On this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh sits down with David Chambers, a coach helping men deepen their capacity for love. They unpack his past in the pick-up artist community, why he initially resisted becoming a coach, and what actually makes a good one. From the parallels between coaching and domination to men’s fears around love and attunement, they explore what holds people back from empathy and connection. Plus, they dive into Vipassana, the patriarchy, universal basic income—and whether aliens might just save us all.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:

Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:00:21) - Why David Chambers Helps Men to Love More Deeply

(00:01:50) - How Love Has Changed For David Since He Became a Coach

(00:06:25) - Why and How David Started to Change His Experience of Life

(00:11:00) - Who Asks for David’s Help and Why?

(00:12:10) - David’s Own Coaches

(00:14:25) - Eva’s Initial Mistrust of Coaches

(00:16:40) - David’s Pick Up Artist Coaching and Community

(00:22:35) - David Didn’t Want to be a Coach

(00:23:20) - What Makes a Good Coach

(00:25:40) - A Dominatrix Coaching Circle?

(00:27:50) - Managing Client Numbers as a Coach

(00:30:20) - Parallels between Dominatrix and Coaches

(00:31:25) - The Benefits of Coaching in Groups

(00:34:00) - David’s Fear of Expressing Love

(00:36:30) - What are Men Afraid of and How to Work with Their Fears

(00:41:25) - Men’s Approaches Towards Women and ‘Attunement’

(00:53:10) - Eva’s Perspective Building ‘Walking Exercise’ with Her Clients

(00:56:40) - Why People Hide from Feeling Empathy

(00:59:10) - The Patriarchy, Reparations, Gisèle Pelicot and What Do We Do About It

(01:08:00) - Leaning into Challenge, Disagreement and Moving Out of Reaction

(01:10:00) - Vipasanna Meditation and Rewriting Our Relationship to Pain

(01:14:00) - Universal Basic Income and Greed

(01:15:00) - Will Aliens Save Us?!

Eva Oh interviews her main BDSM slave, m. This intimate conversation offers a unique look into the Dominatrix-submissive relationship, and the extraordinary dynamics that shape it.

m sheds light on his journey from fear to complete surrender, candidly discussing his initial hesitance and intrigue, his struggle to let go, and the allure of Eva Oh’s dominating personality that finally led him to cherish the power exchange. Join us as we delve deeper into the dynamics of BDSM relationships, exploring intimacy, trust, and the profound fulfilment they can offer.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:

Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:18) - Meet My Main Slave, m

(00.35) - The Foot Cam

(00.56) - How We Met

(02:10) - Ruling m’s Thoughts

(02:40) - Why m Was Interested in Me

(03:55) - m ‘Letting Go’

(05:25) - m’s Second Thoughts

(06.20) - My ’Strong Personality’

(07.20) - m’s Fears and Attempted Manipulations

(08:10) - The Ruler will Rule

(08:50) - Rejection, Acceptance and Trust

(10.30) - Preconceptions Meeting Reality

(11.40) - m’s Growing Relationship to Pain and Resilience

(12.20) - Taking Lessons from BDSM into m’s Workplace

(13.30) - Love and Lust

(15.00) - m Learning Compassion

(15:30) - Why m Has Learned So Much

(16.30) - What Our Day to Day Looks Like

(19.15) - Navigating Expectations

(20.13) - Communicating Needs and Understanding Each Other

(22.35) - Sexuality and Intimacy

(27.00) - m’s Concept of BDSM before Meeting Me vs Now

(29.55) - m’s Hopes for The Future

(31.00) - m’s Question for Me, Why Do I Accept Him?

(35.30) - The Importance of Hearing the Submissive Voice

(39.00) - How Vanilla Relationships Fit, or Don’t

In the final episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the intricate relationship between money and power in domination. From her early survival mindset to financial stability, she reflects on how her understanding of wealth has evolved—and whether the one paying is truly the one in control. Does money dictate power, or is it all about perception? With insights on findom, greed, and the illusions wealth creates, this episode challenges conventional ideas about financial dominance and self-worth.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:

Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:21) - Power Miniseries III: Money

(01:06) - My Relationship to Money Pre-Domination

(02:00) - Findom was Not a Category

(02:55) - My Evolution from Survival to Wealth

(04:20) - What is ‘Real’? Lifestyle vs Professional Domination

(06:55) - Does the Person Paying Have the Power?

(09:15) - The Power of Perspective

(10:50) - How My Understanding of Money Has Changed Over Time

(13:10) - Wealth Does Not Correlate to Quality of Personhood

(19:20) - Money, Existential Anguish, Greed and Weakness

(21:40) - The Miniseries Format Experiment