하고 있다는 점이었다. 이정화 소장은 부모의 시각에서 도무지 이해할 수 없는 아이들과의 갈등을 해소할 수 있는 가장 좋은 방법은 아이의 기질을 정확하게 아는 것이라고 판단한 뒤 태어날 때부터 유전자 안에 이미 디자인되어 있는 '뇌 선호 유형'에 주목했다. 그리고 뇌 선호 유형을 효과적으로 구별하는 검사 도구인 '이머제네틱스'를 자녀교육에 접목시켜 이 책 『아이의 그릇』에 담아냈다.
이정화 소장은 이렇게 말한다. "규칙과 원리를 중요하게 여기는 분석적 뇌 선호 유형의 아이에게 충분한 설명 없이 무언가를 지시하거나 강요한다면 갈등이 생길 수밖에 없죠. 반대로 사회적 뇌를 가진 아이를 훈육할 때는 규칙이나 원리를 강조하는 대신 정서적 충만감을 주는 것이 아이들이 가진 그릇을 더 넓고 단단하게 만들어주는 일입니다."
그녀의 말에 따르면 뇌 선호 유형을 정확히 알고 양육에 적용하면 소심함, 산만함, 예민함 등 부모들이 부정적으로 인식하고 있는 기질을 신중함, 쾌활함, 세심함 등과 같이 긍정적인 기질로 인식할 수 있을 뿐만 아니라 아이들이 세상을 살아나가는 데 활용할 수 있는 강점으로 발전시킬 수 있게 된다. 다시 말해 기질에 맞는 육아를 한다는 것은 단순히 아이의 욕구를 이해하는 데서 그치지 않고 대화와 학습, 훈육 등에서 부모와 아이 모두 상처받지 않고 긍정적 시너지를 이끌어낼 수 있다는 뜻이다. 많은 부모들이 육아의 어려움을 노동에 비유한다. 하지만 아이의 기질을 바로 알고 존중하고 양육에 활용할 수 있다면 육아는 더 이상 부모들에게 노동이 아닌 삶의 기쁨과 만족으로 다가올 것이다.
Please note: This audiobook is in Korean.
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