In this episode we sit down with Ava’s new partner, Ramone, to explore his journey through non-monogamy. Ramone had always identified as strictly polyamorous, but meeting Ava introduced him to new experiences, including his first sex-positive event.

We dive into Ramone’s past relationships, his perspective on polyamory before Ava, and how stepping into a more open, play-oriented space challenged and excited him. Plus, we hear about his first impressions of finally meeting Anthony and Pinky in person.

Join us for a candid conversation about evolving relationship styles, exploring new spaces, and what happens when love meets adventure.

LINKS:

Three Shades Of Grey | Website

The Ethical Slut | Third Edition

Splash Mocha

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Anthony's Instagram

Pinky's Instagram

Ava's Instagram

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In this episode of Pinky & Ava’s Pajama Party, we’re stripping away the negativity and celebrating body positivity! From embracing our unique shapes to shutting down unrealistic beauty standards, we’re diving deep into self-love, confidence, and owning every part of ourselves.

Join us as we share personal stories, challenges, and tips on how to feel good in your skin—because every body is a beautiful body.

So grab your favorite pajamas and let’s get comfy with some real talk about loving ourselves just the way we are!

#BodyPositivity #SelfLove #PinkyAndAvasPajamaParty #ConfidenceIsSexy

Three Shades Deeper: Exploring Intimacy with Beth Darling

Welcome to the debut episode of Three Shades Deeper, a new segment where we take an even more intimate look at love, sex, and connection. Our first guest is Beth Darling—author, coach, and speaker—who delves into the nuances of intimacy, sharing insights from her book, The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive. Beth’s journey from a former divorce lawyer to a passionate advocate for deeper, more fulfilling relationships offers a unique perspective on cultivating lasting connections.

Join Anthony, Pinky, & Ava as they explore what true intimacy means, how to nurture it in both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships, and why great sex starts long before the bedroom.

Whether you’re looking to strengthen emotional bonds, reignite passion, or navigate new dynamics, this conversation is one you won’t want to miss.

LINKS:

Three Shades Of Grey | Website

Beth Darling | Website (Promo Code: 3SHADES)

5 Love Languages | Gary Chapman

Splash Takeovers

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Anthony's Instagram

Pinky's Instagram

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Compersion—the warm, fuzzy feeling of joy when your partner experiences pleasure with someone else—is often called the “opposite of jealousy.” But what does it really mean, and how do you cultivate it in your non-monogamous relationships?

In this episode, Anthony, Pinky, and Ava dive into the concept of compersion; sharing personal stories, insights, and practical tips on how to navigate this unique emotion.

They discuss:
• What compersion is (and what it isn’t)
• The role of compersion in different types of non-monogamy
• How to develop compersion if it doesn’t come naturally
• Common challenges and how to work through them
• Real-life experiences of feeling (or struggling to feel) compersion

Whether compersion flows easily for you or feels like a work in progress, this episode offers perspectives to help you explore and deepen this often-misunderstood aspect of non-monogamous relationships.

LINKS:

More Than Two (2nd Edition)

Inside Out 2

Discipline Equals Freedom | Jocko Willink

Naughty N'awlins

SOCIALS:

Anthony's Instagram

Pinky's Instagram

Ava's Instagram

Vulnerability is often seen as a risk, but in non-monogamy, it can be the key to deeper connection, trust, and growth.

In this episode, Pinky & Ava explore what it means to be vulnerable in relationships that challenge traditional norms.

Join us for an honest and raw conversation about the power of being “bare and unbound.” Whether you’re new to non-monogamy or a seasoned pro, this episode will inspire you to embrace the beauty of being truly seen.

Tune in now and let’s get vulnerable!

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Pinky's Instagram

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In this episode, Anthony, Pinky, and Ava recap their unforgettable holiday bowling event. From Pinky becoming part of a couch (à la Half-Baked) to Ava offering herself as tribute (à la The Hunger Games); we’re sharing all the highlights (and strikes) from the night.

We also take a look back at our journey over the past year, reflecting on the incredible moments, lessons learned, and growth we’ve experienced. Plus, we’re sharing a sneak peek at what’s to come for the podcast and our adventures in non-monogamy.

A heartfelt thank you to everyone who has supported us along the way—you’ve made this journey so much more special. Tune in for laughs, insights, and a toast to the future!

Listen now and join the conversation!

LINKS:

Three Shades Of Grey | Website

More Than Two | Eve Rickert & Andrea Zanin

Exxxotica Expo

Naughty N'awlins

Three Shades Of Grey (Episode 6)

Splash Takeovers

Life Of Spice

UpsideDown Creations | Instagram

We Gotta Thing Podcast

Normalizing Non-Monogamy

Hump Day Quickies [sic] Confessions

Splash Mocha

Southwest Love Fest

Eroticon 2026

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Anthony's Instagram

Pinky's Instagram

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Get ready for laughs, gasps, and maybe a few “Ohhhhhs” in this month's episode of Pinky and Ava’s Pajama Party! Ava drops a bombshell that she’s been holding onto for way too long—like, years-long—and it’s all about orgasms (yes, those orgasms).

We dive deep into Ava’s revelation, unpacking the hilarity, the honesty, and the sheer audacity of keeping a secret this big. Did Pinky see it coming? (Spoiler alert: absolutely not.)

Join us as we talk about the Big O, the small lies we tell ourselves, and why Ava’s secret is the ultimate plot twist. It’s a juicy mix of real talk, belly laughs, and a reminder that even in non-monogamy, there’s always something new to learn…or confess.

Warning: Listening may cause spontaneous giggling and side-eyeing your partner.

Tune in now—because the truth has never been this orgasmically funny!

LINKS:

Three Shades Of Grey | Website

Psychology Today | "The Case of the Female Orgasm," Revisited

Mama Gena | Website

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Pinky's Instagram

Ava's Instagram

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In this episode of Anthony, Pinky, & Ava dive into the concept of polysaturation—the moment when managing multiple partners in non-monogamy becomes overwhelming. While love and connection are infinite; time, energy, and emotional capacity are not.

Join us as we break down three concerns surrounding polysaturation:
1. Time Management
2. Emotional Burnout
3. Relationship Quality vs. Quantity

Through personal anecdotes, practical tips, and heartfelt advice, we explore how to recognize the signs of polysaturation, the benefits of setting limits, and strategies to maintain healthy, fulfilling connections.

If you’ve ever felt like your calendar is bursting or your emotional bandwidth is maxed out, this episode is for you. Learn how to navigate the delicate balance of love, time, and energy in your non-monogamous journey.

Tune in now and take a step toward a more intentional love life!

LINKS:

Three Shades Of Grey | Website

More Than Two | Franklin Veaux

Open Deeply | Kate Loree

Splash Takeovers | The Premier Couples Event

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Anthony's Instagram

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