Show Notes: Church is a Team Sport Podcast with Jim Putman
Episode #9: Breaking the Perfection Myth & Reaching the Lost (Essential #2)
In this episode of Church as a Team Sport, Jim Putman and Lance Wigton tackle the myth that Christians must appear "perfect" and have it all together. They discuss how the fear of judgment leads many believers to hide their struggles, resulting in a church culture where vulnerability is rare, and discipleship suffers. Jim shares stories of how Real Life Ministries emphasizes authenticity, accountability, and the importance of community in growing spiritually.
The conversation also focuses on Essential #2: Reaching the Lost. Jim explains that effective disciple-making begins with abiding in Christ and caring about what Christ cares about—people. He outlines how Real Life Ministries has created a culture where reaching others for Christ is woven into everyday life. Jim and Lance share stories of how ordinary believers are empowered to share the gospel in their workplaces and social circles, emphasizing the importance of discipleship that equips others to witness and serve. They also discuss how large, church-wide efforts like baptism celebrations and corporate outreach programs work hand-in-hand with life-on-life ministry.
Key Points Discussed:
1. The Perfection Myth in Church Culture:
- Many Christians feel pressured to appear perfect, which stifles vulnerability and authentic relationships.
- Hypocrisy isn’t about failing but about pretending you don’t fail. The early church leaders, including Paul and Peter, openly admitted their struggles.
- Being open about challenges, like going to a counselor or sharing personal frustrations, can foster deeper relationships and spiritual growth.
2. Reaching the Lost:
- Abiding in Christ leads to a natural heart for the lost because it aligns believers with what Jesus cares about.
- Real discipleship includes teaching people to minister in their workplaces, homes, and communities.
- The role of the church is not just to gather on Sundays but to empower every believer to see themselves as missionaries in their day-to-day lives.
3. Empowering Everyday Believers:
- Jim stresses the importance of believers stepping into their roles as ministers of the gospel. Rather than relying on pastors to evangelize, every Christian is called to share their faith.
- Discipleship involves not just gathering people but sending them out, equipped to serve others where they live, work, and play.
4. Corporate and Personal Outreach:
- Alongside individual evangelism, Real Life Ministries also engages in corporate outreach efforts, such as sports programs and recovery ministries, that allow the church body to reach people as a collective.
5. Baptism and Directed Prayer:
- Baptisms are celebrated in service, focusing not just on the act of baptism but also the process of discipleship that leads people to that decision.
- Directed prayers during services help focus the congregation on reaching the lost and connecting with their mission to share Christ.
Discussion Questions:
1. Why do you think Christians feel pressured to appear "perfect"? How can we create a culture in our churches where people feel safe to share their struggles?
2. Jim talked about abiding in Christ leading to a heart for the lost. How can you cultivate a deeper connection to Christ in your daily life that moves you toward outreach?
3. What are some ways you can witness to people in your immediate environment (workplace, neighborhood, etc.)? How can you train yourself and others to share the gospel in practical, everyday situations?
4. How can your small groups become more mission-focused? What steps can they take to begin reaching out to those who are unconnected?
Actionable Next Steps:
- Evaluate your vulnerability: Start by sharing one area of personal struggle with a trusted group or individual this week. Encourage others to do the same and create an environment of openness.
- Start praying for the lost: Identify two or three people in your life who don’t know Jesus. Commit to praying for them regularly, asking God for opportunities to share your faith.
- Engage in outreach: Look for ways your small group can serve together—whether through a community service project, prayer walks in your neighborhood, or caring for someone in need.
For more resources and materials on discipleship, visit JimPutman.com or Realliferesources.org
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