Have holidays historically been difficult for your child with ADHD? Do the changes in routine affect their behavior? In this episode of the Soaring child podcast, discover how to best prepare your child with ADHD for the changes in routine that the holiday season brings, how to handle judgment from well-meaning relatives without letting it affect your confidence or emotional state, and how to both prevent and manage meltdowns when the excitement and overstimulation of the holidays start to take their toll.
Ashley Gobeil is a frequent guest on this podcast because she gets it—she’s helped countless families like yours and mine navigate the complexities of raising a child with ADHD. She is a highly experienced therapist with over 15 years in the field. She holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology, a Master’s in Social Health & Counseling, and a Master’s of Social Work.
But beyond the credentials, she’s worked in a wide range of settings, including childcare, schools, and child and adolescent mental health. Her expertise includes supporting children with ADHD, ODD, and learning difficulties, and she’s a trusted voice on issues like family dynamics, trauma, and attachment theory.
This conversation could make all the difference this holiday season, so tune in!
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Key Takeaways:
[4:29] Practical Tips for Preparing ADHD Children for the Holidays
[9:50] Managing Judgment from Family Members
[17:08] Preventing and Managing Meltdowns
[23:28] Soothing the Nervous System During Holiday Overstimulation
[27:48] Summary of the Top Tips for Handling ADHD During the Holidays
[29:30] The Importance of Self-Care for Parents
Memorable Moments:
“The holidays can be magical, but for families like ours, they definitely come with unique challenges.”
“Kids with ADHD often struggle with transitions, especially during the holidays when routines are disrupted.”
“Connection before correction—always connect with your child first, especially during emotional moments.”
“The more you can prepare or preempt something before it happens, the better.”
“When you're hearing those comments from family members, validate your own feelings and set boundaries.”
”I know that I’m parenting in the way that my child needs, and I don’t have to justify that to anyone.”
“Parents, take micro moments to look after yourself, because the more you have in your tank, the more you can help your kids.”
“It’s not about punishing or controlling behaviors; it’s about understanding ADHD and advocating for your child.”
“Look for the positive moments, even during tough times, and acknowledge your child's efforts.”
“Overstimulation is common during the holidays, so give your child sensory breaks and low-stimulation environments.”
“With planning, preparation, and empathy, you can create a beautiful holiday season for your family.”
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25 mins