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Why It’s Hard to Spot Relationship Green Flags (And How to Find Them)

Have you ever wondered why red flags in relationships seem so obvious, but the green flags are harder to notice? On this week’s episode of Small Town, Big Mouths, hosts Amber and Nikki break down the signs of healthy relationships that often go unnoticed. From sipping on a signature cocktail to diving deep into discussions about flexibility, loyalty, and genuine interest, we’re flipping the script on what it means to find a partner who brings positivity and support.

With personal stories and male perspectives, we explore the subtle yet powerful traits that make a relationship thrive—like patience, consistency, and small acts of kindness. Special guests Wendy, Christina, and Frances share their views on key relationship qualities, while Christina’s story of dating a “walking green flag” adds a fresh, uplifting perspective. This episode will leave you reevaluating what it means to have a truly healthy relationship. Tune in for insights that could change the way you approach love and friendships forever!

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Ever wondered what it’s really like to try out new gadgets on the fly? Buckle up as Nikki kicks off by talking about her fitness sidekick, the BlendJet from Costco. From its sheer convenience to some unexpected battery life issues, Nikki spills all the beans on her smoothie adventures. Plus, we’re turning a new leaf by transitioning to video recordings—get ready to see our mugs and all the hilarious expressions that come with our lively chats!

Dating in the digital age can be a minefield, and we’re here to help you navigate it! Listen as Amber shares a cringe-worthy date that left her questioning her potential partner's intentions. We discuss the vital signs of genuine interest and respect in budding relationships, revealing red flags that are more common than you might think. From the awkwardness of dating apps to the balancing act of singlehood, our personal stories and practical advice aim to guide you towards more meaningful connections.

Finally, get whisked away to Copperopolis, a town that feels straight out of a movie. We dive into its hidden luxuries and charming quirks while comparing dating scenes from Arizona to Fresno. Whether it's spotting the need for a strong, alpha partner or laughing at our own dating mishaps, our stories provide a relatable lens on the intricacies of modern romance. And for all you Bravo fans, there's even a nod to the ever-evolving lives of your favorite personalities. Trust us, this episode is packed with fun, insights, and maybe even a few aha moments!

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In this episode of Small Town Big Mouths, we’re dishing out genius hacks to help you make the most of your PTO and squeeze in those extra vacation days. Learn how to extend your breaks around holidays like Labor Day and Veterans Day without running out of days for spontaneous getaways! Amber also shares her go-to hangover remedies—because who doesn’t need a little Liquid IV and greasy food after a wild night?

Next, we dive into life hacks that will leave you laughing and nodding in agreement. From using Aquaphor as the perfect under-eye concealer to fixing your flip-flops with bread clips, we’ve got a quirky solution for just about everything. Plus, discover how Velcro can keep you from losing your remote again!

We shift gears to talk about relationships, honesty, and the unique challenges of dating within social circles, especially when you’re working in the bar industry. Misty recounts a hilarious (and cautionary) tale about mixing medication with alcohol, while Nikki shares her latest tech drama.

We’re wrapping it all up with updates on Misty’s daughter's wedding excitement, our new studio setup, and a quick reminder to follow us on social media—don’t forget to spell that hashtag right! (#smalltownbigmouths)

Get ready for laughs, life tips, and real talk. You won’t want to miss this one!

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