EP:132 As a former "raging people pleaser", I know firsthand how exhausting it can be to constantly put others' needs before your own. I used to do everything for everyone, to the point where I was absolutely drowning. I'd say yes to things I had no time or energy for, shy away from difficult conversations, and never accept help - all in the pursuit of being the "perfect" mom, wife, friend, and professional. But I've learned that your purpose in life isn't to serve others - it's to live and enjoy your life fully, on your own terms.

It takes courage to stop being a chameleon and start being your authentic self. I had to shed a lot of old relationships and communities that didn't accept the real me. But surrounding myself with my "people" - those who love and support me unconditionally - has been so freeing. Now I use my values as a compass, being honest about what I want and need, even if it means setting boundaries that ruffle some feathers. I've realized that being honest and assertive isn't the same as being unkind or selfish. It's about having the courage to show up as your true self.

Overcoming people-pleasing isn't easy, but it's so worth it for your mental health and personal fulfillment. Start small, be patient with yourself, and remember - you are worthy, even if it means ruffling a few feathers. 🦋

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#PeoplePleasingFree #FindYourPurpose #SelfCareIsNotSelfish

As a parent, I know how easy it is to get so caught up in the demands of work, home, and family that you have nothing left to give your partner. I've been there - feeling lonely, resentful, and disconnected from the person I love the most. But I've also learned that it doesn't have to be that way.

It takes effort to keep that love muscle strong, but it's so worth it. Make date nights a non-negotiable, even if it's just a simple activity together. And don't be afraid to plan a kid-free getaway - even 3 days can reignite that spark. Your relationship deserves that investment. You both do. It's not easy, but choosing each other, even when life is crazy, is what will keep your bond alive.

Ready to learn more? Listen to the full episode of the Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, where I dive deeper into this topic. Your relationship is worth the investment - let's work on it together!

XOXO, Dr. B

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#relationshipgoals #datenightideas #marriageadvice #parentlife #selfcare #podcast

EP:130 As a parent, I know how triggering mess and clutter can be. It's like my brain just snaps! But I've learned some tricks to manage it. First, I made my bedroom a peaceful sanctuary - no TV, just calm vibes. It's my Hail Mary when the rest of the house is a disaster zone. I grew up in a super tidy home, but now I've had to release that perfectionism. My house isn't Pinterest-perfect, but good enough is good enough.

I also get the kids involved - one new chore at a time so it doesn't overwhelm them (or me!). It's a work in progress, but creating that calm space and delegating responsibilities has been game-changing.

I used to get so anxious when my parents would visit, worried they'd judge my messy home. But I've learned to give myself grace - clutter doesn't define my worth as a parent.

If mess stresses you out, you're not alone. With a little self-compassion and some simple strategies, you can regain that sense of peace and control. Who's with me on this decluttering journey?

XOXO, Dr. B

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#parentlife #decluttering #selfcare

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EP:128 Our kids' head-banging, rocking, and constant movement aren't just concerning behaviors - they're natural ways they're trying to regulate their nervous systems. As a mom of preemies, I know how much deep pressure and sensory input my babies needed to soothe and settle.

EP:127 As I shared, feeling like you're "too much" is a core wound that affects so many of us. It leads us to create a performative reality, dampening our light and abandoning our true selves. Growing up, I learned to function according to societal norms, but I found my truest self could only shine when I was on stage, dancing. That freedom and authenticity was so liberating, yet so rare in my everyday life.

Even in my relationships, I often became a mirror for others' issues, rather than honoring my own worth. It wasn't until I became a solo parent during COVID that I had a breakthrough - I realized I had to be my own mirror, my own support. Understanding our nervous systems is key - it allows us to embrace our unique selves, rather than trying to fit a mold.

The more we live boldly and authentically, the more we'll inspire others. It's not easy to overcome the fear of being "too much," but the rewards are immense. I encourage you to take risks, say the things you're afraid to say, and let your light shine. Your value doesn't decrease based on others' inability to see your worth. Embrace all that you are - it's your greatest gift.

Xoxo,

Dr.B

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00:00 Embracing Your True Self 10:05 The Journey of Self-Acceptance 20:10 Navigating Relationships and Identity 27:48 Living Boldly and Authentically

#LivingBoldly #OwningYourWorth #SelfAcceptance #AutenticLiving #SelfDiscovery #NervousSystem

EP:126 Hey friends! I just recorded a new episode of the Thrive Like a Parent podcast all about losing your temper with your kids. As a mom, I know how hard this can be - we all have those moments where we just feel like we're at the end of our rope. But I want you to know that it doesn't make you a bad parent. It just means you need to take care of yourself, whether that's taking a break, practicing self-care, or finding healthy ways to manage your emotions.

In this episode, I get real about my own struggles with traditional "play" activities, and how I've learned to connect with my kids in my own unique way. I also share my honest thoughts on some popular parenting experts and methods - not everything works for every family, and that's okay!

The key is being kind to yourself, setting boundaries, and making time for your own mental health. When we do that, we can show up as calmer, more regulated parents. I hope this episode gives you the validation and encouragement you need. You're doing an amazing job, even on the tough days. Sending you all my love!

#parenting #selfcare #mentalhealth #emotionalregulation #parentingtips #thrivelikeaparent

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0:00 - Introduction and Context 5:00 - Connecting with Children in Unique Ways 10:00 - The Importance of Self-Care and Boundaries

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