• LIVE with The Famous Dr AL and Scarlett Tandy

  • Aug 28 2024
  • Length: 31 mins
  • Podcast

LIVE with The Famous Dr AL and Scarlett Tandy

Listen for free

View show details

  • Summary

  • BIO: Scarlett Tandy and her husband Randall have been blending their two families for over 15 years. During the teenage years their worst nightmare happened, and their kids went to live with their other parents. They never gave up hope and began to focus on reconnecting and now their family is thriving. Social Media: Instagram Enjoying Your Blended Family https://www.instagram.com/enjoyingyourblendedfamily?igsh=d2F6MGozamFiMHZw&utm_source=qr TikTok Enjoying Your Blended Family https://www.tiktok.com/@enjoyingyourblendedfam?_t=8kSZv71kCEM&_r=1 Enjoying Your Blended Family Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enjoying-your-blended-family/id1582692142 Guest: Scarlett Tandy Overview: Scarlett shares her inspiring story of blending families and overcoming significant challenges, offering hope and practical advice for other blended families. Meeting Randall How They Met: Scarlett and Randall met through mutual friends connected via their children's softball teams.Initial Hesitation: Scarlett was initially hesitant to start dating due to her ongoing divorce process.First Meeting: They met at a softball field, introduced by friends, and have been together for nearly 16 years. Early Challenges Children's Ages: Scarlett had two children, aged 3 and 7, while Randall had one daughter, aged 8.Fairy Tale Phase: Early days were blissful, but difficulties emerged post-marriage.Stepdaughter's Resistance: Randall’s daughter struggled with accepting the new family dynamic. Adjusting to the New Family Dynamic Role of a Stepmom: Scarlett aimed to be the best stepmom but faced resistance.Stepdaughter's Withdrawal: Increased efforts by Scarlett led to further withdrawal by Randall’s daughter.Counseling Attempts: Various attempts to address the issues through counseling. Major Setbacks Stepdaughter Leaves: Randall’s daughter decided to live with her mother, causing significant emotional turmoil.Loss of Contact: Complete loss of contact with Randall’s daughter.Children Acting Out: Scarlett's children also started acting out, eventually choosing to live with their biological father. Coping with Loss and Darkness Emotional Impact: Deep sense of loss and darkness in their home.Faith as a Support: Strong faith in Jesus helped Scarlett and Randall cope and survive the tough times.Counseling and Therapy: Scarlett sought therapy, which helped her recognize and address her parenting flaws. Reconnecting and Healing Intentional Reconnection: Efforts to reconnect with children through consistent, intentional actions.Successful Strategies: Focus on shared interests and fun activities helped rebuild relationships.Gradual Reunification: Gradual reconnection led to a fully reunited family by 2020. Living a Fantastic Life Prioritizing Relationships: Importance of being intentional in relationships and prioritizing family.Planning Family Time: Scheduling family activities before other commitments.Non-negotiables: Establishing non-negotiables in the schedule to ensure family time. Reflections and Advice Lessons Learned: Importance of not trying to blend a family too quickly and focusing on building strong relationships.Parenting Approach: Allowing the biological parent to take the lead in parenting to avoid the “evil stepmom” stereotype.Enjoying the Moment: Appreciating each phase of family life and not rushing through seasons. Conclusion Rediscovering Purpose: Using their journey to help other blended families.Second Chances: Embracing the second chance with family and the new role as grandparents.Scarlett's Book: "How to Enjoy Your Blended Family" available on Amazon.Social Media Presence: Find Scarlett on Instagram and TikTok at @EnjoyingYourBlendedFamily. Final Thoughts Host's Reflection: Dr. Lycka emphasizes the importance of family and enjoying each moment.Gratitude: Dr. Lycka thanks Scarlett for sharing her profound insights and experiences
    Show more Show less
activate_WEBCRO358_DT_T2
Economics Personal Success
Show more Show less

What listeners say about LIVE with The Famous Dr AL and Scarlett Tandy

Average customer ratings

Reviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.

Audible.com reviews

Amazon reviews
No Reviews are Available