Heartbreak—it’s something we all experience, but how do we navigate it, heal from it, and come out stronger on the other side? In this special episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron are joined by two very special guests—Asasha and Jason Francis, the godparents of their children—to have a deep and honest conversation about love, loss, and resilience.Together, they share personal stories of heartbreak from past relationships, reflect on how those experiences shaped them, and discuss what lessons they wish they had known sooner. But most importantly, they ask themselves: What advice would we give our children if they ever had their hearts broken?From learning to let go, to recognizing self-worth, to embracing the lessons heartbreak teaches us, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and real talk. Because while heartbreak may be painful, it’s also an opportunity to grow and prepare for the love that’s meant to last.Have you ever had your heart broken? What’s the best advice you’ve received (or wish you had) about dealing with heartbreak? Drop your thoughts in the comments, and let’s keep the conversation going!Make sure to follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm, like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!

What do you do when you’ve hurt someone you love? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron continue their heartfelt series of letters to their children—this time offering advice on how to make things right after you've wronged your partner.The conversation starts with the foundation of accountability—owning your mistake, seeking forgiveness, and reflecting on why it happened in the first place. Lindsey and Aaron share personal insights about learning from missteps and how true growth in a relationship comes from making sure the same mistake doesn’t happen twice.But then things get really interesting… In the second half of the episode, the couple is put in hypothetical situations where they have to win each other back after a major fallout. From heartfelt apologies to over-the-top romantic gestures, they challenge each other to come up with the grandest gesture that could make things right again. Would it be a private moment of sincere connection or a public declaration of love and regret?This episode is all about making amends and rebuilding trust. No relationship is perfect—but how you recover from mistakes can make or break your future together.We want to hear from you! If you were wronged by your partner, what would mean more to you: a private heartfelt apology or a grand public gesture? Answer in the poll and tell us why in the comments!As always, follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm and don’t forget to like, subscribe, share, and join the conversation. We love building this community with you!

Not every relationship is meant to last forever—but how do you know when it’s time to let go? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron have an honest conversation with their future children about recognizing when a relationship—romantic, platonic, or even professional—has run its course.

They break down the signs that it’s time to walk away, the emotions that come with letting go, and the best ways to handle being on the other side—when you are the one who gets let go. Whether it’s a breakup, a friendship drifting apart, or outgrowing a situation, they discuss the importance of closure, healing, and moving forward with confidence.

If you've ever struggled with knowing when to hold on or when to walk away, this episode is for you. Share your thoughts in the comments—What’s the hardest part about letting go? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and join the conversation!