Do you feel like people often cut you off when you're talking?

When was the last time someone really listened to you?

Today, Jay sits down with international keynote speaker and communication coach Vinh Giang for an inspiring conversation about building real confidence and finding your voice. Together, they dive into how the way we speak, and how we feel about speaking, isn’t something we’re born with, but a skill you build through experience, self-awareness, and practice.

Vinh breaks down the myth that confident speakers are just born that way. Through his simple “four stages of competence” framework, he explains how with the right tools and consistent practice—anyone can become a powerful communicator, even if you’re naturally shy or introverted. It’s not about changing your personality; it’s about learning to manage your energy and use your voice with intention.

Throughout the episode, Vinh shares easy, practical tips, like how to stop people from interrupting you in meetings, how to sound more confident, and how to use your voice to its full potential. One of the most touching parts of the conversation is when Vinh opens up about his father, a refugee who didn’t understand his career choice at first, but later became his biggest supporter. It’s a reminder that communication isn’t just about being heard, it’s also about understanding, connecting, and growing in every part of life.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Move from Shy to Confident with Communication

How to Master the Four Stages of Speaking Competence

How to Build Self-Awareness with the Record & Review Method

How to Boost Vocal Presence and Authority Instantly

How to Communicate Effectively as an Introvert

How to Reframe “Fake” as “Unfamiliar” When Practicing New Skills

Whether you’re a seasoned speaker, a reluctant communicator, or someone simply yearning to be heard, this episode will leave you feeling inspired, equipped, and encouraged to use your voice, not just to speak, but to be seen.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:29 Are You Struggling to Communicate Clearly?

02:13 The Path to Becoming a Confident Speaker

04:27 Do you have “Unconscious Incompetence?”

06:07 Change Your Habits, Change Your Confidence

08:40 A Simple Way to Build Self-Awareness

12:30 Why You Keep Getting Interrupted (and How to Stop It)

15:57 Why Communication Skills Are More Important Than Ever

19:01 Protecting Your Energy as an Introvert or Extrovert

23:21 How to Create a Routine That Helps You Perform at Your Best

26:25 Why You Cringe at the Sound of Your Own Voice

31:00 What Failure Teaches Us About Growth

35:31 How to Become a Natural Communicator

39:43 Why Mastering Communication Gives You True Freedom

44:49 Vinh’s Most Embarrassing Public Speaking Moment

47:53 Do Accents Hold You Back from Being Understood?

52:57 The Pen-in-Mouth Trick to Sharpen Your Speech

56:20 Don’t Just Learn the Tools, Own Them

59:36 How to Slow Down Your Speech Without Sounding Boring

01:04:45 It’s Not Just What You Say, It’s How People Hear It

01:07:40 Matching Energy: How to Meet People Where They Are

01:13:25 How to Show Up as the Bigger, Bolder Version of Yourself

01:16:02 Why Public Speaking Is Still the #1 Fear

01:18:00 How Filming Yourself Can Instantly Improve Your Speaking

01:25:07 What Makes Steve Jobs’ Speech So Powerful

01:28:35 Why We Sense When Someone Feels Inauthentic

01:34:06 Vinh on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Vinh Quang Giang | Website

Vinh Quang Giang | Instagram

Vinh Quang Giang | X

Vinh Quang Giang | YouTube

Vinh Quang Giang | LinkedIn

Vinh Quang Giang | Facebook

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When was the last time you looked back and thought, “If only I knew this earlier”?

In this episode, Jay shares the seven life-changing lessons he wishes he’d learned in his teens and twenties—insights that could have reshaped his relationships, career, peace of mind, and sense of purpose. These aren’t just reflections; they’re powerful revelations most of us only discover through struggle, heartbreak, or burnout.

Jay dives into what it truly means to speak with intention, to know when it’s time to let go, and to stop outsourcing your self-worth. From learning to stay quiet in a world that rewards noise to realizing that boundaries are an act of self-love—each lesson is a powerful reminder that growth isn’t always about adding more, but about releasing what no longer serves you.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why Saying Less Makes Your Words Matter More.

Knowing When It’s Time to Walk Away

Why You Should Talk To People, Not About Them.

What Stress Reveals About a Person’s True Nature.

How to Raise Your Standards Without Guilt.

Why Some People Miss the Old You (for the Wrong Reasons).

How to Stop Absorbing Others' Emotions and Expectations.

This episode is for anyone feeling stuck, overlooked, or overwhelmed. Jay reminds you that you don’t get what you deserve — you get what you accept. And that sometimes the most powerful transformation happens when you choose peace over performance, presence over perfection, and truth over approval.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discussed:

00:00 Intro

01:37 Things I Wish I Knew

03:27 Lesson #1: Speak Less, Say More

11:57 Lesson #2: Let Go Before It Drags You Down

17:34 Lesson #3: Talk to Your Partner, Not About Them

21:43 Lesson #4: Understand the Whole Person, Not Just the Parts You Like

28:05 Lesson #5: You Get What You Tolerate, Not What You Deserve

32:52 Lesson #6: People Cling to the Old You Because It Was Easier to Control

36:22 Lesson #7: “Bad at Texting” Often Means You're Not a Priority

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Do you ever feel like you need to be funny to be liked?

How do you handle pressure to always “perform” for others?

In this candid, hilarious, and unexpectedly moving episode of On Purpose, Jay sits down with comedian, actor, and podcast superstar Bert Kreischer—famously known for his shirtless stand-up and his ability to keep audiences laughing nonstop. This conversation goes way beyond the jokes as Jay and Bert dive deep into the real stories behind the spotlight, revealing the layers of vulnerability, self-doubt, and emotional growth that make Bert more than just a party-loving comic.

Bert shares what it was like growing up with a tough, old-school dad who believed in powering through pain and never showing weakness. That mentality helped shape Bert’s work ethic but also left him carrying emotional weight for years. In one of the most touching moments of the episode, Bert shares how a simple, unexpected conversation with his dad, while they were both high on edibles, changed everything, helping them finally see each other clearly and connect on a deeper level.

With Jay’s thoughtful guidance, they unpack Bert’s real-life struggles with anxiety, chasing approval, and feeling like you’re never enough, things so many of us can relate to. Bert is refreshingly honest about his mental health, his parenting ups and downs, and what it's like trying to stay grounded while raising two sharp, hilarious daughters who aren’t afraid to call him out.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Stay Humble While Chasing Big Dreams

How to Raise Kids Who Keep You Grounded

How to Keep Showing Up Even When It's Hard

How to Use Vulnerability as a Superpower

How to Manage Anxiety Without Shame

How to Turn Criticism into Growth

How to Stay Grateful Through Every Stage of Success

This episode is full of laughs, a few tear-jerking moments, and plenty of insight into what it really means to show up, be yourself, and keep going, even when it’s hard.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:45 The Wildest Plane Stories You’ve Ever Heard

04:25 Why a Marriage Built on Laughter Works

06:01 When Your Family Becomes Your Funniest Critics

07:16 Were You Always the Funny One?

09:08 How Bert Mastered the Art of Storytelling

14:35 Growing Up with a Tough-Love Dad

17:56 What It’s Like Seeing Your Parent Cry for the First Time

20:40 Realizing Your Parents Are Human Too

23:36 When Your Dad Realizes He Can Use Your Fame

24:35 What It’s Like to Share Your Success with Your Parents

29:05 The Lifelong Quest for a Parent’s Approval

35:08 How a 6-Figure Deal with Will Smith Changed Everything

37:20 The Moment You Know You Have to Chase Your Talent

42:50 Embracing the Power of Pressure

44:09 Is There a Pain You Can’t Laugh Through?

47:06 Letting Your Kids See You Cry

49:56 Why the Way You Tell a Joke Matters

51:43 How Your Kids Really See You

54:05 The Challenge of Uninterrupted Family Time

56:51 Just Show Up and Do the Work

01:01:33 Success Was Never a Straight Line

01:07:24 Don’t Let Greatness Become Familiar

01:11:12 Living with Anxiety When Life Doesn’t Slow Down

01:17:26 Building a Healthier Relationship with Alcohol

01:19:29 How Tracking Your Fitness Can Change You

01:22:00 Bert on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Bert Kreischer | Website

Bert Kreischer | Instagram

Bert Kreischer | X

Bert Kreischer | YouTube

Bert Kreischer | TikTok

Bert Kreischer | Facebook

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What’s something that really helps you feel energized in the morning?

Do you ever give yourself a moment to reset during the day?

Today, Jay shares a powerful reminder, rest isn’t something you need to earn, it’s something you absolutely need. If you’ve ever felt guilty for taking a break or felt like you had to justify a vacation, this conversation challenges that mindset and offers a refreshing shift. Rest is not a luxury, it's the fuel for everything we do. Just like your phone needs to recharge, your body, mind, and soul require consistent, intentional recovery.

Jay offers simple, practical habits you can start using right away to feel more rested and centered. From scheduling micro-breaks throughout your day, trying out the box breathing method, to practicing the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique to bring yourself back to the moment, these tools are small shifts that can make a big difference. You’ll also be encouraged to create tech-free spaces, embrace short daily walks in nature, and carve out intentional pauses in your schedule.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Schedule Micro-Breaks Every 60–90 Minutes

How to Redefine Rest as a Need, Not a Reward

How to Release Guilt and Shame Around Taking Breaks

How to Hydrate and Refocus During Short Breaks

How to Reframe Rest as a Tool for Productivity and Creativity

Making space to breathe, reflect, and recover won’t just help you feel better, it will help you show up better, think clearer, and live more purposefully.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:20 When Was The Last Time You Felt Truly Rested?

03:39 Regular Breaks Increase Productivity And Creativity

06:21 Rest Isn't Something You Earn, It’s Something You Need

07:53 #1: Set The Habit Of A Micro Break

11:15 #2: Practice Intentional Breathing Exercises

12:49 #3: Spend Time In A Mindfulness Practice

15:47 #4: Establish Tech-Free Zones in Your Home

18:55 Rest Is A Necessity, Not A Luxury

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Since the breakup, have there been moments when you actually felt calm, clear, or more like yourself?

When you imagine texting them, what are you secretly hoping they’ll say—or make you feel?

In this heartfelt and insightful compilation, Jay dives deep into the emotional landscape of breakups, offering a thoughtful and healing space for anyone navigating heartache. With his signature warmth and clarity, Jay brings together trusted voices in emotional wellness and relationships—Lori Gottlieb, Matthew Hussey, Stephan Speaks, Esther Perel, and Mel Robbins—each offering honest, thoughtful perspectives on what it really takes to move on after a relationship ends.

Together, they unpack the emotional aftermath of a breakup, from grief and confusion to self-doubt and the search for clarity. Whether you're dealing with the sting of rejection, stuck with unanswered questions, or scared to start over, this episode offers clear, grounded guidance that will leave you feeling both supported and uplifted. Without pressure, it offers a calm, compassionate space to work through the pain with presence, perspective, and hope.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Stop Blaming Yourself After a Breakup

How to Know When It's Time to Let Go

How to Break Emotional Patterns in Relationships

How to Sit With Pain and Still Move Forward

How to Choose Peace Over the Past

This episode offers more than advice—it brings hope, the kind that encourages self-love, future growth, and a belief that better things are ahead.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty.

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:19 Why Breakups Feel Like the Hardest Loss

09:19 “Why Wasn’t I Enough?” Understanding the Root of Self-Blame

20:21 Knowing When It’s Time to Let Go

25:15 Should You Try to Win Them Back?

28:43 Practical Steps to Letting Go After a Breakup

34:41 Do What’s Best For You to Heal

36:56 Everyone Handles a Breakup Differently and That’s Okay

39:30 Shifting Conflict Into Understanding

45:07 What Power Struggles in Relationships Really Mean

47:44 Why Breakups Make You Feel Unlovable

51:25 How to Release Control and Finally Find Peace

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Have you ever been seen in a way that didn’t feel true to who you are?

Who do you feel truly sees you for who you are?

Today, Jay sits down once again with the incredible Khloé Kardashian to talk about growth, healing, and what it really means to evolve on your own terms. It’s been six years since Khloé first sat down with Jay, and a lot has changed. Now in her 40s, Khloé reflects on the defining moments of her 30s, the clarity she’s found in this new chapter, and how her journey has shaped the woman she is today

In this honest and heartfelt conversation, Khloé opens up about what it really took to move through heartbreak, public judgment, and her own self-doubt. She shares how she learned to forgive herself, let go of shame, and step into a deeper sense of self-awareness. Khloé talks about navigating the pressures around motherhood, relationships, and success — and how therapy, journaling, and her unwavering faith helped her rediscover her worth and inner peace.

Jay and Khloé also dive into what it looks like to slow down, make room for solitude, and intentionally choose joy. She offers a glimpse into her daily routines, the spiritual practices that ground her, and how she’s creating a loving, mindful environment for her children, one rooted not in perfection, but in presence and authenticity.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Set Emotional Boundaries Without Losing Your Kindness

How to Forgive Yourself and Heal from Past Mistakes

How to Use Solitude as a Tool for Self-Discovery

How to Stop Comparing Your Journey to Others

How to Build Emotional Resilience After Betrayal

How to Raise Emotionally Aware and Grounded Children

How to Find Peace Through Faith and Daily Rituals

Through her candid storytelling and unwavering humility, Khloé offers hope, wisdom, and an empowering message of self-acceptance to anyone navigating their own inner transformation.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:33 Aging Doesn’t Have to Be Scary

05:17 Visualizing Your Life in Your 40s

06:23 It’s Okay to Be Unsure

07:39 How Maturity Brings Stability

09:35 Why We’re Always Chasing More

12:09 The Truth About Success

13:55 Practice Self-Intentionality

16:42 Stop Letting Validation Control You

19:47 Balancing Accountability and Forgiveness

21:42 Learn to Be Patient with Yourself

23:10 Everyone Learns on Their Own Timeline

24:30 A Path to Self-Forgiveness

27:20 When You Might Be the Problem

29:24 You Are Not Your Mistakes

31:39 The Work Only You Can Do

36:00 Rewiring a Negative Mindset

38:18 Why Therapy Can Be Transformative

41:11 Finding the Courage to Trust Again

43:17 Getting Comfortable with Being Vulnerable

46:19 It’s Brave to Let Yourself Cry

48:28 Understanding Your Love Language

52:02 We All Love Differently

54:21 The Beauty of Giving Love

55:31 Reuniting with Lamar After 9 Years

59:51 Leaving What No Longer Serves You

01:03:46 Releasing Residual Negativity

01:05:15 Why We All Need Empathy

01:09:04 What I Want My Kids to Remember

01:11:35 Why Kids Don’t Need the Internet

01:14:24 Dating as a Mom in Your 40s

01:15:28 How to Date More Intentionally

01:17:31 Embracing Alone Time

01:19:05 Leaning Into the Discomfort

Episode Resources:

Khloé Kardashian | Instagram

Khloé Kardashian | X

Khloé Kardashian | YouTube

Khloud Foods

Khloé in Wonder Land

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Have you ever caught yourself stuck in a spiral of negative thoughts?

Do you have a go-to way to reset when you’re feeling overwhelmed?

Today, Jay dives into one of the most common modern struggles: overthinking. Whether it's an unanswered text, a mistake at work, or uncertainty about your next step, our minds often trap us in loops of doubt, fear, and frustration. But what if the path to peace starts with a few spiritual truths?

In this episode, Jay shares timeless wisdom from the Bhagavad Gita and Buddhist teachings to help you finally stop spiraling and start releasing. He walks you through five powerful shifts—from learning how to emotionally declutter your space and mind, to embracing the truth that pain is part of life, but suffering is a choice. Jay also introduces practical rituals—like writing and discarding thoughts—that are scientifically proven to help you regulate difficult emotions.

With heartfelt insight, Jay explores how we can become friends with our own minds and stop rehearsing conversations and conflicts that never happen. He urges us to face the things we’re avoiding, take action instead of postponing, and learn the art of letting go with intention.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to Stop Thought Spirals Before They Take Over.

Why Writing Down Your Emotions Can Help You Let Go.

The Difference Between Pain and Suffering—and How to Reduce Both.

How Your Environment Impacts Your Mental State.

Why Speaking the Truth Sets You Free from Overthinking.

This episode is your invitation to choose presence over perfection and peace over pressure. Whether you're caught in a loop of overthinking or simply craving clarity, this conversation will bring you back to stillness.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discussed:

00:00 Introduction

00:43 How to Let Go Gracefully

04:58 #1: How Writing Down Your Thoughts Calm Your Mind

09:00 #2: How to Start Decluttering Your Mind

15:23 #3: How Acceptance Lessens the Pain

20:11 #4: How to Have Difficult Conversations Real Time

21:30 #5: Don't Delay What Can Be Done Today

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