Beauty tweaks, social media pressure, and the ever-creeping desire to look "young"—Eva Oh unpacks it all in this #teakink Podcast episode. She shares her experiences with Botox, fillers, and surgical consultations (including a BBL consultation that took a wild turn), while reflecting on the way aging is framed in society. From hitting the MILF category to the futuristic possibilities of augmentation, this is a candid take on cosmetic work, self-image, and where it’s all headed.

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:21) - My Procedures and Dolly Parton

(02:25) - How I Discovered Cosmetic Procedures and Treatments

(07:24) - The Creep of Social Media

(08:25) - COVID and Noticing My Wrinkles

(10:50) - What I Do for My Skin and Trying Fillers

(12:40) - Botox

(13:15) - My Surgeries

(18:10) - A BBL Consultation Goes South and Turns Into...

(20:10) - Why Do I Want to Look 'Young'

(24:30) - Hitting the MILF Category

(26:50) - The Sci Fi Future of Augmentation?

(29:40) - Things to Think About Around Plastic Surgery

On this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh sits down with David Chambers, a coach helping men deepen their capacity for love. They unpack his past in the pick-up artist community, why he initially resisted becoming a coach, and what actually makes a good one. From the parallels between coaching and domination to men’s fears around love and attunement, they explore what holds people back from empathy and connection. Plus, they dive into Vipassana, the patriarchy, universal basic income—and whether aliens might just save us all.

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(00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:00:21) - Why David Chambers Helps Men to Love More Deeply

(00:01:50) - How Love Has Changed For David Since He Became a Coach

(00:06:25) - Why and How David Started to Change His Experience of Life

(00:11:00) - Who Asks for David’s Help and Why?

(00:12:10) - David’s Own Coaches

(00:14:25) - Eva’s Initial Mistrust of Coaches

(00:16:40) - David’s Pick Up Artist Coaching and Community

(00:22:35) - David Didn’t Want to be a Coach

(00:23:20) - What Makes a Good Coach

(00:25:40) - A Dominatrix Coaching Circle?

(00:27:50) - Managing Client Numbers as a Coach

(00:30:20) - Parallels between Dominatrix and Coaches

(00:31:25) - The Benefits of Coaching in Groups

(00:34:00) - David’s Fear of Expressing Love

(00:36:30) - What are Men Afraid of and How to Work with Their Fears

(00:41:25) - Men’s Approaches Towards Women and ‘Attunement’

(00:53:10) - Eva’s Perspective Building ‘Walking Exercise’ with Her Clients

(00:56:40) - Why People Hide from Feeling Empathy

(00:59:10) - The Patriarchy, Reparations, Gisèle Pelicot and What Do We Do About It

(01:08:00) - Leaning into Challenge, Disagreement and Moving Out of Reaction

(01:10:00) - Vipasanna Meditation and Rewriting Our Relationship to Pain

(01:14:00) - Universal Basic Income and Greed

(01:15:00) - Will Aliens Save Us?!

Eva Oh interviews her main BDSM slave, m. This intimate conversation offers a unique look into the Dominatrix-submissive relationship, and the extraordinary dynamics that shape it.

m sheds light on his journey from fear to complete surrender, candidly discussing his initial hesitance and intrigue, his struggle to let go, and the allure of Eva Oh’s dominating personality that finally led him to cherish the power exchange. Join us as we delve deeper into the dynamics of BDSM relationships, exploring intimacy, trust, and the profound fulfilment they can offer.

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HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:18) - Meet My Main Slave, m

(00.35) - The Foot Cam

(00.56) - How We Met

(02:10) - Ruling m’s Thoughts

(02:40) - Why m Was Interested in Me

(03:55) - m ‘Letting Go’

(05:25) - m’s Second Thoughts

(06.20) - My ’Strong Personality’

(07.20) - m’s Fears and Attempted Manipulations

(08:10) - The Ruler will Rule

(08:50) - Rejection, Acceptance and Trust

(10.30) - Preconceptions Meeting Reality

(11.40) - m’s Growing Relationship to Pain and Resilience

(12.20) - Taking Lessons from BDSM into m’s Workplace

(13.30) - Love and Lust

(15.00) - m Learning Compassion

(15:30) - Why m Has Learned So Much

(16.30) - What Our Day to Day Looks Like

(19.15) - Navigating Expectations

(20.13) - Communicating Needs and Understanding Each Other

(22.35) - Sexuality and Intimacy

(27.00) - m’s Concept of BDSM before Meeting Me vs Now

(29.55) - m’s Hopes for The Future

(31.00) - m’s Question for Me, Why Do I Accept Him?

(35.30) - The Importance of Hearing the Submissive Voice

(39.00) - How Vanilla Relationships Fit, or Don’t

In the final episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the intricate relationship between money and power in domination. From her early survival mindset to financial stability, she reflects on how her understanding of wealth has evolved—and whether the one paying is truly the one in control. Does money dictate power, or is it all about perception? With insights on findom, greed, and the illusions wealth creates, this episode challenges conventional ideas about financial dominance and self-worth.

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:21) - Power Miniseries III: Money

(01:06) - My Relationship to Money Pre-Domination

(02:00) - Findom was Not a Category

(02:55) - My Evolution from Survival to Wealth

(04:20) - What is ‘Real’? Lifestyle vs Professional Domination

(06:55) - Does the Person Paying Have the Power?

(09:15) - The Power of Perspective

(10:50) - How My Understanding of Money Has Changed Over Time

(13:10) - Wealth Does Not Correlate to Quality of Personhood

(19:20) - Money, Existential Anguish, Greed and Weakness

(21:40) - The Miniseries Format Experiment

In the second episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh examines the existence of the Dominatrix—not just as a profession, but as a cultural phenomenon. Why is female power so rare that it becomes fetishized? What does the Dominatrix reveal about society’s relationship with female agency? And how can one navigate this space without reinforcing the very dynamics it critiques? Eva dissects the contradictions, the intrigue, and the deeper implications of wielding power in a world that still struggles to accept it.

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HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:21) - Power Miniseries II: Why Does the Dominatrix Exist?

(05:10) - The Fetishisation of the Rare Concept of Female Agency

(07:55) - How Do I Not be a Part of the ‘Problem’

In the first episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the nature of power through the lens of domination and submission. What is power, really? How does context shape who holds it, and what happens when those dynamics shift? She reflects on how her time as a Dominatrix reshaped her own sense of power—both in and out of the dungeon—and how others reacted to that transformation. With power being both intoxicating and treacherous, Eva explores the risks, the artistry, and why true power demands self-investigation.

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HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:21) - Power Miniseries I: Lessons from a Dominatrix

(02:05) - What is Power?

(03:30) - Context and Power in Domination and Submission

(07:25) - How Being a Dominatrix Changed My Power

(11:15) - How Others React to the Changes

(16:20) - The Art and Danger of Playing with Power Dynamics

(22:54) - Power: Delicious, Dangerous, Needs Self-Investigation

What is a Dominatrix, as told by a Dominatrix. Eva Oh meets some newbies to the scene who inspire her to explain the basics of the role of a Dominatrix, what happens in session, how clients make requests and where it all happens. With some additional important notes, on power.

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HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:21) - Why Answer an ‘Obvious’ Question?

(01:44) - What is a Dominatrix and What Do They Do?

(03:35) - What Happens in a Dominatrix Session?

(04:20) - How Do Clients Know What They Want?

(05:50) - More About a Dominatrix Session

(06:40) - Where Do Dominatrix Work?

(08:50) - Power, A Miniseries?

(10:00) - Lessons on Women, Myself, Money and Power

Ever wondered about breaking free from those conforming roles we play? I'm Eva Oh, and I'll take you on my unconventional journey into the world of the Dominatrix. It started with a joke from my ex about my assertiveness. Little did I know this would lead me to becoming one. Brace yourself as I guide you through uncharted territory, on how I quit the corporate world, to sharing my first day on the job as a Dominatrix, and recounting my exhilarating first session.

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More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:15) - Becoming a Dominatrix

(01:39) - Women's Assertiveness and Societal Perceptions

(04:51) - From Strategic Consultant to Dominatrix

(08:51) - First Day as Mistress, New Experiences

(15:06) - A Special First Shadowing Experience

(21:10) - Exploring BDSM and Personal Enjoyment

(27:56) - Work Dungeon to Personal Business Transition

(33:40) - The Power of Non-Judgmental Intimacy

(35:35) - Sex Work and Society's Perception