How we respond to circumstances affects how well we manage stress. In this episode, I review ways we typically handle stress and share some tips such as decluttering different aspects of our lives.

Key Takeaways:

(00:00:46) – Your Reaction Shapes the Outcome: How you react to stress and challenging situations determines the outcomes. A negative reaction often increases stress and leads to poor decisions.

(01:24:78) – Stress and Burnout from Life Events: Life challenges, such as family deaths, family drama, and managing multiple responsibilities like podcasting, led to burnout and stress. Finding ways to manage stress is crucial.

(03:26:13) – The Power of Organizing: Organizing your thoughts, mindset, workspace, and living space is essential in managing stress. It’s not just about physical decluttering but mental and emotional organization.

(08:22:16) – Seek Help and Resources: It’s important not to shy away from seeing a therapist or talking to someone if you’re overwhelmed. Check workplace programs or find trusted individuals in your community.

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How to Escape Chaos by Decluttering Your Life w/Nicole Gabai

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Former Secret Service agent Daniel Dluzneski discusses his work with school systems and the best ways to keep your children safe during a threat.

Coincidentally we recorded this interview the same day of the Apalachee School shooting in Georgia.

Key Takeaways

• Proper training and drills are essential for school safety.
• Layered security measures, such as controlled access and locked classrooms, can help protect students and staff.
• Open communication between parents and children about school safety is crucial.
• Parents should advocate for safe practices in schools and question ineffective approaches.
• Lockdown procedures are effective in keeping students safe during emergencies.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Daniel's Background

02:08 What Solo Moms Need to Know About School Safety

03:15 Preparing for Emergencies: Proper Training and Drills

07:41 Open Communication: Parents' Role in School Safety

12:44 Layered Security Measures for School Safety

19:30 The Effectiveness of Lockdown Procedures

26:03 The Dangers of Ineffective Approaches

29:01 Resources for Further Information

30:16 Final Thought: Keeping Yourself Safe

Connect with Daniel: LinkedIn

Grab a copy of Daniel's book: The First Five Minutes on Amazon

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Chapters

00:00 The complex feelings while connecting with adult children

02:24 Navigating the challenges of solo motherhood

03:25 The role of faith and trusting God in parenting

05:22 Finding support and mentors in the parenting journey

09:14 Experiencing a sense of pride and appreciation for your children's accomplishments

Takeaways

• You are solely responsible for how your children turn out.
• Children make their own choices at the appropriate age regardless of how you raise them.
• Having faith and finding support can make parenting solo a little easier
• Seeking mentors can provide guidance and support.
• It's a great reward to experience pride and appreciation for your children's accomplishments.

Summary

This week I explore the feelings of pride and responsibility that solo moms have towards their children.

I reflect on my own experience as a solo mom and the challenges I faced raising my sons. The idea stems from a conversation I recently had with a young woman who asked, "what do you feel when you look at your adult son"?

So if you sometimes feel responsible for your kids' behavior or thought you did a poor job raising them, this episode is for you.

Connect with J. Rosemarie: I'm available for one-on-one or group interactions if you decide you want to talk. Book a time with me here.

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#parentingadultchildren #parentalresponsibility #solomompride #solomomchallenges #faithandresilience

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Takeaways

• Partnering with a college preparation expert can help busy moms navigate the process and increase their teens' chances of admission and scholarships.
• Letting go and empowering your teens to own the college process is crucial for their success and independence.
• Financial aid and scholarships are available for the majority of families, regardless of income level.
• Taking time for self-care as a solo mom is essential for maintaining balance and reducing guilt.

Summary

Dr. Pamela Ellis, CEO and solo mom, partners with busy moms and their teens to help them navigate the college preparation process.

She provides a clear roadmap for success, resulting in 95% of their teens being admitted to their top choice colleges and receiving an average of $75,000 in scholarships.

Dr. Ellis emphasizes the importance of letting go and empowering teens to own the college process. She also highlights the misconception that college is only for the wealthy and shares strategies for finding financial aid and scholarships.

Dr. Ellis offers a free College Success Blueprint to help moms support their teens in getting into their dream colleges.

Send Dr. Ellis a DM with code BLUEPRINT25 at https://www.linkedin.com/in/drpamelaellis/ to get your copy today.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background of Dr. Pamela Ellis

03:03 Letting Go and Empowering Teens

06:06 Demystifying Financial Aid and Scholarships

12:01 Navigating the College Preparation Process

16:35 Solo Moms: Challenges and Gratitude

19:13 Parting Advice for Solo Moms

#collegepreparation #collegeroadmaptosuccess #collegescholarships #lettinggo #empoweringteens #financialaid #CollegeSuccessBlueprint

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background of Rahul Karan Sharma

02:04 Challenges Faced by Solo Moms in the Corporate World

03:51 Tips for Success as a Working Solo Mom

05:57 Habits for Happiness and Well-being

09:00 The Power of Positive Mind Talk

11:08 The Importance of Self-Analysis

13:57 Seeking Help and Having a Mentor

17:00 Never Quit on a Bad Day

18:50 Prioritizing Self-Care and Being BOLD

Summary

Rahul Karan Sharma, a global learning executive, author, and public speaker, discusses the challenges faced by solo moms in the corporate world and offers tips for success.

Rahul who is a Mindset Coach, emphasizes the importance of self-care, mindset shifts, positive self-talk, and seeking help. He also shares the habits associated with happiness and well-being, such as practicing positive mind talk and self-analysis.

Connect with Rahul: LinkedIn | Website

Check out his books like Habits4MIRACLES: Design Your Life Your Way on Amazon

Takeaways

• Solo moms in the workplace struggle when they lack support for their household chores and childcare, impacting their ability to work efficiently.
• Solo moms who are not part of the corporate world often have more time to dedicate to their families and are more attentive and effective in their roles.
• Tips for working solo moms include believing in yourself, taking imperfect action consistently, and learning to say no.
• Happiness and well-being can be achieved through positive self talk and self-analysis.
• Solo moms should ask for help and have a mentor to provide guidance and support.
• Never quit on a bad day and prioritize self-care.
• Rahul Karan Sharma's acronym for success is BOLD: Believe in Yourself, Be Optimistic, Love Yourself, and Dream Big.

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#solomoms #challengesofsinglemoms #successtipsforsolomoms #self-care #mindsetshift #positiveself-talk #healthyhabits #believeinyourself #neverquit

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Amber Luffman [Season 1 | Episode 10]

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Summary

Mercedes Fernandez, a geriatric kinesiologist, shares her experiences and insights on caring for aging adults. She emphasizes the importance of empathy, compassion, and understanding while caring for older adults.

Mercedes also provides tips for caregivers, including the need for self-care and finding support from other caregivers. She highlights the availability of resources and assistance for caregivers and encourages caregivers to give space to aging adults to maintain their independence.

Mercedes expresses gratitude for the opportunity to help others and encourages everyone to smile and connect with others.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

01:09 Lessons from Having an Aging Adult Family Member

03:11 The Cyclical Nature of Aging

04:31 Tips for Taking Care of an Elderly Relative

06:20 The Importance of Self-Care for Caregivers

08:29 Available Assistance for Caregivers

12:08 Balancing Independence and Assistance

19:06 Mercedes' Work and Contact Information

22:20 Gratitude and Parting Words

Connect with Mercedes: Website

#Caringforolderadults #Caregivertips #eldercare

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Is childbirth for you and aah! or an ugh!?

Listen to this episode to hear one mom's story of moving from the ugh! to the aah! of her childbirth experience.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Our Personal Experiences

04:07 Difference Between Hospital Births and Alternative Approaches

09:25 The Journey to the Hummingbird Way

12:21 Supporting Women Through the Breath of Birth and Beyond

20:27 Key Principles of Conscious Birthing and Parenting

25:08 The Transformative Power of Giving Birth

28:02 Encouragement for Solo Moms

Summary

Queen, a mother of eight and a birth advocate shares her journey of conscious birthing and the empowerment that comes with trusting your intuition and body during the birthing process.

She emphasizes the need for women to reclaim their power and make informed choices about their birth experiences. Queen also discusses the Hummingbird Way, her approach to supporting women through childbirth, and the role of breathwork in creating a positive birthing experience. She also shares ancestral secrets about childbirth.

She encourages solo moms to release past traumas and fears and embrace the belief that each birth is unique and can be a joyful and empowering experience.

Connect with Queen & learn about the Hummingbird Way:

Podcast | website | Instagram | YouTube

Takeaways

• Problem pregnancies and negative experiences in hospitals can lead to fear and anxiety in future pregnancies.
• Being conscious and connected to your body during birth can help manage pain and create a more positive experience.
• The Hummingbird way is a teaching method that empowers women to trust their bodies and make informed choices during childbirth.
• Releasing past trauma and shifting mindset can lead to a more positive and empowering birth experience.
• Each pregnancy and birth is unique, and it is possible to have a different and more positive experience with each subsequent birth.

DISCLAIMER: Opinions expressed are not meant to convey medical advice but to share personal experiences. Please consult with a medical professional if you have questions or concerns about giving birth.

Bio: "Meet Queen, a dedicated mother of 8. In 2015 she earned a diploma in access to midwifery and became a clinical support worker on labour ward in an NHS hospital. She has been passionately supporting births and teaching across three continents since 2012. Drawing from her ancestral lineage of midwifery, including her great grandmother who was a mother of 12, she founded 'Our Hummingbird,' offering unique birth education and immersion trainings coined as the 'hummingbird way" She was the first conscious birthing guide and as a pioneer in conscious birthing, she guides expectant parents in a holistic, sovereign approach to childbirth, honours the first 42 days postpartum and supports conscious parenting.

#consciousbirthing #birthadvocacy #trustingintuition #reclaimingyourbirthingpower #makinginformedchoices #HummingbirdWay #breathworkandchildbirth #positivebirthingexperience, #releasingpasttraumas

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