Why Did You Stay?
No se pudo agregar al carrito
Add to Cart failed.
Error al Agregar a Lista de Deseos.
Error al eliminar de la lista de deseos.
Error al añadir a tu biblioteca
Error al seguir el podcast
Error al dejar de seguir el podcast
Exclusivo para miembros Prime: ¿Nuevo en Audible? Obtén 2 audiolibros gratis con tu prueba.
Why Did You Stay?
Compra ahora por $15.97
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrado por:
-
Rebecca Humphries
Acerca de esta escucha
Actor, writer and hopeless romantic Rebecca Humphries had often been called crazy by her boyfriend. But when paparazzi caught him kissing his Strictly Come Dancing partner, she realised the only crazy thing was believing she didn't deserve more.
Forced into victimhood by the story, Rebecca chose to reclaim her power, posting her thoughts on social media, including advice for other women who might be experiencing what she realised she'd managed to escape: a toxic, oppressive relationship. A flood of support poured in, but amongst the well-wishes was a simple question with an infinitely complex answer: 'if he was so bad, why did you stay?'
Empowering, unflinching and full of humour, this book takes that question and owns it. Using her relationship history, coming-of-age stories and experiences since the Strictly scandal, Rebecca explores why good girls are drawn to darkness, whether pop culture glamourises toxicity, when a relationship 'rough patch' becomes the start of a destructive cycle, if women are conditioned for co-dependency and—ultimately—how to reframe disaster into something magical.
©2022 Rebecca Humphries (P)2022 Hachette Audio UKLos oyentes también disfrutaron...
-
Psychopath Free: Expanded Edition
- Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships with Narcissists, Sociopaths & Other Toxic People
- De: Jackson MacKenzie
- Narrado por: Shaun Grindell
- Duración: 7 h y 57 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 3,462
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 2,991
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 2,965
The psychopath carefully selects the most indifferent and heartbreaking way imaginable to abandon you. They destroy you as a way to reassure themselves. Psychopath Free will help you out of the darkness so that you can begin making better choices that will forever alter the course of your life. So say farewell to love triangles, cryptic letters, self-doubt, and manufactured anxiety. You are no longer a pawn in the mind games of a psychopath. You are free.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Be kind to yourself and read this book.
- De GoodMonster en 09-19-15
-
Believing Me
- Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Complex Trauma
- De: Ingrid Clayton
- Narrado por: Ingrid Clayton PhD
- Duración: 7 h y 14 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 133
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 118
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 118
What if emotional abuse is so hidden that its effects remain unchallenged for decades, masquerading as personal failings? Believing Me is an emotionally gripping memoir that gives language to the hidden and ineffable nature of childhood trauma and how it can imprint on a person, resulting in fractured self-esteem, addictions, perfectionism, and a string of abusive relationships.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
Someone else caused all my problems
- De Searcy Custom Homes en 12-03-23
De: Ingrid Clayton
-
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
- Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist
- De: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Narrado por: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Duración: 10 h y 46 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 1,283
-
Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 1,087
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 1,082
Should I Stay or Should I Go? is a survival manual, a guidebook, and a shot of reality. Some people will never change, and kissing frogs is the stuff of fairy tales, not real life. The Beast never turns out to be a nice guy (or gal). This is a book that breaks down what mean people do to us, how they do it, and what we can do to survive.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Wake up call !
- De sashy en 08-18-16
-
"Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility
- De: Ramani S. Durvasula PhD
- Narrado por: Ramani S. Durvasula PhD
- Duración: 19 h y 6 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 544
-
Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 461
-
Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 455
Health and wellness campaigns preach avoidance of unhealthy foods, sedentary lifestyles, tobacco, drugs, and alcohol, but rarely preach avoidance of unhealthy, difficult, or toxic people. Yet the health benefits of removing toxic people from your life may have far greater benefits to both physical and psychological health. We need to learn to be better gatekeepers for our minds, bodies, and souls. Narcissism, entitlement, and incivility have become the new world order, and we are all in trouble. They are not only normalized but also increasingly incentivized.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Excellent reality check
- De Lisa Rose en 10-11-19
-
Blind to Betrayal
- Why We Fool Ourselves We Aren't Being Fooled
- De: Jennifer Freyd, Pamela Birrell
- Narrado por: A. Savalas
- Duración: 8 h y 21 m
- Versión completa
-
General4.5 out of 5 stars 55
-
Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 48
-
Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 48
One of the world's top experts on betrayal looks at why we often can't see it right in front of our faces. If the cover-up is worse than the crime, blindness to betrayal can be worse than the betrayal itself. Whether the betrayer is an unfaithful spouse, an abusive authority figure, an unfair boss, or a corrupt institution, we often refuse to see the truth in order to protect ourselves. This book explores the fascinating phenomenon of how and why we ignore or deny betrayal, and what we can gain by transforming "betrayal blindness" into insight.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
How relatable it felt
- De Alex S. en 03-29-24
De: Jennifer Freyd, y otros
-
Out of the Fog
- Moving from Confusion to Clarity After Narcissistic Abuse
- De: Dana Morningstar
- Narrado por: Dana Morningstar
- Duración: 8 h y 59 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 1,367
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 1,153
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 1,143
The FOG is an acronym that stands for "Fear, Obligation, and Guilt". These three emotions are often how narcissists, sociopaths, and other types of emotional manipulators go about controlling others.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
THE best book I’ve ever read on the subject
- De Alexandria Filipowski en 10-23-19
De: Dana Morningstar
-
Psychopath Free: Expanded Edition
- Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships with Narcissists, Sociopaths & Other Toxic People
- De: Jackson MacKenzie
- Narrado por: Shaun Grindell
- Duración: 7 h y 57 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 3,462
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 2,991
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 2,965
The psychopath carefully selects the most indifferent and heartbreaking way imaginable to abandon you. They destroy you as a way to reassure themselves. Psychopath Free will help you out of the darkness so that you can begin making better choices that will forever alter the course of your life. So say farewell to love triangles, cryptic letters, self-doubt, and manufactured anxiety. You are no longer a pawn in the mind games of a psychopath. You are free.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Be kind to yourself and read this book.
- De GoodMonster en 09-19-15
-
Believing Me
- Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Complex Trauma
- De: Ingrid Clayton
- Narrado por: Ingrid Clayton PhD
- Duración: 7 h y 14 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 133
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 118
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 118
What if emotional abuse is so hidden that its effects remain unchallenged for decades, masquerading as personal failings? Believing Me is an emotionally gripping memoir that gives language to the hidden and ineffable nature of childhood trauma and how it can imprint on a person, resulting in fractured self-esteem, addictions, perfectionism, and a string of abusive relationships.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
Someone else caused all my problems
- De Searcy Custom Homes en 12-03-23
De: Ingrid Clayton
-
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
- Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist
- De: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Narrado por: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Duración: 10 h y 46 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 1,283
-
Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 1,087
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 1,082
Should I Stay or Should I Go? is a survival manual, a guidebook, and a shot of reality. Some people will never change, and kissing frogs is the stuff of fairy tales, not real life. The Beast never turns out to be a nice guy (or gal). This is a book that breaks down what mean people do to us, how they do it, and what we can do to survive.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Wake up call !
- De sashy en 08-18-16
-
"Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility
- De: Ramani S. Durvasula PhD
- Narrado por: Ramani S. Durvasula PhD
- Duración: 19 h y 6 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 544
-
Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 461
-
Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 455
Health and wellness campaigns preach avoidance of unhealthy foods, sedentary lifestyles, tobacco, drugs, and alcohol, but rarely preach avoidance of unhealthy, difficult, or toxic people. Yet the health benefits of removing toxic people from your life may have far greater benefits to both physical and psychological health. We need to learn to be better gatekeepers for our minds, bodies, and souls. Narcissism, entitlement, and incivility have become the new world order, and we are all in trouble. They are not only normalized but also increasingly incentivized.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Excellent reality check
- De Lisa Rose en 10-11-19
-
Blind to Betrayal
- Why We Fool Ourselves We Aren't Being Fooled
- De: Jennifer Freyd, Pamela Birrell
- Narrado por: A. Savalas
- Duración: 8 h y 21 m
- Versión completa
-
General4.5 out of 5 stars 55
-
Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 48
-
Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 48
One of the world's top experts on betrayal looks at why we often can't see it right in front of our faces. If the cover-up is worse than the crime, blindness to betrayal can be worse than the betrayal itself. Whether the betrayer is an unfaithful spouse, an abusive authority figure, an unfair boss, or a corrupt institution, we often refuse to see the truth in order to protect ourselves. This book explores the fascinating phenomenon of how and why we ignore or deny betrayal, and what we can gain by transforming "betrayal blindness" into insight.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
How relatable it felt
- De Alex S. en 03-29-24
De: Jennifer Freyd, y otros
-
Out of the Fog
- Moving from Confusion to Clarity After Narcissistic Abuse
- De: Dana Morningstar
- Narrado por: Dana Morningstar
- Duración: 8 h y 59 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 1,367
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 1,153
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 1,143
The FOG is an acronym that stands for "Fear, Obligation, and Guilt". These three emotions are often how narcissists, sociopaths, and other types of emotional manipulators go about controlling others.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
THE best book I’ve ever read on the subject
- De Alexandria Filipowski en 10-23-19
De: Dana Morningstar
-
The Body Keeps the Score
- Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
- De: Bessel van der Kolk M.D.
- Narrado por: Sean Pratt
- Duración: 16 h y 15 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 12,478
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 10,530
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 10,439
Trauma is a fact of life. Veterans and their families deal with the painful aftermath of combat; one in five Americans has been molested; one in four grew up with alcoholics; one in three couples have engaged in physical violence. Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, one of the world’s foremost experts on trauma, has spent more than three decades working with survivors. In The Body Keeps the Score, he uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma literally reshapes both body and brain, compromising sufferers’ capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
Overall Worthwhile, Lingers Too Long in the Why
- De LittleBeadsOfMercury en 04-07-21
-
Traumatic Narcissism (1st Edition)
- Relational Systems of Subjugation
- De: Daniel Shaw
- Narrado por: David Marantz
- Duración: 8 h y 56 m
- Versión completa
-
General4.5 out of 5 stars 46
-
Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 40
-
Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 40
In Traumatic Narcissism, Daniel Shaw presents a way of understanding the traumatic impact of narcissism as it is engendered developmentally and as it is enacted relationally. Focusing on the dynamics of narcissism in interpersonal relations, Shaw describes the relational system of what he terms the "traumatizing narcissist" as a system of subjugation - the objectification of one person in a relationship as the means of enforcing the dominance of the subjectivity of the other.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
Excellent
- De melinda kingsley en 12-24-24
De: Daniel Shaw
-
What My Bones Know
- A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma
- De: Stephanie Foo
- Narrado por: Stephanie Foo
- Duración: 10 h y 2 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 4,040
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 3,640
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 3,633
By age thirty, Stephanie Foo was successful on paper: She had her dream job as an award-winning radio producer at This American Life and a loving boyfriend. But behind her office door, she was having panic attacks and sobbing at her desk every morning. After years of questioning what was wrong with herself, she was diagnosed with complex PTSD—a condition that occurs when trauma happens continuously, over the course of years.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Complex PTSD from a patient's point of view!
- De Howard_a en 05-24-22
De: Stephanie Foo
-
Little Voices
- How Kids in Spirit Helped a Reluctant Medium Escape and Heal from Abuse
- De: Kiersten Parsons Hathcock
- Narrado por: Kiersten Parsons Hathcock
- Duración: 10 h y 3 m
- Versión completa
-
General4.5 out of 5 stars 38
-
Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 34
-
Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 34
Never in a million years did Kiersten Parsons Hathcock—a Shark Tank-winning entrepreneur with an internationally known furniture company—think she would suddenly start channeling children in spirit at the age of thirty-six. She never expected that, while she was helping them reveal the secrets of their deaths, they would help her see dark and painful secrets buried in her own psyche.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
If you want to be inspired, empowered, and enlightened, get this book!
- De Angela Lomenzo en 04-05-23
-
The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist
- Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse
- De: Debbie Mirza
- Narrado por: Debbie Mirza
- Duración: 6 h y 42 m
- Versión completa
-
General4.5 out of 5 stars 2,953
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 2,587
-
Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 2,569
The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse is the most comprehensive and helpful audiobook on the topic of covert narcissism. This type of narcissism is one of the most damaging forms because the abuse is so hidden and so insidious. You can be in a relationship that can last for decades and not realize you are being psychologically and emotionally controlled, manipulated, and abused.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
This book CHANGED MY LIFE!
- De Mojo en 12-19-18
De: Debbie Mirza
-
Why Does He Do That?
- Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
- De: Lundy Bancroft
- Narrado por: Peter Berkrot
- Duración: 13 h y 32 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 2,241
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 1,915
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 1,894
He says he loves you. So...why does he do that? You've asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men---and to change your life. In this groundbreaking book, a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men shows you how to improve, survive, or leave an abusive relationship.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
I needed this.
- De james p weiss en 09-07-17
De: Lundy Bancroft
-
Trauma Bonding: Understanding and Overcoming the Trauma Bond in a Narcissistic Relationship
- Narcissistic Relationship Recovery, Book 1
- De: Lauren Kozlowski
- Narrado por: Stephanie Murphy
- Duración: 1 h y 37 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 596
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 547
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 542
If you're constantly feeling on edge, forever working to appease your spouse to little avail and feel like you're constantly being chipped away at with their abusive behavior, then I can understand how emotionally shattering it feels to live this way. If, in the same breath, it breaks your heart to even consider leaving them because you can't imagine life without them, then I can understand that feeling too - because I was trauma bonded to my abusive ex.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
Not relevant for everyone dealing with trauma bonding
- De Alesia Braund en 11-18-20
De: Lauren Kozlowski
-
If Only I'd Known!
- How to Outsmart Narcissists, Set Guilt-Free Boundaries, and Create Unshakeable Self-Worth
- De: Chelsey Brooke Cole
- Narrado por: Chelsey Brooke Cole
- Duración: 6 h y 20 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 58
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 55
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 55
Narcissistic abuse creates a tidal wave of confusion, hypervigilance, and overthinking. You have trouble thinking clearly, remembering things, or taking in new information. And because these changes are happening to you, you begin to wonder: What's wrong with me? Why can't I make this relationship work? Am I fundamentally broken? And that's exactly how narcissistic abuse works—it happens so subtly that you believe the insecurities you're experiencing are "you" instead of "what's happening" to you. This audiobook covers unique information related to narcissistic abuse.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
This book is amazing.
- De Juan Servin en 01-03-24
-
Power
- Surviving & Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse
- De: Shahida Arabi
- Narrado por: Julie McKay
- Duración: 9 h y 48 m
- Versión completa
-
General4.5 out of 5 stars 409
-
Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 349
-
Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 352
Pathological mind games. Covert and overt put-downs. Triangulation. Gaslighting. Projection. These are the manipulative tactics survivors of malignant narcissists are unfortunately all too familiar with. As victims of silent crimes where the perpetrators are rarely held accountable, survivors of narcissistic abuse have lived in a war zone of epic proportions, enduring an abuse cycle of love-bombing and devaluation - psychological violence on steroids.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
A “Powerful” book
- De Avid reader en 10-16-17
De: Shahida Arabi
-
Glimmer
- A Story of Survival, Hope, and Healing
- De: Kimberly Shannon Murphy
- Narrado por: Kaitlin Olson
- Duración: 5 h y 4 m
- Versión completa
-
General5 out of 5 stars 95
-
Narración:5 out of 5 stars 85
-
Historia5 out of 5 stars 85
As an award-winning stuntwoman, Kimberly Shannon Murphy was intimate with pain. For years, she propelled her body through dangerous spaces—medicating the trauma of her childhood sexual abuse with the adrenaline rush that came from pushing herself to the absolute limit. But as Kimberly learned, no matter how much you suppress your past, it always catches up with you.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Loved it!
- De ShanD en 05-15-25
-
Then She Was Gone
- A Novel
- De: Lisa Jewell
- Narrado por: Helen Duff
- Duración: 10 h y 12 m
- Versión completa
-
General4.5 out of 5 stars 82,835
-
Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 73,746
-
Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 73,518
Fifteen-year-old Ellie Mack was the perfect daughter. She was beloved by her parents, friends, and teachers. She and her boyfriend made a teenage golden couple. She was days away from an idyllic summer vacation, with her whole life ahead of her. And then she was gone. Now her mother, Laurel Mack, is trying to put her life back together.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
SO GOOD
- De Ashleigh en 05-24-18
De: Lisa Jewell
-
Divorcing a Narcissist: Advice from the Battlefield
- De: Tina Swithin, Rebecca Davis Merritt
- Narrado por: Chloe Lunn
- Duración: 6 h y 32 m
- Versión completa
-
General4.5 out of 5 stars 344
-
Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 300
-
Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 295
Prior to stepping onto the battlefield with a Narcissist, it is imperative to know their playbook both forwards and backwards. The behavior of individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder generally defies logic but sadly, their tactics in the Family Court System often fool Judges, Commissioners, Attorneys, Minor's Counsel, Social Workers, Therapists, and even trained Evaluators.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Absolutely Wonderful Book!
- De Amazon Customer en 03-28-16
De: Tina Swithin, y otros
Reseñas de la Crítica
"Fierce. Game-changing. Urgently necessary. Brilliant, brilliant and did I say brilliant?" (Emma Thompson)
"Pacy, vivid, compelling and very, VERY funny...it will help so many." (Marian Keyes)
"Fuck, this is good. Every page feels important." (Lucy Vine)
Makes me feel that I am not alone
Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
I feel seen
Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
Gist is Good, too long
Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
Awesome read! helpful!
Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
Stunning, raw, beautiful and so real
Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
Important and Entertaining
Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
Annoying
Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.