Show Notes: Church is a Team Sport Podcast with Jim Putman

Episode #9: Breaking the Perfection Myth & Reaching the Lost (Essential #2)

In this episode of Church as a Team Sport, Jim Putman and Lance Wigton tackle the myth that Christians must appear "perfect" and have it all together. They discuss how the fear of judgment leads many believers to hide their struggles, resulting in a church culture where vulnerability is rare, and discipleship suffers. Jim shares stories of how Real Life Ministries emphasizes authenticity, accountability, and the importance of community in growing spiritually.

The conversation also focuses on Essential #2: Reaching the Lost. Jim explains that effective disciple-making begins with abiding in Christ and caring about what Christ cares about—people. He outlines how Real Life Ministries has created a culture where reaching others for Christ is woven into everyday life. Jim and Lance share stories of how ordinary believers are empowered to share the gospel in their workplaces and social circles, emphasizing the importance of discipleship that equips others to witness and serve. They also discuss how large, church-wide efforts like baptism celebrations and corporate outreach programs work hand-in-hand with life-on-life ministry.

Key Points Discussed:

1. The Perfection Myth in Church Culture:

- Many Christians feel pressured to appear perfect, which stifles vulnerability and authentic relationships.

- Hypocrisy isn’t about failing but about pretending you don’t fail. The early church leaders, including Paul and Peter, openly admitted their struggles.

- Being open about challenges, like going to a counselor or sharing personal frustrations, can foster deeper relationships and spiritual growth.

2. Reaching the Lost:

- Abiding in Christ leads to a natural heart for the lost because it aligns believers with what Jesus cares about.

- Real discipleship includes teaching people to minister in their workplaces, homes, and communities.

- The role of the church is not just to gather on Sundays but to empower every believer to see themselves as missionaries in their day-to-day lives.

3. Empowering Everyday Believers:

- Jim stresses the importance of believers stepping into their roles as ministers of the gospel. Rather than relying on pastors to evangelize, every Christian is called to share their faith.

- Discipleship involves not just gathering people but sending them out, equipped to serve others where they live, work, and play.

4. Corporate and Personal Outreach:

- Alongside individual evangelism, Real Life Ministries also engages in corporate outreach efforts, such as sports programs and recovery ministries, that allow the church body to reach people as a collective.

5. Baptism and Directed Prayer:

- Baptisms are celebrated in service, focusing not just on the act of baptism but also the process of discipleship that leads people to that decision.

- Directed prayers during services help focus the congregation on reaching the lost and connecting with their mission to share Christ.

Discussion Questions:

1. Why do you think Christians feel pressured to appear "perfect"? How can we create a culture in our churches where people feel safe to share their struggles?

2. Jim talked about abiding in Christ leading to a heart for the lost. How can you cultivate a deeper connection to Christ in your daily life that moves you toward outreach?

3. What are some ways you can witness to people in your immediate environment (workplace, neighborhood, etc.)? How can you train yourself and others to share the gospel in practical, everyday situations?

4. How can your small groups become more mission-focused? What steps can they take to begin reaching out to those who are unconnected?

Actionable Next Steps:

- Evaluate your vulnerability: Start by sharing one area of personal struggle with a trusted group or individual this week. Encourage others to do the same and create an environment of openness.

- Start praying for the lost: Identify two or three people in your life who don’t know Jesus. Commit to praying for them regularly, asking God for opportunities to share your faith.

- Engage in outreach: Look for ways your small group can serve together—whether through a community service project, prayer walks in your neighborhood, or caring for someone in need.

For more resources and materials on discipleship, visit JimPutman.com or Realliferesources.org

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Join us next time as we discuss Essential #3: Connecting the Unconnected and explore practical ways to help people find authentic community in the church. Don’t miss it!

In this episode of "Church is a Team Sport," hosts Lance Wigton and Jim Putman delve into the critical importance of abiding in Christ for Pastors and Church leaders. They explore how abiding in Christ goes beyond mere Bible study or sermon preparation, transforming into a deep, relational experience that shapes identity and spiritual growth. Jim emphasizes that true leadership in the church requires leaders to live out what they preach, fostering a culture of authenticity, accountability, and relational discipleship.

Some of their key talking points are:

1. Abiding in Christ:

• Abiding in Christ is not just about reading the Bible or preparing sermons; it's about developing a personal, transformative relationship with God.
• Jim shares personal struggles with maintaining this perspective, where church leadership can often become task-oriented rather than relational.
• The importance of rooting identity in being a child of God, rather than in roles or titles, such as pastor or leader.

2. Church Leadership and Identity:

• The danger of finding identity in the size or success of a church rather than in Christ.
• Jim's journey from identifying as a wrestler to a pastor, to ultimately embracing his true identity as a "child of the Most High God."

3. Sports Analogies in Church Leadership:

• Jim discusses how principles from sports—such as team unity, shared vision, and coaching—can be applied to church leadership and structure.
• The church as a team, where pastors act as coaches to equip and release their congregation to fulfill their roles in ministry.

4. The Seven Essentials of Church Leadership:

1. Abide in Christ: The foundation of all ministry work.
2. Reach the Lost: Sharing the gospel and making disciples.
3. Connect the Unconnected: Ensuring new believers are integrated into the church community.
4. Chase the Strays: Actively pursuing those who have disconnected from the church.
5. Shepherd Towards Maturity: Guiding believers toward spiritual maturity.
6. Identify, Train, and Release Leaders: Developing and empowering leaders within the church.
7. Maintain Unity: Keeping the church body united in vision and purpose.

5. Practical Implementation:

• Real-life examples of how Jim and his team hold themselves and each other accountable to abide in Christ.
• The role of spiritual disciplines such as prayer, personal Bible study, and communal accountability in maintaining a healthy spiritual life.
• The importance of leaders being open about their struggles and allowing others to hold them accountable.

Reflective Questions:

• How do you currently abide in Christ beyond your regular church activities?
• In what ways do you find your identity in your role rather than in Christ? How can you shift this focus?
• How can your church leadership team implement principles from sports, such as team unity and coaching, to strengthen your congregation?

To watch all episodes of this podcast go to: https://realliferesources.org/church-is-a-team-sport/

Contact Information: If you have questions or need further resources, please reach out to us at info@jimputman.com.

"We've got a system, in the church in America, that does not produce disciples that make disciples - which means our systems do not produce what we say we value."

In this episode of Church is a Team Sport, Lance Wigton and Jim Putman discuss the value of Small Groups, and how they are vital to the growth of discipleship in your church. Join us as we unveil the blueprint for turning small groups into the backbone of a championship-winning team.

Small groups play a crucial role in building a championship team by providing a space for coaching and discipleship that goes beyond mere knowledge acquisition. In these settings, members develop relational skill sets and practice living out the fruit of the Spirit in real-time situations. The transition from large group settings to small groups and then to individual lives fosters progression and maturity.

More shepherding occurs, involving not just the lead pastor but also volunteers rather than hired staff.

Small groups serve as a platform to raise up and identify leaders.

They act as a "watering hole," offering a deeper understanding of the members and their needs.

In summary, small groups are essential for building a championship team because they facilitate the practical application of relational and spiritual growth. This environment nurtures leadership, enhances community understanding, and supports the overall progression from group settings to individual life. Through small groups, teams can develop the cohesion and maturity needed to achieve championship-level success.