• 091 How A Psychologist Came to Believe in Miracles…and More (Book Conversation)
    Sep 10 2024

    Geoff and Cyd talk about the impact of reading Why I Believe: A Psychologist's Thoughts on Suffering, Miracles, Science, and Faith, by Dr. Henry Cloud, specifically...

    • the place of miracles and healing in mental health concerns,
    • how encountering God often precedes evidence for God,
    • and, the power of open systems and God at work in the world.


    From the book's blurb:
    "World-renowned psychologist and leadership expert Henry Cloud has impacted millions of lives through his groundbreaking books and through his work coaching leaders of the most influential organizations in the world. But few people know the details of his own story and how he became one of the most beloved and respected psychologists and faith influencers in America.

    In this indelibly personal and vulnerable book, Dr. Cloud leads us through his early struggles with illness and depression and the miracles that healed him and led him to his calling as a healer of others. Through masterful storytelling combined with a deeply nuanced understanding of the human mind, Dr. Cloud invites readers to inhabit the spaces of suffering and elation that make us most human and to walk alongside of him as he ponders the great questions we are so often afraid to ask but which also give life meaning."

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    29 mins
  • 090 Risky Play, Fun, and the Life of Faith
    Jul 25 2024

    Why do kids climb trees, run really fast, and spin until they fall over? What is the benefit of risky play? And what does that have to do with attaching to God and our spiritual life?

    In this episode, we look at the research regarding play and how it connects to attaching to God.

    Baggage Claim: Don't miss the new segment where we finish by claiming some overproductive tendencies we share.

    Resources:

    • The Circle of Security (website)
    • "Decline in Independent Activity as a Cause of Decline in Children’s Mental Well-being" (article PDF)
    • The Anxious Generation (book)




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    22 mins
  • 089: Our Attachment Wounds and God's Promise (with Summer Joy Gross)
    May 14 2024

    Emmanuel—God with us. We have heard this promise of God’s presence. But might our attachment wounds skew, distort, or hinder us from embracing this reality? Do we live as slaves to our attachment strategies rather than as beloved children of God? And how can we learn to do something different in our spiritual lives?

    Summer Joy Gross is an Anglican priest, retreat leader, and spiritual director whose work is guided by the belief that our stories can be transformed by God's invitation to make his love our home base. She is associate faculty of spiritual formation and the art of spiritual direction at the Healing Care Ministries' spiritual direction school. She is the host of The Presence Podcast and lives in North Georgia with her husband, their three teenagers.

    Summer has just written a book called, The Emmanuel Promise: Discovering the Security of a Life Held by God.

    You can find more about Summer here: https://www.athirstforgod.com/
    And the Presence Project here: https://www.athirstforgod.com/the-presence-project/

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    35 mins
  • 088: Don't Do Nothing about Mental Health in the Church
    May 7 2024

    There is an innate need in all of us to know that there is something more beautiful than the dark places of the world we live in. After two losses within their community just prior to the 2020 pandemic, St. Andrew Methodist Church in Plano, TX discerned that God was asking them to go on the offense against the darkness of mental illness.

    This is the story of Beacon of Light, a ministry providing much-needed resources, support, and treatment for those struggling with mental health issues while also empowering Christ-centered communities to find hope even in the most difficult times.

    Geoff speaks with Arthur Jones and Doug Reed. Arthur is the lead pastor of St. Andrews Methodist church in Plano, Texas. Doug Reed is the executive director of Beacon of Light, launched out of St. Andrews.

    Sign up for more information: https://www.beaconoflightmh.org/newsletter

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    32 mins
  • 087: Geoff's Second Half of Life "Crisis" and why the new name
    Apr 3 2024

    The inaugural episode of season six, and all about "Geoff's Second Half of Life 'Crisis' and why we renamed the podcast" (and note, 'crisis' is in scar quotes).

    Welcome to Season 6, of what is now called the Attaching to God podcast. We are going to be doing more episodes of just the two of us talking (Cyd and Geoff). But we will also have interviews with people, and hopefully a regular guest appearance (if we can get him to commit once a month).

    In addition to this, we are adding a regular segment called "Baggage Claim" where one or both of us notice the baggage we are bringing into relationships (big things or small things) See minute "27" for this new segment.

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    34 mins
  • 086: Non-Toxic Masculinity (with Zachary Wagner)
    Jan 30 2024

    The problem of toxic masculinity is much bigger than contemporary expressions of Christianity. Mistreatment of women and men dehumanizing others is a feature of human culture fraught with sin. But the church is called to be salt and light, so how can we foster a non-toxic masculinity?

    Our guest today is Zachary Wagner, a writer, researcher, and minister. He serves as the editorial director for the Center for Pastor Theologians. We’re talking about his book Non-Toxic Masculinity: Recovering Healthy Male Sexuality.

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    31 mins
  • 085: Forming Spiritually Resilient Children (with Dr. Holly Allen)
    Jan 23 2024

    Many children today are growing up amid adversity, whether brought on by family difficulties or larger societal crises. All children need to be able to deal with stress, cope with challenges, and persevere through disappointments. While we cannot protect children from all hardships, we can promote healthy development that fosters resilience.

    Our guest, Dr. Holly Catterton Allen, recently retired from her position as Professor of Christian Ministries and Family Science at Lipscomb University in Nashville, Tennessee. Dr. Allen’s books include Intergenerational Christian Formation and Forming Resilient Children: The Role of Spiritual Formation for Healthy Development.

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    36 mins
  • 084: Mental Illness or Spiritual Issue? And how they connect (with Dr. Matthew Stanford)
    Jan 16 2024

    Research tells us that when people suffer from a mental health crisis, the first person they turn to for help is not a physician, a psychiatrist, or a social worker, but a pastor, a priest, or a minister. Unfortunately, many church leaders are not trained to recognize mental illness and don’t know when to refer someone to a mental health professional. And how do we know the difference between a mental illness and a spiritual issue?

    This is what we are talking about with Dr. Matthew Sanford, author of Grace for the Afflicted: A Clinical and Biblical Perspective on Mental Illness, and CEO of the Hope and Healing Center in Houston, TX.

    Other books by Dr. Stanford:

    • The Biology of Sin: Grace, Hope and Healing for Those Who Feel Trapped
    • Madness and Grace: A Practical Guide for Pastoral Care and Serious Mental Illness

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    38 mins