The Red Flag Rulebook

50 Dating Rules to Know Whether to Keep Him or Kiss Him Good-Bye

By: Cheryl Anne Meyer, Tara Landon

Narrated by: Cheryl Anne Meyer, Tara Landon

Many women want their Mr. Right - now! And many men want their Ms. Tonight! There are a lot of books that explain how to play these fast-fix dating games; however, there are none that explain how to bring back the good old days when love had to be earned by both sexes. The Red Flag Rulebook is a tool to help women weed out the men who are not worthy by putting them through a carefully outlined test. This test can be used on first dates, or in short or long-term relationships. It instructs women on what personality traits to "red flag" and explains why it is important to watch for these traits.

In The Red Flag Rulebook, women share their stories about mortifying dating experiences, which will provide a good chuckle as well as a good eye-opener for listeners. The Red Flag Rulebook is an educational tool to give women sound advice on how to bring back patience and effort into the dating game, as well as an entertaining audio that will give women a good laugh to share on any “girls’ night out” occasion.

©2010 Cheryl Anne Meyer, Tara Landon (P)2010 Gildan Media Corp

I’m a guy in the PUA community- it’s worthwhile!

Some of the critics here are unrealistic! I’m not sure what they expected.

I thought this book is worth going through! A lot of what is taught is fundamental, but it doesn’t hurt to be reminded of the fundamentals- especially when you’re blinded by love!

About me- I’m a 38 year old guy in the PUA community. I’ve gone through several books for guys on picking up women. Before you disregard me, I think girls need to understand PUAs a little better. I’m currently deployed to Iraq, When I return home, I want to be wild for a few months and then I want to get married and start a family. I got into pick-up for motivation. My life got too serious, too young and I want to feel like I lived before I get married. Also I started at ground zero and had little direction and guidance from parents who were influenced by third world country mentality.

If you are in the PUA community, I think it’s worth going through this as well as a few other dating books for girls. They help!

My only complaint is I thought the narrator was a tad bit annoying. She sounded like a bubbly, entitled and proud girl. She is engaging though and I didn’t find it to be a boring listen.

Good luck to the girls, and to any PUAs who are open to listening to this!

Put yourself 1st

Actually, to be honest, all the red flags were true. I just think as women we need to be able to leave the wrong person when there is a major red flag or a few little red flags. There are two reminders that can’t be emphasised enough. One, to let the bad ones go, so you can grow with the right good man. Two, We can never be reminded enough and have it instilled in us to make ourselves priority “Don’ make a man your priority, when you are only their option” Congrats to a book that every woman who has had a red flag man, will go on to succeed find a green flagged man!

Red Flag thrown on this book: Buyer Beware!

If you're into hearing the myriad ways in which men just aren't good enough for today's women, then this book is for you.
This book comes off as sexist, egotistical, self-centered, selfish, egocentric, egomaniacal, self-interested, self-seeking, self-absorbed, narcissistic, vain, conceited and self-important. If you listen to this book NO man will be good enough for you.
He will be either too committed or not committed enough, too much into his friends or too much of a loner. He'll be overly driven to succeed or not driven enough or he will either be too controlling or too much of a push-over and the list goes on and on ad nauseam. If a man or men had written a book like this there would be marches and book burnings across the country and it would be the next cause celeb.

This book is all about Man-Hating. This book proves that men, in general, have given away to much of their own power to women. All men need to start throwing red flags of their own on women, especially on the overly critical ones such as these. I'll start us off by throwing a red flag on the authors of this title.

If women read this book and follow what the authors advise then they will be undoubtedly alone with their cats and deservedly so.

For teenagers and college students only..

What disappointed you about The Red Flag Rulebook?

This book is clearly for college-aged students or younger. If you are over 22, don't waste your time.

Trite and cliché dating advice

If you're over the age of 25, do not buy this audiobook. It will insult your intelligence. While the premise is interesting, the overall content is shallow and not to be taken seriously.