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  • Season 6, Episode 7 – Heartbreak: Lessons in Love with Special Guests Asasha & Jason Francis
    Mar 18 2025

    Heartbreak—it’s something we all experience, but how do we navigate it, heal from it, and come out stronger on the other side? In this special episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron are joined by two very special guests—Asasha and Jason Francis, the godparents of their children—to have a deep and honest conversation about love, loss, and resilience.Together, they share personal stories of heartbreak from past relationships, reflect on how those experiences shaped them, and discuss what lessons they wish they had known sooner. But most importantly, they ask themselves: What advice would we give our children if they ever had their hearts broken?From learning to let go, to recognizing self-worth, to embracing the lessons heartbreak teaches us, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and real talk. Because while heartbreak may be painful, it’s also an opportunity to grow and prepare for the love that’s meant to last.Have you ever had your heart broken? What’s the best advice you’ve received (or wish you had) about dealing with heartbreak? Drop your thoughts in the comments, and let’s keep the conversation going!Make sure to follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm, like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!

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    26 m
  • Season 6, Episode 6 – How to Make Amends When You’ve Done Wrong
    Mar 11 2025

    What do you do when you’ve hurt someone you love? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron continue their heartfelt series of letters to their children—this time offering advice on how to make things right after you've wronged your partner.The conversation starts with the foundation of accountability—owning your mistake, seeking forgiveness, and reflecting on why it happened in the first place. Lindsey and Aaron share personal insights about learning from missteps and how true growth in a relationship comes from making sure the same mistake doesn’t happen twice.But then things get really interesting… In the second half of the episode, the couple is put in hypothetical situations where they have to win each other back after a major fallout. From heartfelt apologies to over-the-top romantic gestures, they challenge each other to come up with the grandest gesture that could make things right again. Would it be a private moment of sincere connection or a public declaration of love and regret?This episode is all about making amends and rebuilding trust. No relationship is perfect—but how you recover from mistakes can make or break your future together.We want to hear from you! If you were wronged by your partner, what would mean more to you: a private heartfelt apology or a grand public gesture? Answer in the poll and tell us why in the comments!As always, follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm and don’t forget to like, subscribe, share, and join the conversation. We love building this community with you!

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    41 m
  • S6 Ep5: When to Let Go and How to Move Forward
    Mar 4 2025

    Not every relationship is meant to last forever—but how do you know when it’s time to let go? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron have an honest conversation with their future children about recognizing when a relationship—romantic, platonic, or even professional—has run its course.

    They break down the signs that it’s time to walk away, the emotions that come with letting go, and the best ways to handle being on the other side—when you are the one who gets let go. Whether it’s a breakup, a friendship drifting apart, or outgrowing a situation, they discuss the importance of closure, healing, and moving forward with confidence.

    If you've ever struggled with knowing when to hold on or when to walk away, this episode is for you. Share your thoughts in the comments—What’s the hardest part about letting go? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and join the conversation!

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    47 m
  • S6 Ep4: Are You a Good Friend? How to Make and Keep Friendships as an Adult
    Feb 25 2025

    Friendship isn’t just about who you grew up with—it’s about who grows with you. In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron continue their heartfelt series of letters to their children, reflecting on friendship in adulthood.

    As they look back on a recent birthday party, they ask an important question: How do you make and maintain friendships as an adult, especially when you have kids? They dive into what makes a good friend, the qualities to look for, and how friendships shift over time. From balancing family, work, and personal life to finding new connections in unexpected places, this conversation is one that every adult can relate to.

    Later in the episode, they explore a parent's role in guiding their children’s friendships. How much influence should a parent have? And what lessons can we pass down about building meaningful relationships?

    Join the conversation and take our poll: How many real friends does an adult need? Five or more, or less than five?Comment below and let’s talk about it!

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    52 m
  • S6 Ep3: Would You Still Wait Until Marriage to have Sex? Featuring Special Commentary from Baby Liv
    Feb 18 2025

    In this thought-provoking episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron continue their conversation with their three children in the future, giving them the wisdom they wish they had when they were younger. This week, they tackle a deeply personal and often debated question—knowing what you know now, would you still wait until marriage to have sex?

    With honesty and reflection, they discuss the expectations, pressures, and real-life experiences that shaped their perspective on waiting for marriage. Is it always the best choice? Would they do things differently if given the chance? And what advice do they have for their kids when it comes to love, intimacy, and making big decisions?

    Plus, this episode comes with a special guest—Baby Liv! Recorded with their 1-year-old in attendance, expect some adorable baby sounds and commentary along the way.

    Join the conversation, share your thoughts in the comments, and don’t forget to like and subscribe!

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    27 m
  • S6 Ep 2: When Did You Know You Were in Love?
    Feb 11 2025

    In this heartfelt episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron continue their conversation with their three children in the future, offering wisdom for when they reach adulthood. With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, they dive into one of the biggest relationship questions—when did you know it was real love?

    Was it a single moment, a feeling that grew over time, or something unexpected? Lindsey and Aaron share their personal experiences of realizing they had found the one and reflect on what true love really means beyond just romance. They explore the difference between infatuation and lasting love, how to recognize a relationship worth investing in, and what advice they’d give their future children when it comes to matters of the heart.

    Join the conversation and share your own “aha” moment in the comments. When did you know it was real love? Like, subscribe, and let’s talk about it!

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    42 m
  • Welcome to Season 6! A Love Letter to Our Future S6E1
    Feb 4 2025

    Season 6 is here, and this time, we’re doing something truly special. Lindsey and Aaron are speaking directly to their three children—not as kids, but as future adults in their 30s and 40s. This season is a time capsule of wisdom, love, and life lessons, meant to guide them when they reach the same stage of life their parents are navigating now.


    In this premiere episode, Lindsey and Aaron dive into one of the biggest challenges of adulthood: balancing parenting, marriage, and personal life. How do you give your best to your children without losing the connection with your spouse? How do you maintain your sense of self when life’s responsibilities feel overwhelming? They share real experiences, lessons learned, and the advice they hope their children will carry with them into their own futures.


    This season is for anyone trying to juggle family, love, and personal fulfillment. Whether you're a parent, a partner, or just figuring out your own path, these conversations will spark reflection and connection.


    To our future children, this season is our gift to you. And to our incredible listener family, thank you for growing with us. Let’s make this season unforgettable.


    Join the conversation: What’s the hardest part of balancing family, love, and personal time for you? Let’s talk about it in the comments.


    Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share. More meaningful conversations are coming your way all season long.

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    44 m
  • "Love Comes When You Least Expect It" - Season Finale Celebration | First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage S5E22
    Jun 25 2024

    "Love Comes When You Least Expect It" - Season Finale Celebration | First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage S5E22

    🎉 Welcome to the grand finale of Season 5 of "First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage"! In Episode 22, Lindsey and Aaron delve into the heartwarming cliché, "Love comes when you least expect it." Join us as we celebrate the unexpected moments of love that have defined our journeys and yours. 🌟❤️


    In this special episode, our hosts reflect on how love has surprised them in their own lives, sharing personal stories and heartfelt experiences. They'll also reveal their favorite clichés from this season, discussing why these sayings resonate so deeply.


    We're thrilled to celebrate a major milestone with our listener family—1,000 subscribers on YouTube and a 5-star rating on podcast platforms! 🙌 Your support and engagement have made this journey incredible, and we couldn't have done it without you.


    While we wrap up Season 5, stay tuned for more exciting content coming this summer. We're just getting started, and we can't wait to share more love, laughter, and wisdom with you all.


    We want to hear from you! How has love surprised you when you least expected it? What's your favorite cliché from this season? Share your stories and thoughts in the comments below.


    👍 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay connected with us. Thank you for being a part of our amazing community. Enjoy the end of Season 5, and get ready for more fantastic content coming soon!


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    39 m