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Michael Pereira's journey from corporate traveler to autism advocate began when his son Christian started showing developmental concerns around his first birthday. Like many parents, Michael and his wife initially struggled with denial – a phase he now recognizes was rooted in focusing on their own feelings rather than their child's needs. "The extent of denial reflects the extent of selfishness," Michael shares with remarkable candor, explaining how acceptance finally allowed them to move forward and create real solutions.

The turning point came when COVID temporarily halted Michael's 80% travel schedule, revealing how his son's symptoms improved with his consistent presence. When travel resumed, Christian's difficulties with transitions, head-banging behaviors, and communication regressions returned, ultimately leading to his autism diagnosis. Rather than immediately seeking external support groups, the family chose to strengthen their internal bonds first – a powerful reminder that healing journeys aren't one-size-fits-all.

What makes Michael's story particularly valuable is how personal challenge transformed into purpose. Frustrated by financial advisors who couldn't address special needs planning without trying to sell products, he created The Autism Voyage, a resource helping families navigate everything from early diagnosis to financial security. His comprehensive approach focuses on three critical areas: income protection strategies, using life insurance to fund special needs trusts, and long-term care planning – protections many families don't realize they need until it's too late.

Beyond practical advice, Michael offers profound wisdom about balancing the needs of both his children (Christian with autism and three-year-old Amanda), choosing positive mindsets daily, and embracing discomfort as necessary for growth. As former IBM CEO Ginni Rometty wisely noted, "Growth and comfort cannot coexist." For anyone navigating unexpected challenges in parenting or life, these words and Michael's lived experience offer both comfort and courage to move forward.

Michael Pereira, Founder of The Autism Voyage®, helps parents of special needs children navigate financial and life-planning challenges. As a financial professional focusing on insurance planning, and autism dad himself, Michael knows firsthand how critical it is to have a proactive plan in place. His mission is to bridge the gap between insurance strategies and real-life challenges, empowering families to secure their future with confidence. No one understands the challenges, wins, and fears quite like another parent walking this path.

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Tired of failed relationships? You might be asking one person to fill too many intimacy needs. In this deeply thoughtful episode, relationship expert Tannaz shares her transformative concept of the six intimacy tanks we all have: physical (non-sexual touch), sexual, emotional, experiential, intellectual, and spiritual connection.

Instead of expecting a single person to fill every tank, Tannaz encourages taking inventory of your relationships to identify who fills which roles in your life. When your partner lacks emotional capacity, who else can you turn to? Which tanks are non-negotiable for your romantic relationships? This perspective removes the crushing weight of expecting partners to "be everything" while honoring our need for community.

The conversation takes a powerful turn when Candace vulnerably shares her post-divorce experience with a situationship, revealing how honesty about what she could and couldn't give transformed a confusing dynamic into a nurturing friendship. "When I can't give you what you deserve, I need to be honest about that," she reflects, demonstrating how candor creates safety in relationships.

Tannaz, who left a law career after witnessing too many divorces, explains the crucial components of relationship healing: cognitive understanding paired with somatic bodywork to help our nervous systems feel safe enough for change. "We will always choose familiar chaos over unfamiliar peace," she notes, highlighting why we stay in dysfunctional patterns.

Whether you're single, dating, partnered, or married, this episode offers practical tools to evaluate your relationships and create more intentional connections. As Tannaz reminds us: "Your presence matters — you were born with a unique blueprint to share gifts with the world."

Tannaz Hosseinpour is a certified life coach specializing in relationships—both with oneself and with others. With an academic background in conflict resolution law and counselling psychotherapy, she blends neuroscience, psychology, and mindfulness to help individuals regulate their nervous system and build healthy, secure connections.

Explore more resources at minutesongrowth.com, where Tannaz offers a free ebook on nervous system regulation and consultations for those seeking relationship guidance.

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It's Therapy Thursday

Your screen time is shaping you in ways you might not realize. Every show, movie, and social media scroll leaves an imprint on your mind, influencing everything from your daily thoughts to how you interact with others.

Candace and Janet take us on a revealing journey through their personal media consumption habits, examining how what we watch creates a "mental diet" that nourishes or depletes us. Candace shares the surprising story of experiencing her first panic attack while watching a television drama during her separation, highlighting the powerful connection between emotional vulnerability and media consumption. Janet explains why she deliberately avoids fear-based news programming, choosing instead content that fosters hope and community connection.

The conversation takes delightful turns as the hosts laugh about their Grey's Anatomy obsession leaving them convinced they could diagnose medical conditions ("I could probably give some surgery!"), while also exploring deeper territory about how religious programming can bring ancient texts to life. The contrast between "trash TV" and spiritual content reveals that it's not about judging what we watch, but rather understanding its impact on our mental well-being.

What makes this discussion particularly valuable is the practical wisdom shared. The hosts suggest mindfully observing how different shows affect your mood, behavior, and outlook, then adjusting accordingly. They explore how algorithms shape what appears in our feeds and how we can take control by deliberately curating content that aligns with our values and goals.

Whether you're a binge-watcher, social media scroller, or selective viewer, this conversation will transform how you think about your screen time. Take a moment to reflect on your own media habits – are they feeding your mind with what truly nourishes you? Subscribe now and join our community of mindful media consumers who are learning to harness the power of what they watch to create more positive, purposeful lives.

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Dive into a heartfelt conversation that tackles the complex emotions surrounding imposter syndrome and the often-hidden feelings of inadequacy we carry with us. In this episode, we peel back the layers of self-doubt and explore how our upbringing, societal expectations, and personal narratives shape our perception of worthiness.

Janet and I share candid stories from our experiences as parents, navigating the challenges of helping our children while facing our own anxieties. We discuss the beauty of supportive relationships and how genuine care from loved ones can help us confront feelings of being a fraud in our personal and professional lives. Together, we unpack five distinct types of imposter syndrome, shedding light on how each manifests and impacts individuals differently. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, we reveal the power of vulnerability and the importance of community in countering the narratives that keep us stuck in self-doubt.

As we prepare to wrap up, we acknowledge the intertwining nature of grief and acceptance, encouraging listeners to embrace their unique journeys and understand their inherent worthiness. This episode serves as a reminder that while the journey may be fraught with challenges, we all possess the potential to thrive. Join us in this thought-provoking discussion on self-worth, acceptance, and the transformative power of connection. Remember to subscribe, share, and leave a review as you reflect on your own path to embracing your worth.

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It's Therapy Thursday

Sipping our morning coffee, we invited the enchanting Misty Bell Stiers, an artist, storyteller, and advocate for diversity, equity, and inclusion, to share her inspiring journey. As a creative director and author, Misty sprinkles a touch of magic into her mission to create systemic change. Our conversation dances through the joys and challenges of parenting in small living spaces and the nostalgia of having kids at home, all while celebrating the beautiful connections between family, creativity, and personal growth.

Our chat with Misty delved deep into her personal experiences with embracing diversity and inclusion. From her privileged upbringing to a life-changing accident that opened her eyes to accessibility issues, Misty's journey is both heartfelt and transformative. Her work in digital design became a powerful platform for advocating representation and inclusivity, driving her to make a difference for future generations while honoring those who fought for equality before her.

Misty opened up about her spiritual evolution from a Catholic upbringing to embracing modern paganism, a journey filled with introspection and soul-searching. We explored the intersection of spirituality, friendship, and motherhood, finding magic in everyday moments and the powerful practice of gratitude. Misty's insights into love and understanding across diverse perspectives left us feeling inspired to open our hearts and minds, appreciating the rich tapestry of experiences that make life meaningful. Join us for an episode filled with love, laughter, and a touch of magic as Misty shares her wisdom and warmth.

Misty Bell Stiers is an artist, storyteller and boss witch who has spent her career focused on leveraging her passion for diversity, equity and inclusion—and a little bit of magic—to create systemic change at every level. As a creative director, podcast guest, speaker and author, Misty has mastered using her unique perspective to help people find ways to truly connect to the world around them and the people in it.

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It's Therapy Thursday!!

When life throws a curveball, how do you respond? Join me, Candace Patrice, and my wonderful mother, Janet Hale, as we navigate the rollercoaster of family life when illness hits home. Despite my crazy schedule, there was no question about being there for my mom, reminding us of the power of familial bonds and the little acts of care that mean the world. Through laughter and nostalgia, we explore how life's unexpected moments can bring us closer, making us appreciate the love and support we often take for granted.

Ever wondered how to keep your cool when everything around you is chaotic? We dive into the art of maintaining consistency during life's many surprises, from health hiccups to unforeseen scheduling conflicts. Our journey takes a personal turn as Janet shares the spiritual roots that connect her to her African ancestry, offering insight into how spirituality transcends traditional religious structures. This exploration of faith and identity invites listeners to reflect on their own beliefs and the deep connections that shape who we are.

Family, friendship, and community are the heartbeats that keep us going. We celebrate the intricate dance of parenting, balancing the roles of both a guiding parent and a trusted friend to our children. With stories from a moving exhibit at the Brooklyn Museum and cherished moments with dear friends, we shine a light on the importance of community. By honoring the past while nurturing the future, we emphasize the values of love, forgiveness, and laughter, inviting you to embrace the connections that enrich our lives.

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Ever felt trapped in your life's circumstances, unsure how to break free? Our special guest, Judy Larson, shares her profound journey from feeling out of place in her own family to navigating the pressures of adulthood. Facing a marriage to an alcoholic and the shadow of her father's struggles, Judy battled low self-esteem and depression, culminating in a pivotal episode that challenged her mental health. Her story sets the stage for an exploration into holistic healing and the importance of addressing the whole person in the quest for wellness.

Judy also open up about her transformative journey, sparked by a critical therapy session that helped her confront buried emotions, including anger towards her father. This path led her through challenges like divorce and financial fears, ultimately embracing a holistic approach to mental health. She pursued a degree in social work, realizing the limitations of traditional methods, and found personal healing with universal love and guidance. These experiences have inspired her to consider writing a book, despite initial doubts about her writing skills.

We delve into themes of empowerment and personal transformation, highlighting the upcoming Wise Woman Academy, designed to support women ready to embrace their inner wisdom. Throughout our discussion, the three of us emphasize the importance of love and forgiveness in overcoming trauma and choosing one's community. We touch on the complexities of childhood trauma, the power of spiritual connections, and the journey from living in the mind to living in the heart. Join us for a heartfelt conversation that encourages embracing unique journeys with love, trust, and a community spirit.

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It's Therapy Thursday!

We explore the transformative power of decluttering both physical and mental spaces and how they create room for new opportunities and joy. By integrating love and reciprocity into our daily lives, we redefine work as a fulfilling expression of our true selves.

- Discusses the importance of maintaining a decluttered space to enhance reception of new opportunities
- Explores the connection between giving and receiving in life, emphasizing reciprocity
- Considers redefining work through a lens of joy and purpose instead of obligation
- Shares personal anecdotes about love, family, and connections that enrich life's journey
- Highlights the significance of living authentically and listening to one's inner feelings

If you or someone you know is struggling, you can call or text 988 with the suicide prevention lifeline, seven days a week.

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