What does success really look like—and are we living up to it? In this reflective and heartfelt episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron sit down to ask each other: Do we feel successful? Do our parents think we’re successful? And more importantly—are they proud of us?This week’s conversation dives into what it means to be a successful spouse, parent, and individual. The hosts share honest thoughts on how they define success today, how that’s changed over the years, and the pressure many of us feel to “make our parents proud.”They also explore the expectations passed down through generations and the unique balance between building a life for yourself and still wanting that nod of approval from the ones who raised you.Poll Question: What’s more important—mental success or financial success?Like, subscribe, and join the convo in the comments. Follow @firstcomeslovetcm on Instagram for more behind-the-scenes insights from Lindsey and Aaron.

Who were we before the diapers, dance recitals, and school drop-offs? In this heartfelt and introspective episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron reintroduce themselves—not just as parents, but as people.

This episode is a love letter to identity beyond parenthood. The couple shares stories, dreams, and lessons from their pre-kid life, reminding their children (and themselves) that while life changes, character and purpose evolve—not disappear.

It’s a beautiful reminder that growing up doesn’t mean losing yourself—it just means becoming more of who you’re meant to be.

Poll Question: Do you think you’re past your prime... or aging like fine wine? Let us know in the comments and join the convo!

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With Easter Sunday around the corner, Lindsey and Aaron are diving into all things tradition! In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, they reflect on the customs their parents passed down—from getting dressed up for church to those little habits that sneak into our own parenting style.

What family traditions are worth keeping? Which ones do we outgrow? And what funny or unexpected traits have you inherited from your parents without even realizing it?

Plus, a spicy side convo—are there such things as “good” curse words? You might be surprised where this discussion goes!

Poll Question: Do you think there are “good” curse words? Drop your answer and tell us why in the comments.

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