Send us a text

If a man wants to, he will"—but does this phrase really hold water in today's dating world? Join us as we, Nikki and Amber, sit down with our guest Frankie to take a closer look at the fine line between genuine effort and mere excuses in relationships. Frankie opens up about the pressures men face when initiating contact and the often unforgiving landscape of modern dating. We also delve into the female perspective on social media interactions that lack depth and the complexities of balancing a digital presence with meaningful personal connections.

Dating as a single parent brings its own set of challenges, from managing childcare and work to the emotional stakes of introducing new partners to children, particularly those with special needs. With insights from our listeners, we explore how modern trends like the "fuck boy" mentality disrupt the pursuit of meaningful relationships. We emphasize the critical role of support systems and the appreciation needed to foster mutual respect, ensuring that both parties are committed to balancing personal growth with parental responsibilities.

Navigating the world of dating with past baggage and societal stereotypes adds another layer of complexity, especially for professions like bartending. We examine the fine line between being sociable and the misconceptions that follow, highlighting the need for secure partners who can appreciate the nuances of such roles. Our conversation also touches on the role of zodiac signs in shaping our interactions, offering a light-hearted exploration of how astrological beliefs can influence perceptions. Through the episode, we encourage listeners to maintain a sense of self-worth, seek partners who support their aspirations, and embrace both the spontaneous and planned moments that enrich our lives.

Support the show

Find us on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, TikTok

Follow Nikki @otsbartender, Amber @UnrulyAmber, and our Podcast Page @Small_Town_Big_Mouths
Facebook @SmallTownBigMouths
TikTok @SmallTownBigMouths

We accept ALL questions and feedback!

Send us a text

Join us on a journey of transformation with John, a former cop and SWAT operator whose story intertwines the worlds of law enforcement and entrepreneurship. John candidly shares his personal evolution from a life of high-stakes action to navigating the complexities of modern dating after an 18-year marriage. This episode offers a heartfelt exploration of authenticity in relationships and the pitfalls and triumphs of starting anew in both personal and professional realms. You'll find a blend of humor and sincerity as John reflects on his past and hints at future ventures.

Our conversation moves beyond John's personal story, examining the nuances of communication in today's fast-paced world. We tackle the art of balancing phone calls and text messages, discuss societal views on alpha males, and explore the often-overlooked value of humility in male-dominated careers. John opens up about navigating these pressures, emphasizing the importance of genuine connections and personal growth. With insights into gender roles, self-protection, and the hidden thoughts of men, listeners are granted a window into the challenges and rewards of maintaining authenticity in all aspects of life.

Prepare for an episode that is as thoughtful as it is entertaining, as we conclude with a light-hearted look at zodiac signs and the humorous side of personality traits. From dissecting the complexities of societal expectations to sharing whimsical anecdotes, John and the hosts provide a dynamic listening experience. Whether you're curious about the world of law enforcement, intrigued by the dynamics of modern relationships, or simply a fan of engaging storytelling, this episode promises to leave you with plenty to ponder and a smile on your face.

Support the show

Find us on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, TikTok

Follow Nikki @otsbartender, Amber @UnrulyAmber, and our Podcast Page @Small_Town_Big_Mouths
Facebook @SmallTownBigMouths
TikTok @SmallTownBigMouths

We accept ALL questions and feedback!

Send us a text

Have you ever wondered how some people maintain their positivity amidst life's chaos? Join us on Small Town, Big Mouths as Amber and Nikki unlock the secrets to staying upbeat even when plans crumble. Discover how Nikki transformed a canceled trip into an exciting local escapade and learn the timeless art of gratitude. From affirmations to journaling, we promise a treasure trove of tips that won't just inspire you but empower you to find joy in the everyday grind.

Feeling stressed? You're not alone, but we've got strategies to help. Here, we chat about turning stress into serenity through meditation, paddle boarding, and nature hikes. Amidst laughter and shared anecdotes, we explore how limiting negativity and setting daily positive goals can transform your outlook. Self-care aficionados, rejoice! We share how regular massages, manicures, and a well-timed visualization session can work wonders on your spirit and productivity.

Travel enthusiasts will love our escapades in Italy, San Diego, and Chicago using Turo and Airbnb. Let us guide you through the intricacies of choosing the perfect Airbnb and the reliability of Turo's service, drawing from our own memorable experiences. Whether you're looking to boost positivity, indulge in self-care, or navigate travel more effectively, this episode has a smidgen of everything to uplift your spirit and inspire personal growth. Join us for an engaging journey towards positivity and growth!

Support the show

Find us on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, TikTok

Follow Nikki @otsbartender, Amber @UnrulyAmber, and our Podcast Page @Small_Town_Big_Mouths
Facebook @SmallTownBigMouths
TikTok @SmallTownBigMouths

We accept ALL questions and feedback!

Send us a text

What if ditching your bra could spark a fiery debate? Join Nikki, Amber, and Misty as Nikki recounts a hilarious bar story that ignites the age-old debate of going braless. From personal comfort and societal expectations to the reactions from family and friends, we share our candid experiences and opinions on the braless trend. Expect a mix of humor and heartfelt honesty, as we explore the generational divide on this topic.

Ever wondered why some underwear brands just don’t cut it anymore? We dive into our changing tastes and frustrations, celebrating the wire-free revolution led by brands like Warner's and Bali, and showing no mercy to Victoria's Secret for their lackluster quality. Whether you prefer to sleep in your skivvies or let everything breathe, we reveal how these choices impact our daily comfort and style.

And if you think we stop there, think again! We spill the tea on the Real Housewives of Orange County, dissecting the juicy drama of Shannon and John Jansen’s chaotic relationship, complete with legal twists and near-miss accidents. Plus, Taylor’s strong stance against wearing bras to bed sparks an animated discussion, culminating in Tia’s outrageous tale of her FBI Academy-acquired jewelry. Tune in for a whirlwind of laughs, insights, and unexpected stories!

Support the show

Find us on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, TikTok

Follow Nikki @otsbartender, Amber @UnrulyAmber, and our Podcast Page @Small_Town_Big_Mouths
Facebook @SmallTownBigMouths
TikTok @SmallTownBigMouths

We accept ALL questions and feedback!

Send us a text

🚨 What does it really take to launch and keep a podcast thriving? 🚨

Join Amber, Nikki, and Misty as they spill the tea on their first year of creating Small Town Big Mouths—and let’s just say, it’s been a wild ride! From the thrill of hearing from listeners to the "WTF" moments of juggling different roles, we're breaking down how this podcasting journey has flipped our lives upside down! 🎙️💥

✨ Get nostalgic with us as we reminisce about childhood favorites (looking at you, Clearly Canadian) and laugh about the behind-the-scenes chaos no one tells you about. 😂 Who knew editing would require an advanced degree in patience?

👩‍💻 Tech fails? Oh, we’ve been there! Nikki shares her hilarious struggles with memory and tech (seriously, we might need an editing boot camp ASAP!). We talk about the power of younger generations in shaping social media success and how listener feedback has become our lifeline. 💡

🎉 Oh, and did we mention our unexpected cheerleader, Eric from Oklahoma? Sometimes the best support comes from the people you never expect! 💬 Plus, Amber keeps it real about balancing ALL the things—multiple projects, personal brands, and still having time for life.

💬 Ready for a fun and raw conversation about podcasting, life, and everything in between? You won't want to miss this!

🔗 Hit that follow button and tune in for all the chaos, laughs, and heart.

#PodcastLife #SmallTownBigMouths #ClearlyCanadianVibes #BehindTheMic #PodcastJourney #PodcastTips #WomenInPodcasting #PodcastCommunity #BalancingLife #SocialMediaStruggles

Support the show

Find us on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, TikTok

Follow Nikki @otsbartender, Amber @UnrulyAmber, and our Podcast Page @Small_Town_Big_Mouths
Facebook @SmallTownBigMouths
TikTok @SmallTownBigMouths

We accept ALL questions and feedback!

Send us a text

Why It’s Hard to Spot Relationship Green Flags (And How to Find Them)

Have you ever wondered why red flags in relationships seem so obvious, but the green flags are harder to notice? On this week’s episode of Small Town, Big Mouths, hosts Amber and Nikki break down the signs of healthy relationships that often go unnoticed. From sipping on a signature cocktail to diving deep into discussions about flexibility, loyalty, and genuine interest, we’re flipping the script on what it means to find a partner who brings positivity and support.

With personal stories and male perspectives, we explore the subtle yet powerful traits that make a relationship thrive—like patience, consistency, and small acts of kindness. Special guests Wendy, Christina, and Frances share their views on key relationship qualities, while Christina’s story of dating a “walking green flag” adds a fresh, uplifting perspective. This episode will leave you reevaluating what it means to have a truly healthy relationship. Tune in for insights that could change the way you approach love and friendships forever!

Support the show

Find us on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, TikTok

Follow Nikki @otsbartender, Amber @UnrulyAmber, and our Podcast Page @Small_Town_Big_Mouths
Facebook @SmallTownBigMouths
TikTok @SmallTownBigMouths

We accept ALL questions and feedback!

Send us a text

Ever wondered what it’s really like to try out new gadgets on the fly? Buckle up as Nikki kicks off by talking about her fitness sidekick, the BlendJet from Costco. From its sheer convenience to some unexpected battery life issues, Nikki spills all the beans on her smoothie adventures. Plus, we’re turning a new leaf by transitioning to video recordings—get ready to see our mugs and all the hilarious expressions that come with our lively chats!

Dating in the digital age can be a minefield, and we’re here to help you navigate it! Listen as Amber shares a cringe-worthy date that left her questioning her potential partner's intentions. We discuss the vital signs of genuine interest and respect in budding relationships, revealing red flags that are more common than you might think. From the awkwardness of dating apps to the balancing act of singlehood, our personal stories and practical advice aim to guide you towards more meaningful connections.

Finally, get whisked away to Copperopolis, a town that feels straight out of a movie. We dive into its hidden luxuries and charming quirks while comparing dating scenes from Arizona to Fresno. Whether it's spotting the need for a strong, alpha partner or laughing at our own dating mishaps, our stories provide a relatable lens on the intricacies of modern romance. And for all you Bravo fans, there's even a nod to the ever-evolving lives of your favorite personalities. Trust us, this episode is packed with fun, insights, and maybe even a few aha moments!

Support the show

Find us on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, TikTok

Follow Nikki @otsbartender, Amber @UnrulyAmber, and our Podcast Page @Small_Town_Big_Mouths
Facebook @SmallTownBigMouths
TikTok @SmallTownBigMouths

We accept ALL questions and feedback!

Send us a text

In this episode of Small Town Big Mouths, we’re dishing out genius hacks to help you make the most of your PTO and squeeze in those extra vacation days. Learn how to extend your breaks around holidays like Labor Day and Veterans Day without running out of days for spontaneous getaways! Amber also shares her go-to hangover remedies—because who doesn’t need a little Liquid IV and greasy food after a wild night?

Next, we dive into life hacks that will leave you laughing and nodding in agreement. From using Aquaphor as the perfect under-eye concealer to fixing your flip-flops with bread clips, we’ve got a quirky solution for just about everything. Plus, discover how Velcro can keep you from losing your remote again!

We shift gears to talk about relationships, honesty, and the unique challenges of dating within social circles, especially when you’re working in the bar industry. Misty recounts a hilarious (and cautionary) tale about mixing medication with alcohol, while Nikki shares her latest tech drama.

We’re wrapping it all up with updates on Misty’s daughter's wedding excitement, our new studio setup, and a quick reminder to follow us on social media—don’t forget to spell that hashtag right! (#smalltownbigmouths)

Get ready for laughs, life tips, and real talk. You won’t want to miss this one!

#Escapadesinbartending #Hacks #Vacation #Workflow #LiquidIV #GreasyFood #NoMoreHangover #SemiGlueTide #Manjuarosideaffects #OzempicSideaffects #LifeHacks #Aquaphor #MakeupHacks #MissingItems #KitchenHacks #PerfectBakedPotato #KBeauty #KoreanSkinCare #SpoiledChild #CollagenCare #Merkin #RogerThat #CockBlocker #BartenderLife #DaughterAdvice #mental health #WorkAdvice #ComicalHacks #StupidHacks #Cheaters #ParentingTips #Narcissist #cosrx #bartendershenanigans #EscapadesInBartending #Hacks #VacationTips #PTOHacks #LiquidIV #HangoverRemedies #AquaphorHack #MakeupHacks #LifeHacks #Cosrx #BartenderLife #ParentingTips #RelationshipAdvice #Honesty #Loyalty #BarIndustryLife #PodcastLife #SmallTownBigMouths

Support the show

Find us on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, TikTok

Follow Nikki @otsbartender, Amber @UnrulyAmber, and our Podcast Page @Small_Town_Big_Mouths
Facebook @SmallTownBigMouths
TikTok @SmallTownBigMouths

We accept ALL questions and feedback!