What does success really look like—and are we living up to it? In this reflective and heartfelt episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron sit down to ask each other: Do we feel successful? Do our parents think we’re successful? And more importantly—are they proud of us?This week’s conversation dives into what it means to be a successful spouse, parent, and individual. The hosts share honest thoughts on how they define success today, how that’s changed over the years, and the pressure many of us feel to “make our parents proud.”They also explore the expectations passed down through generations and the unique balance between building a life for yourself and still wanting that nod of approval from the ones who raised you.Poll Question: What’s more important—mental success or financial success?Like, subscribe, and join the convo in the comments. Follow @firstcomeslovetcm on Instagram for more behind-the-scenes insights from Lindsey and Aaron.

Who were we before the diapers, dance recitals, and school drop-offs? In this heartfelt and introspective episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron reintroduce themselves—not just as parents, but as people.

This episode is a love letter to identity beyond parenthood. The couple shares stories, dreams, and lessons from their pre-kid life, reminding their children (and themselves) that while life changes, character and purpose evolve—not disappear.

It’s a beautiful reminder that growing up doesn’t mean losing yourself—it just means becoming more of who you’re meant to be.

Poll Question: Do you think you’re past your prime... or aging like fine wine? Let us know in the comments and join the convo!

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With Easter Sunday around the corner, Lindsey and Aaron are diving into all things tradition! In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, they reflect on the customs their parents passed down—from getting dressed up for church to those little habits that sneak into our own parenting style.

What family traditions are worth keeping? Which ones do we outgrow? And what funny or unexpected traits have you inherited from your parents without even realizing it?

Plus, a spicy side convo—are there such things as “good” curse words? You might be surprised where this discussion goes!

Poll Question: Do you think there are “good” curse words? Drop your answer and tell us why in the comments.

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We all fall down—but what matters most is how we get back up. In this powerful and reflective episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron open up about regrets, missed opportunities, and the moments they’ve felt like they failed.

But is it really failure if you keep going? The couple shares personal stories of setbacks, how they bounced back, and what they would (or wouldn’t) change if given the chance. From career decisions to personal choices, this episode reminds us that every stumble is part of the journey.

Whether you’re in the middle of a comeback or still trying to figure out your next step, this one’s for you.

Poll Question: Have you ever failed at something? Vote and let’s talk about how we turn failure into fuel in the comments.

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The parent-child relationship doesn’t end when you grow up—it evolves. But how? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron dive into the expectations that parents have for their adult children—and what adult children wish from their parents in return.Should parents still give advice (even when it’s not asked for)? How much involvement is too much? And how do you navigate setting boundaries while still maintaining respect and love? This fun and eye-opening conversation explores what it means to be parented as an adult and how expectations can shape or strain family relationships.Poll Question: Are you willing to set expectations with your parents? Vote and share your experience in the comments!Follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs this conversation!

“What do you want to be when you grow up?” It’s the question every child is asked—but how many of us actually become what we once dreamed of? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron take a trip down memory lane to see if their childhood ambitions lined up with their real-life careers.They also dive into the deeper conversation of when to start pursuing your dreams to avoid burnout and whether it’s okay not to have a job you’re passionate about. Is loving your career necessary for happiness, or can a job just be… a job?This episode is all about expectations, reality, and finding fulfillment—whether you’re chasing a childhood dream or carving a new path altogether.

Poll Question: Are you currently in the career you dreamed of as a child? Vote and tell us why in the comments!Follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who’s questioning their career path!

Heartbreak—it’s something we all experience, but how do we navigate it, heal from it, and come out stronger on the other side? In this special episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron are joined by two very special guests—Asasha and Jason Francis, the godparents of their children—to have a deep and honest conversation about love, loss, and resilience.Together, they share personal stories of heartbreak from past relationships, reflect on how those experiences shaped them, and discuss what lessons they wish they had known sooner. But most importantly, they ask themselves: What advice would we give our children if they ever had their hearts broken?From learning to let go, to recognizing self-worth, to embracing the lessons heartbreak teaches us, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and real talk. Because while heartbreak may be painful, it’s also an opportunity to grow and prepare for the love that’s meant to last.Have you ever had your heart broken? What’s the best advice you’ve received (or wish you had) about dealing with heartbreak? Drop your thoughts in the comments, and let’s keep the conversation going!Make sure to follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm, like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!

What do you do when you’ve hurt someone you love? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron continue their heartfelt series of letters to their children—this time offering advice on how to make things right after you've wronged your partner.The conversation starts with the foundation of accountability—owning your mistake, seeking forgiveness, and reflecting on why it happened in the first place. Lindsey and Aaron share personal insights about learning from missteps and how true growth in a relationship comes from making sure the same mistake doesn’t happen twice.But then things get really interesting… In the second half of the episode, the couple is put in hypothetical situations where they have to win each other back after a major fallout. From heartfelt apologies to over-the-top romantic gestures, they challenge each other to come up with the grandest gesture that could make things right again. Would it be a private moment of sincere connection or a public declaration of love and regret?This episode is all about making amends and rebuilding trust. No relationship is perfect—but how you recover from mistakes can make or break your future together.We want to hear from you! If you were wronged by your partner, what would mean more to you: a private heartfelt apology or a grand public gesture? Answer in the poll and tell us why in the comments!As always, follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm and don’t forget to like, subscribe, share, and join the conversation. We love building this community with you!