Wired for Love
How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
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Michael Hinton
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"What the heck is my partner thinking?" is a common refrain in romantic relationships and with good reason. Every person is wired for love differently, with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and rituals, making it possible to actually neurologically prime the brain for greater love and fewer conflicts.
Wired for Love is an innovative guide to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this audiobook presents 10 guiding principles that can improve any relationship.
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Why do couples fight? With Relationship Rx, renowned psychotherapist Stan Tatkin offers couples in crisis a prescription for understanding the deeper issues underlying their conflicts. Drawing from his Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT), Tatkin unpacks common causes of relationship challenges with humor and compassion. Filled with practical tools, insightful commentary on sample conflict dialogues, and an in-depth exploration of what really makes for a secure relationship, this program will help couples restore and sustain the love that brought them together.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Excellently balanced for both the avid learner, unsuspecting dunce
- By James B. on 07-18-18
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Wired for Dating
- How Understanding Neurobiology and Attachment Style Can Help You Find Your Ideal Mate
- By: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Jonathan Yen
- Length: 7 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
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Everybody wants someone to love and spend time with, and searching for your ideal partner is a natural and healthy human tendency. Just about everyone dates at some point in their life, yet few really understand what they're doing or how to get the best results. In Wired for Dating, psychologist and relationship expert Stan Tatkin - author of Wired for Love - offers powerful tips based in neuroscience and attachment theory to help you find a compatible mate and go on to create a fabulous relationship.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Title is misleading
- By tfarmer on 06-10-18
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In Each Other's Care
- A Guide to the Most Common Relationship Conflicts and How to Work Through Them
- By: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT, Lin Chen
- Narrated by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT, Andrew Pike, Dagny Chika, and others
- Length: 12 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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Few things are more frustrating than repeating the same fight with your partner. Playing out the same disagreement about money, parenting, sex, or household chores may leave you exhausted, cut off from the person you want to feel close to. While conflict in any relationship is inevitable, healing is possible. With In Each Other's Care, Stan Tatkin shares a hands-on repair manual that will help you discover how arguments get triggered, why they keep happening, and what you can do to get better at communicating what you want without the drama.
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5 out of 5 stars
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I love Tatkin’s work and message.
- By Phil H on 07-04-23
By: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT, and others
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We Do
- Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love
- By: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Matthew Boston
- Length: 7 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
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In We Do, Tatkin provides a groundbreaking guide for couples. You'll figure out whether you and your partner are right for each other in the long term, and if so, give your relationship a strong foundation so you can enjoy a secure and lasting love.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Info great but awful narration
- By Sharleen on 03-28-19
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What Every Therapist Ought to Know
- Attachment, Arousal Regulation, and Clinical Techniques in Couple Therapy
- By: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Length: 9 hrs and 29 mins
- Original Recording
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Couple therapy combines the intense work of one-on-one sessions with the need for close mediation skills - which is why the practice can be twice as difficult and emotionally draining. This is why Stan Tatkin put together What Every Therapist Ought to Know - a comprehensive guide to the psychobiological approach to couple therapy.
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5 out of 5 stars
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New therapist- listening
- By Vince on 12-12-22
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The Power of Attachment
- How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships
- By: Diane Poole Heller PhD, Peter A. Levine
- Narrated by: Emily Durante
- Length: 6 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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From our earliest years, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our daily emotional landscape, our relationships, and how we feel about ourselves. And in the wake of a traumatic event - such as a car accident, severe illness, loss of a loved one, or experience of abuse - that attachment style can deeply influence what happens next.
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5 out of 5 stars
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I now know more about attachment in relationships
- By Bao on 03-03-21
By: Diane Poole Heller PhD, and others
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The Language of Emotions (Revised and Updated)
- What Your Feelings Are Trying to Tell You
- By: Karla McLaren M.Ed
- Narrated by: Karla McLaren M.Ed
- Length: 20 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
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Every emotion—even shame, anger, and anxiety—brings us vital information and wisdom. “Too often, we either repress our feelings or let them run wild,” says researcher and educator Karla McLaren. “What many of us were never taught are the fundamental skills for honoring and understanding our profound, powerful emotions.” In this new edition of The Language of Emotions, McLaren takes us much deeper than naming or managing our feelings—she teaches us to listen to the messages within each emotion, reflect on their questions, and incorporate their wisdom into our lives.
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5 out of 5 stars
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An important step to understand life by understanding emotions
- By Anonymous User on 03-05-24
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Hold Me Tight
- Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
- By: Dr. Sue Johnson EdD
- Narrated by: Helen Keeley
- Length: 8 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
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Heralded by the New York Times and Time as the couples therapy with the highest rate of success, Emotionally Focused Therapy works because it views the love relationship as an attachment bond. This idea, once controversial, is now supported by science, and has become widely popular among therapists around the world. In Hold Me Tight, Dr. Sue Johnson presents Emotionally Focused Therapy to the general public for the first time. Johnson teaches that the way to save and enrich a relationship is to reestablish safe emotional connection and preserve the attachment bond.
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1 out of 5 stars
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No PDFs
- By Michelle Johann on 09-11-20
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Us
- Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship
- By: Terrence Real
- Narrated by: Terrence Real, Bruce Springsteen
- Length: 10 hrs and 11 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 786
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At a time when toxic individualism is rending our society at every level, bestselling author and renowned marriage counselor Terrence Real sees how it poisons intimate relationships in his therapy practice, where he works with couples on the brink of disaster. The good news: Warmer, closer, more passionate relationships are possible if you have the right tools. In his transformative new book Us, Real brilliantly observes how our winner-takes-all culture infiltrates families with devastating results.
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4 out of 5 stars
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I preferred Fierce Intimacy
- By Jose on 06-23-22
By: Terrence Real
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Secure Love
- Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime
- By: Julie Menanno
- Narrated by: Julie Menanno
- Length: 10 hrs and 27 mins
- Unabridged
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What does a healthy relationship look like? A good question, in theory, but couple’s therapist Julie Menanno wants you to consider: what does a securely attached relationship feel like? The answer to this question is the ultimate goal in Secure Love, an “incredibly wise and helpful guide” (Jen Sincero, New York Times bestselling author of You Are a Badass) to understanding secure attachment in adult relationships.
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5 out of 5 stars
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I can fix myself.
- By Shirley on 09-27-24
By: Julie Menanno
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Healing Your Attachment Wounds
- How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships
- By: Diane Poole Heller
- Narrated by: Diane Poole Heller
- Length: 6 hrs and 6 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 1,005
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From our earliest years, teaches Diane Poole Heller, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our intimate relationships, with our children, and at work. And traumatic events can deeply affect that core relational blueprint. With Healing Your Attachment Wounds, a pioneer in attachment theory and trauma resolution brings together these two fields to help us understand and benefit from their complementary principles and methods.
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5 out of 5 stars
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u mean i’m not doomed to self inflicted suffocating loneliness?
- By SidVid on 01-20-20
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Anxiously Attached
- Becoming More Secure in Life and Love
- By: Jessica Baum LMHC
- Narrated by: Jessica Baum LMHC
- Length: 9 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 431
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An estimated 47 million Americans identify as having an anxious attachment style, which can make being in relationships turbulent and emotionally taxing for them. According to groundbreaking research in the field of attachment, anxious types are more prone to insecurity, jealousy, codependency, and other behaviors that get in the way of finding and sustaining love.
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2 out of 5 stars
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So slow
- By RSC on 04-20-23
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Attached
- The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love
- By: Amir Levine, Rachel Heller
- Narrated by: Robert Petkoff
- Length: 7 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 9,678
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 7,940
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We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller scientifically explain why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Good book - just not a good one for Audible
- By Mark on 02-01-20
By: Amir Levine, and others
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Insecure in Love
- How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It
- By: Leslie Becker-Phelps PhD
- Narrated by: Susan Boyce
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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In Insecure in Love, you'll learn how to overcome attachment anxiety using compassionate self-awareness, a technique that can help you recognize your negative thoughts or unhealthy behavior patterns and respond to them in a nurturing way - rather than beating yourself up. You'll also learn how insecurity can negatively affect healthy dialog between you and your partner (or potential partners) and develop the skills needed to stop you from reverting back to old patterns of neediness and possessiveness.
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4 out of 5 stars
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attachment theory
- By erika on 02-08-16
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Fight Right
- How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection
- By: Julie Schwartz Gottman PhD, John Gottman PhD
- Narrated by: Roy Worley, Kiiri Sandy
- Length: 10 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
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How we fight predicts the future of our relationships. Most of us blunder into conflict without knowing what we are really fighting about and then quickly become overwhelmed by physiological responses we can’t control and emotions we don’t anticipate. The truth is the happiest and most successful couples fight—all the time. Conflict is human, and necessary.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Excellent summary of their research
- By Robert B. Davis on 02-28-24
By: Julie Schwartz Gottman PhD, and others
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Getting the Love You Want
- A Guide for Couples: Third Edition
- By: Harville Hendrix, Helen LaKelly Hunt
- Narrated by: Harville Hendrix, Helen LaKelly Hunt
- Length: 10 hrs and 11 mins
- Unabridged
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The New York Times best-selling guide to transforming an intimate relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship, now fully revised with a new foreword and a brand-new chapter.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Terrible narration
- By Nancy on 04-30-19
By: Harville Hendrix, and others
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- Amanda
- 10-26-18
Everyone should read this
I only wish this book were longer becuase I didnt want it to end. Great information for everyone wanting to relate to others.
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- Amazon Customer
- 06-21-18
Great
Great book loved the examples they give and the short stories of different kind of couples
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- Edwardo
- 01-29-17
A must read
So much sense opening data that will change your life for the best. This book could save 90% of our worldly conflicts. Thank you thank you Thank you so much!!
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- Elizabeth Jones
- 03-07-23
A wonderful secular relationship guide!
I really enjoyed this book. It was easy to understand, easy to follow, packed with good science based information, and narrated well. I also enjoyed that this book was secular and included talk about same sex couples. I liked that the author used conversation of all different types of couples - young, older, straight, gay, healthy, troubled, childless, etc and so many scenarios to help the reader see how these things can play out. The narrator did a good job at all these different characters.
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- Anonymous User
- 12-02-23
It was reassuring
This book gave me the confidence that things I want to have and achieve in a relationship aren’t asking for too much. If you don’t have a partner that is trying to understand you, and willing to put in the work with you, you probably have the wrong partner.
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- Cat
- 12-05-17
I like Wired for Dating much more
I read Wired for Dating, which is great! So I purchased Wired for Love. However the ideas in these two books are absolutely the same...
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- Christopher J. Decicco
- 04-08-22
Narrator is a Distraction
The book itself was deeply insightful and profound. The performance was unprofessional and distracting. Too many glottal stops and sloppy speech patterns, making common words like “important” into “impor’-in,” or “threaten” into “threh’-in.” Who hired this voice actor in the first place?
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- Jennifer Drew Lindsey
- 06-02-22
This book should be mandated reading!
One of the most helpful books - you won’t regret it and will tell others to read it when you’re done!
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- Liane M. Sakai
- 12-31-23
Helpful!!!
Has some insightful and practical application for healing childhood wounds and becoming more secure in relationships
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- D.G.
- 06-23-24
What we stopped noticing
This book makes you open up your eyes. noticing things that you think are normal but your partner does not. this book makes you realize that you are in a partnership and the most important thing is the relationship. this book has helped me a lot by making me open my eyes.
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